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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

GC Ultra / GC Lite?

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Catsanfan · 11/02/2024 09:13

Hi all

I keep seeing these used on X. I'm not totally sure what they mean. Is it in a nutshell GC Ultra = Posie Parker GC Lite = people who think Debbie Haytons a decent bloke.

Or am I totally on the wrong page? So much terminology these days!

TIA

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AdamRyan · 11/02/2024 22:04

LoobiJee · 11/02/2024 21:40

the type I would term "GC Ultra"

You’re deploying the tired old “you’re wrong! “Karen” isn’t a misogynistic term of abuse designed to silence women and put them in their place! oh no! it’s just a handy, factually accurate, description of those nasty women over here…” argument.

But there’s certainly room for a discussion about which of these risk “the cause” being “fatally undermined”…

Does a) saying “I disagree with using ‘she’ for a male person” fatally undermine the cause?

Or does b) coining a term like “GC ultra” and using your profile and platform in the MSM to describe the women who don’t agree with you as “extremists” fatally undermine ‘the cause’?

On a side note, I’d have thought that arguing that/believing that “language can shape reality” was more a feature of the gender identity theory camp (hence TWAW) than the GC side of the argument. Whilst those concerned with safeguarding point out that “pronouns are rohypnol”.

Also, interesting to see accusations of a desire for individuals to be publicly shamed and alienated. I’m aware of KJK being on the receiving end of those sorts of manoeuvres from the group that’s been referred to on here as head girls / gentry left. But the camp that is really into shaming and alienating their targets are the gender identity campaigners.

Infighting in the GC movement will fatally undermine us.
I do believe that. Feminist factions fight over pronouns/safe spaces, meanwhile men/patriarchy continue as usual

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 22:05

So, just a little bit of non consensual use of others for paraphilia is ok? Where is the boundary for acceptable abuse and non-acceptable abuse? Has anyone come up with that answer?

Is it when a person doesn’t know that they have contributed to the sexual arousal? Or is it when a person has been forced due to societal norms or workplace/school policy to contribute to a male person’s arousal? Is there a description of what is acceptable usage of another person who doesn’t consent?

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:24

@Helleofabore men generally speaking do have sexually intrusive thoughts, from what i have read every three minutes.

They look us up and down. If decent try and evade looking at our breasts, or our bum if they are behind us, have sexual imagery as we walk away from them.

It is a fact of male sexuality. They are predatory by nature the whole sow as many seeds as they can sort of thing.

IMO it fits in with GC beliefs about men and women as mammals.

We cannot stop how thy think or dress we can only insist that they do not assault or hurt us.

Or make them our other children.

My husband is clear in his opinion, he says all men are potential rapists, its just a matter of self control.

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 22:31

So you do think that a male who has stated clearly that they are an AGP and that paraphilia is stated clearly by others who are not seeking to sanitise their paraphilia, that being treated by anyone as if they are a woman is arousing or at least aids in that arousal, should be accommodated to continue to do so in public? Because men fantasize about women? So that is ok? Accommodating male arousal is ok?

Even when children treating a male with a paraphilia of being aroused by being treated as a woman is contributing to that arousal?

So there are no lines to be drawn in your opinion?

JanesLittleGirl · 11/02/2024 22:36

Give the man his due, DH has managed to derail us from arguing for women's rights to arguing about fucking pronouns.

LoobiJee · 11/02/2024 22:40

AdamRyan · 11/02/2024 22:04

Infighting in the GC movement will fatally undermine us.
I do believe that. Feminist factions fight over pronouns/safe spaces, meanwhile men/patriarchy continue as usual

And your contribution to the “infighting” that will “fatally undermine” the GC movement is to demonstrate your support for the disparaging term “GC ultra” by posting and agreeing with AD’s article painting a group of women as “intolerant” “intimidating” and “sociopathic” for objecting to the use of “she” for males involved in erotic cross dressing?

You’re right about male entitlement / the patriarchy carrying on as usual.

Telling women they are wrong for spotting Labour’s single sex/safe spaces sleight of hand and for wanting the privacy and dignity of single sex female-only provision when they are in a state of undress IS the patriarchy.

