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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sunak telling Robin White that biological sex is important live on GB news

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fromorbit · 12/02/2024 21:09

'Particularly when it comes to questions around women's safety and health, biological sex is important.' Parents need to be involved in schools.

Rishi Sunak is asked 'why should LGBT people vote Conservative?'
GB News forum footage here:
https://twitter.com/GBNEWS/status/1757143443111841900

https://twitter.com/GBNEWS/status/1757143443111841900

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EasternStandard · 15/02/2024 16:00

Datun · 15/02/2024 15:38

I'm irritated about criticism of the use of the word busy.

It's almost as though yes, schools are indoctrinating children, and they're all growing up believing in gender identity, but unless loads schools are actually forcing transition on them, behind their parents back, then they're not 'bizzy' are they?

It's the nitpicking over the extent of it. When the extent of it is quite clearly significant.

Yes it is evident

Helleofabore · 15/02/2024 16:29

Whether it was intended to or not the "No school has been "busy socially transitioning children", don't be ridiculous" combined with the breezy "Much as you might dislike it, it is none of your beeswax how other parents handle their child's gender identity" and the lack of even reading the recommendations and engaging with them or the findings summary of the FOIs just comes across as dismissive.

It truly is remarkable for feminists and parents to be told : "Much as you might dislike it, it is none of your beeswax how other parents handle their child's gender identity" by someone on a feminist board on MUMSNET!

Again, this is just the same as women being told they cannot have anything to say about women in prison, unless they have been in prison. OR you cannot have anything to say about Parkrun unless you run or volunteer for Parkrun.

Fucking ludicrous.

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:32

Well I'm very surprised that pointing out the existence of right wing think tanks masquerading as "educational charities" has caused so much uproar.
Plus saying that adults have the right to parent their children as they see fit.....its hardly controversial

2 pages of @s. I wish I was as effective at getting noticed in real life.

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:33

You do know you sound bit like parents when I was a teen claiming sex education caused teen pregnancy?

EasternStandard · 15/02/2024 17:37

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:33

You do know you sound bit like parents when I was a teen claiming sex education caused teen pregnancy?

Haha at this attempt

Well not that funny as your approach is woeful at safeguarding

borntobequiet · 15/02/2024 17:47

right wing think tanks masquerading as "educational charities

I dare say they can identify as whatever they like.

WickedSerious · 15/02/2024 17:50

borntobequiet · 15/02/2024 17:47

right wing think tanks masquerading as "educational charities

I dare say they can identify as whatever they like.

Indeed,it's all the rage.

Snowypeaks · 15/02/2024 17:51

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:32

Well I'm very surprised that pointing out the existence of right wing think tanks masquerading as "educational charities" has caused so much uproar.
Plus saying that adults have the right to parent their children as they see fit.....its hardly controversial

2 pages of @s. I wish I was as effective at getting noticed in real life.

But that isn't what you said, is it?
You said that the findings and recommendations of a specific think tank - the Policy Exchange - should be ignored because it had an address in Tufton Street. You dismissed them on spurious grounds. It was also explained to you that Policy Exchange had been described as an educational charity when the poster should have said, charity with education as one of its core purposes. That is not the think tank masquerading as anything, it was an honest mistake by a pp.
You also said that how a parent chose to deal with their child's gender identity was nobody else's beeswax. That is not true because other children and teachers can be affected. And it is also not the same as saying that adults have the right to parent their children as they see fit. Not that that would that preclude anyone from criticising or pointing out problems because safeguarding children is everybody's business.

Snowypeaks · 15/02/2024 17:52

The last sentence about getting noticed is quite telling.

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:56

EasternStandard · 15/02/2024 17:37

Haha at this attempt

Well not that funny as your approach is woeful at safeguarding

What exactly do you think "my approach" is? Confused

EasternStandard · 15/02/2024 17:58

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:56

What exactly do you think "my approach" is? Confused

All your posts are there to read.

Anyone relating it to teen pg has lost perspective

ResisterRex · 15/02/2024 18:11

Snowypeaks · 15/02/2024 17:52

The last sentence about getting noticed is quite telling.

Indeed.

TeenDivided · 15/02/2024 18:14

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:56

What exactly do you think "my approach" is? Confused

From where I am it appears to be
. Ignore the evidence
. Minimise
. Deflect (eg saying schools need funding for this when it is just basic safeguarding)
. Imply other parents shouldn't be concerned (even though 1 child transitioning can impact all the children in a class)

There's none so blind as those who will not see (or whatever the quote is)

Helleofabore · 15/02/2024 18:18

TeenDivided · 15/02/2024 18:14

From where I am it appears to be
. Ignore the evidence
. Minimise
. Deflect (eg saying schools need funding for this when it is just basic safeguarding)
. Imply other parents shouldn't be concerned (even though 1 child transitioning can impact all the children in a class)

There's none so blind as those who will not see (or whatever the quote is)

Yes, this sums it up quite well. And now I think we see further minimisation/dismissal. Plus a false equivalence being used too to make an accusation.

Datun · 15/02/2024 18:38

TeenDivided · 15/02/2024 18:14

From where I am it appears to be
. Ignore the evidence
. Minimise
. Deflect (eg saying schools need funding for this when it is just basic safeguarding)
. Imply other parents shouldn't be concerned (even though 1 child transitioning can impact all the children in a class)

There's none so blind as those who will not see (or whatever the quote is)

Can I just add that effective safeguarding requires every single person to 'be interested'.

Mind your own business, would be the mantra of those who don't want effective safeguarding.

