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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Hollyoaks - well this is creepy!

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Imnobody4 · 07/03/2024 12:25

This is an important conversation to have #Hollyoaks

https://twitter.com/Flashmaggie/status/1765511265076613611?t=DMjXSrOUX7zq5tzRgsRGEA&s=19

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Helleofabore · 07/03/2024 17:03

Froodwithatowel · 07/03/2024 16:56

Ffs, is there anyone at this point who isn't supposed to be in bed with the far right?

Is safeguarding and basic sanity now the territory of the political right? Seriously?

Frankly those accusations of 'far right' are proving to be fucking ridiculous.

If it prevents someone from actually reading the original source information and evaluating it with a whole lot of other original source information that they have searched for and found, then it makes the accuser look not just like a fool, but it makes the accusation about ridiculous political affiliations look narrow minded. That they cannot read something because it was written by someone that they disagree with. ffs.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 16:59

I don't believe anyone should be having any gender identity cosmetic surgery at all on the NHS. It's not an "illness", is it?

The NHS should not just be there to tackle illness but to promote quality of life.

Are you opposed to breastfeeding support on the NHS? IVF? Counselling for people who don't have a diagnosed mental illness?

Boiledbeetle · 07/03/2024 17:05

Many years ago there was a story line in Eastenders in which 12-year-old Whitney Dean was sexually abused by her mother’s boyfriend.

This hollyoaks clip gives off the same grooming vibes, different subject matter, but same technique.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:05

Infertility is a medical problem. I don't agree with IVF outside of that, no.

Windymoore · 07/03/2024 17:07

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 16:18

It's really not. Trans children are really under threat these days, possibly being prevented from accessing healthcare, social transitioning, maybe not even allowed to use the correct pronouns at school. With the current anti trans moral panic I'm glad that Hollyoaks have the courage to run with this, and hope some trans children are helped by it.

Ok,I understand you might be tired from a long day lobbying names at people,but even so I counted about three lazy buzzwords ("anti trans, moral panic, and correct pronouns") all of which are working under the old system of no debate: it doesn't take long to make arguments with actual facts as opposed to ad hominem slurs. As I don't get the feeling you are in a receptive mindset,I won't waste my time on those arguments you can find for your self. If this was any other faith system, along with a belief in the power of words over reality in a transubstantiation type way, it wouldn't have got to the draft stage.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:07

itsfinallytime · 07/03/2024 16:59

It's grim. This brings to mind the ex butcher turned trans woman who kidnapped and sexually assaulted that girl of a similar age to the actress in this clip.

Children are being groomed to believe that men who present as trans women are not men.

And children are harmed by this.

Children should not be encouraged to believe that it's safe to go off with any stranger, man or woman. Never heard of Myra Hindley? Ghislaine Maxwell? Plenty of women are paedophiles, or groom children on their behalf.

Windymoore · 07/03/2024 17:08

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:07

Children should not be encouraged to believe that it's safe to go off with any stranger, man or woman. Never heard of Myra Hindley? Ghislaine Maxwell? Plenty of women are paedophiles, or groom children on their behalf.

Define "plenty"?!?!

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:09

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:05

Infertility is a medical problem. I don't agree with IVF outside of that, no.

Well that is both callous and homophobic.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:09

all of which are working under the old system of no debate

FCF proclaimed yesterday evening that "no debate" existed "for a reason" on a thread and she wasn't going to debate any more. Obviously had a rethink.

Rainbowshit · 07/03/2024 17:10

Do you people really think that flinging out the words "far right" is some kind of Jedi mind trick, that will fool any of us into forgetting about the safeguarding issues we see right in front of us?

The left are truly lost.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/03/2024 17:12

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:07

Children should not be encouraged to believe that it's safe to go off with any stranger, man or woman. Never heard of Myra Hindley? Ghislaine Maxwell? Plenty of women are paedophiles, or groom children on their behalf.

Almost 99% of sex abusers are men.

Trans women are men who pose no less of a threat than any other man.

Both of the women you mentioned were accomplices to male crime. It is vanishingly rare for a women to commit this kind of crime. It is increasingly common for trans women to do so.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:12

Well that is both callous and homophobic.

No, it isn't. IVF is for fertility reasons. if women or men of any sexual orientation have fertility problems then within limits they should be able to access IVF if nothing else works. Not for any other reason.

