I think it's perfectly obvious to most people, MrsOverton, that you are an expert in child safeguarding.
Your posts are always comprehensively well informed.
And yes, Adam is completely inconsistent.
It's nuanced, dependent on context, and teachers should consider and think about specific cases over days or weeks, but they also don't have the time or money to do anything about it and we shouldn't expect them to.
What parents decide for their children is no one's business, whilst simultaneously teachers know enough about the parents attitude to accurately judge whether to involve them.
And it's best to leave a child to get on with it for a couple of weeks, because it's trivial, but at the same time, you have to keep it secret from the parents, in case they go off alarming because it's so significant.
The goalposts of trans ideology shift at such a breakneck speed, you get whiplash.