I'm not saying that's you, Adam, necessarily, but just so you know.

Safeguarding is about mitigating risk, and in the specific circumstances of transing a child, that is a risk not just for that child, but all the children they come into contact with.

Datun · 15/02/2024 18:46

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 17:33

You do know you sound bit like parents when I was a teen claiming sex education caused teen pregnancy?

And, you're using an analogy that gave pupils information, to back up your daft premise that parents should not ask for information.

If you want parents to stop asking questions, you're going to have to do better than pretend they're pearl clutching, when they're actually asking for more information, not less.

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 19:40

Snowypeaks · 15/02/2024 17:51

But that isn't what you said, is it?
You said that the findings and recommendations of a specific think tank - the Policy Exchange - should be ignored because it had an address in Tufton Street. You dismissed them on spurious grounds. It was also explained to you that Policy Exchange had been described as an educational charity when the poster should have said, charity with education as one of its core purposes. That is not the think tank masquerading as anything, it was an honest mistake by a pp.
You also said that how a parent chose to deal with their child's gender identity was nobody else's beeswax. That is not true because other children and teachers can be affected. And it is also not the same as saying that adults have the right to parent their children as they see fit. Not that that would that preclude anyone from criticising or pointing out problems because safeguarding children is everybody's business.

No I said I understood another posters reasoning for ignoring it when she read the policy exchange was describing itself as a "non-partisan educational charity".
I agree with her. That's deliberately misleading therefore I would treat anything they said with caution.

I was not expecting the mention of Tufton Street to cause such uproar. Obviously its hit a nerve, I'm not sure why.

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 19:49

TeenDivided · 15/02/2024 18:14

From where I am it appears to be
. Ignore the evidence
. Minimise
. Deflect (eg saying schools need funding for this when it is just basic safeguarding)
. Imply other parents shouldn't be concerned (even though 1 child transitioning can impact all the children in a class)

There's none so blind as those who will not see (or whatever the quote is)

  1. happy to discuss on another thread so as not to derail this one (although just posting appears to have done that so I should not have bothered)
  2. and 3) schools don't have money to do "basic safeguarding". That's a fact. It's a fact beyond trans issues. None of the recommendations can be implemented without resource. Hardly controversial.
  3. I was responding to this comment: "We have two TRA teachers at ours who've transed their own kids." Only the parents know their own situation, I think its not really anyone's business how parents choose to handle their child's identity issues. Again, not controversial.

People can read what I wrote for themselves but this putting words into people's mouths is not OK.

SabrinaThwaite · 15/02/2024 19:49

borntobequiet · 15/02/2024 17:47

right wing think tanks masquerading as "educational charities

I dare say they can identify as whatever they like.

I’m sure a complaint to the Charity Commission would put a stop this ‘masquerading’.

SabrinaThwaite · 15/02/2024 19:53

I was not expecting the mention of Tufton Street to cause such uproar. Obviously its hit a nerve, I'm not sure why.

Come now, you know exactly what you’re trying to imply.

You’re barking up the wrong tree mind.

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 19:54

SabrinaThwaite · 15/02/2024 19:49

I’m sure a complaint to the Charity Commission would put a stop this ‘masquerading’.

They don't appear to Confused I think unfortunately it's a bit like paying tax and unscrupulous companies exploit loopholes.

I wish the Government would make it a bit more transparent what organisations are politically aligned think tanks, what are lobbyists and what are charities. But there appears to be no motivation to do so. The cynic in me would say that's because a lot of these institutions donate money to them.

At least with Stonewall when you see the name you know its a charity and you know exactly what they stand for and what their agenda is. The same can't be said for Policy Exchange, Institute of Economic Affairs etc.

SabrinaThwaite · 15/02/2024 19:56

At least with Stonewall when you see the name you know it’s a charity and you know exactly what they stand for and what their agenda is. The same can't be said for Policy Exchange, Institute of Economic Affairs etc.

Now I know you’re pulling our legs.

EasternStandard · 15/02/2024 19:58

SabrinaThwaite · 15/02/2024 19:56

At least with Stonewall when you see the name you know it’s a charity and you know exactly what they stand for and what their agenda is. The same can't be said for Policy Exchange, Institute of Economic Affairs etc.

Now I know you’re pulling our legs.

Probably not, Stonewall would fit general views

NotBadConsidering · 15/02/2024 19:58

“I’m as GC as anyone, but….”

AdamRyan · 15/02/2024 20:03

TeenDivided · 14/02/2024 16:06

Of course I read what I write!

Schools have had single sex toilets and changing rooms and sports for decades.
Any school that has chosen to diverge from this has done so of their own accord and has disregarded safeguarding.

If a school has changed the name / pronouns of any child that has been at a cost of admin, plus in some cases the pressure on staff/students not to tell the parents.

Any school that has been busy socially transitioning children and brining in anti-safeguarding rules may have a cost of rolling back, but safeguarding is essential is it not?

I agree schools have pressing issues to deal with and insufficient funds, but that is no reason to ignore basic safeguarding rules .

Any school that has been busy socially transitioning children

I was challenging a hyperbolic statement.

I know a lot of teachers and none of them have time to be "busy socially transitioning children". They have to manage an epidemic of transitioning caused by social contagion, that's a different thing.

Teachers are leaving in droves. Schools have no money to cover staffing levels to do basic safeguarding. It's horrific to be a teacher and they are still there educating our children in terrible circumstances.

So when I read an implication that schools are driving an agenda to transition children it gives me the rage. We should be supporting teachers, not kicking them.

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