Boiledbeetle · 07/03/2024 17:12

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:07

Children should not be encouraged to believe that it's safe to go off with any stranger, man or woman. Never heard of Myra Hindley? Ghislaine Maxwell? Plenty of women are paedophiles, or groom children on their behalf.

Children should not be encouraged to believe and trust adults behaving inappropriately that are family or friends of family or employees of family either. And I include in that men women and those that think they are the other.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:13

Boiledbeetle · 07/03/2024 17:12

Children should not be encouraged to believe and trust adults behaving inappropriately that are family or friends of family or employees of family either. And I include in that men women and those that think they are the other.

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It was a hand on the shoulder.

Helleofabore · 07/03/2024 17:14

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 16:36

There is an awful lot to read, so not all of them, but that article helps explain why they don't say what the far-right editorialiser says they say.

I see that you will actively dismiss a person writing a report for their supposed political views, but you will promote someone who wrote these abusive tweets.

Nice to know.

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Windymoore · 07/03/2024 17:14

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:09

all of which are working under the old system of no debate

FCF proclaimed yesterday evening that "no debate" existed "for a reason" on a thread and she wasn't going to debate any more. Obviously had a rethink.

Was the reason that FCF's argument has all the resilience of a paper plane in a hurricane?

Boiledbeetle · 07/03/2024 17:14

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:13

It was a hand on the shoulder.

And?oops s pressed wrong button.

Did you miss the rest of the stuff going on?

I'm honestly thinking you don't have safe guarding training

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:15

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:12

Well that is both callous and homophobic.

No, it isn't. IVF is for fertility reasons. if women or men of any sexual orientation have fertility problems then within limits they should be able to access IVF if nothing else works. Not for any other reason.

What a mean spirited attitude.

Rainbowshit · 07/03/2024 17:17

@ForCoralFox

"Ereshkigalangcleg
And that's why parents need to know exactly who their children are talking to online and at school etc.

But the parents do know this person. She works for them."

This statement is astonishing from someone who claims to have worked with at risk children. It shows zero understanding of how grooming happens. It's not just the children that are groomed but quite often the parents too. Abusers spend years sometimes getting themselves positions of trust.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:17

@ForCoralFox

If I cared what you thought about anything I imagine I'd be devastated, but luckily

Helleofabore · 07/03/2024 17:18

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 16:36

There is an awful lot to read, so not all of them, but that article helps explain why they don't say what the far-right editorialiser says they say.

By the way..... do you think that Evan Urquhart is credible after this article?

https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/07/wi-spa-la-transphobic-protest.html

I mean, at least they posted a correction. I will give them that.

Violence Over an Alleged Transphobic Hoax Shows the Danger of Underestimating Anti-Trans Hate

Police reportedly suspect the viral L.A. Wi Spa video is fake—but it still got two people stabbed.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/07/wi-spa-la-transphobic-protest.html

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:18

lifeturnsonadime · 07/03/2024 17:12

Almost 99% of sex abusers are men.

Trans women are men who pose no less of a threat than any other man.

Both of the women you mentioned were accomplices to male crime. It is vanishingly rare for a women to commit this kind of crime. It is increasingly common for trans women to do so.

2,297 reported incidents between 2015 and 2019, which will be dwarfed by unreported incidents. Are you really suggesting children be told it's safe to go anywhere with an unknown woman?

Helleofabore · 07/03/2024 17:20

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:15

What a mean spirited attitude.

Do you think it is appropriate for someone to exploit another woman's fertility to have a child?

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 17:22

Rainbowshit · 07/03/2024 17:17

@ForCoralFox

"Ereshkigalangcleg
And that's why parents need to know exactly who their children are talking to online and at school etc.

But the parents do know this person. She works for them."

This statement is astonishing from someone who claims to have worked with at risk children. It shows zero understanding of how grooming happens. It's not just the children that are groomed but quite often the parents too. Abusers spend years sometimes getting themselves positions of trust.

Yes, but to be grooming someone you have to be actually doing something that constitutes grooming.

What is this woman doing? She told the boy not to play truant from school, briefly placed her hands on his shoulders, and told him to tell his parents what was distressing him. What could possibly constitute grooming?

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 07/03/2024 17:22

Both of the women you mentioned were accomplices to male crime. It is vanishingly rare for a women to commit this kind of crime

Wow.
Find this whole"women are always poor little victims" narrative pushed on here sometimes absolutely disgusting.
You're excusing Myra Hyndley, FFS listen to yourself.

(Edited as bold didn't work properly)