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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

My son can tell...

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allthevitamins · 18/02/2024 20:33

Watching 'Inside the Factory' on BBC1 with DS, 10.

Cherry Healy was talking about lightbulbs with Dr Clara Barker, Materials Scientist.

Please note this is not personal in relation to Dr Baker.

Dr Barker is Transwoman.

DS says, 'is that a lady?'.

I say no, it's a man.

We left it at that.

I mean Dr Barker is quite feminine.

But unprompted, my DS knew that Dr Barker is not a woman.

Why should I have to lie to him about this?

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senua · 01/03/2024 10:58

I won’t be posting again so don’t worry about trying to justify such views
Don't worry. We already know that you can never define, explain, justify or answer any other basic questions.

Whatthechicken · 01/03/2024 11:04

pronounsbundlebundle · 01/03/2024 09:25

Telling male from female is an evolutionarily hardwired instinct in many mammals (not just humans) particularly for the large gamete producers (also known as females).

It shows the misogyny that because men aren't as good at this particular skill of recognising sex, no matter how much attempt to disguise, they think it doesn't exist.

It's the whole 'oh, women can't actually have independent experiences and thoughts that are different from ours' Talibanesque misogyny again.

I was on a diversity course about 10 years ago, the trainer was male. He said the first thing everyone clocks about another human is their race.

I disagreed, I said for me, it was sex - it's an unconscious, immediate thing, an instinctual assessment and it's there for good reason.

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