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:41

@Helleofabore i took from DH book and actually other transexual males that i have had brief encounters with, both socially and professionally that they are not in a state of sexual arousal as they go about their day. On the other hand hetrosexual men do spend an awful lot of their day fantasising about having sex with you as they talk to you if they consider you attractive. I struggle to see the difference.

SaffronSpice · 11/02/2024 22:45

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:41

@Helleofabore i took from DH book and actually other transexual males that i have had brief encounters with, both socially and professionally that they are not in a state of sexual arousal as they go about their day. On the other hand hetrosexual men do spend an awful lot of their day fantasising about having sex with you as they talk to you if they consider you attractive. I struggle to see the difference.

Do you think he would have told you if he had? DH is trying to portray himself as harmless so he can continue to practice his fetish.

Grayson Perry was quite upfront about it.

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 22:45

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:41

@Helleofabore i took from DH book and actually other transexual males that i have had brief encounters with, both socially and professionally that they are not in a state of sexual arousal as they go about their day. On the other hand hetrosexual men do spend an awful lot of their day fantasising about having sex with you as they talk to you if they consider you attractive. I struggle to see the difference.

So you believe that because they store people‘s reactions to them in their memories, that that is ok? That we should accommodate them because they will delay the fulfillment of that arousal later ?

So all male arousal needs should be met because we cannot stop them ?

And again, what about when children are involved ?

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 22:47

What other paraphilias should we accommodate in society?

LoobiJee · 11/02/2024 22:54

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:41

@Helleofabore i took from DH book and actually other transexual males that i have had brief encounters with, both socially and professionally that they are not in a state of sexual arousal as they go about their day. On the other hand hetrosexual men do spend an awful lot of their day fantasising about having sex with you as they talk to you if they consider you attractive. I struggle to see the difference.

So if a voyeur instals a hidden camera and then goes about his day, sexually unaroused, does that make it ok? He won’t be sexually aroused at the exact time the woman is being filmed. It’ll be later, when she’s no longer in that venue, when she’s safely back home nowhere near him and his boundary crossing paraphernalia. She won’t know anything about what he’s doing in private, later on, after he’s downloaded the footage. She won’t be physically anywhere near him at the time he’s sexually aroused by her image and by secretly crossing her boundaries. So is that ok?

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:59

Firstly i dont know how you have drawn the conclusion that a a AGP person stores his experiences until he goes home

some paraphilias are not harmful to others because they are only in their own head.

Obviously peodophilia, pederasity and under age sexual interest is not acceptable.

I did not say that male needs should be met by us, our very existence meets the needs of what is in their head.

We have no control over that

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 23:01

@LoobiJee it is rightly a crime to do what you describe.

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 23:02

So males with AGP don’t use the experiences of the day being treated as a female to heighten their sexual arousal?

Datun · 11/02/2024 23:04

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 22:41

@Helleofabore i took from DH book and actually other transexual males that i have had brief encounters with, both socially and professionally that they are not in a state of sexual arousal as they go about their day. On the other hand hetrosexual men do spend an awful lot of their day fantasising about having sex with you as they talk to you if they consider you attractive. I struggle to see the difference.

Got it.

And is a paedophile fine hanging out in the swing park as long he defers his arousal until he gets home?

What about a voyeur? Can they spy in my changing room as long as they don't get an actual erection until later?

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 23:05

And people reinforcing that feeling of them being the object of their sexual desire, ie people reinforcing them being a ‘woman’ doesn’t heighten their arousal as a thinking of themselves as a woman?

So if these male people were treated only ever as male people, they would still be just as aroused as they could be. People’s reactions don’t increase their sexual arousal at all?

Is that what you are telling us?

Datun · 11/02/2024 23:07

Karensalright

Why does Debbie Hayton wear women's clothes and fake breasts if it's nothing to do with his paraphilia?

Or does he have a paraphilia that is sexual for every other man who has it, but not him?

LoobiJee · 11/02/2024 23:10

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 23:01

@LoobiJee it is rightly a crime to do what you describe.

Because males are supposed to stay out of single-sex female-only spaces / places where women and girls are in a state of undress. So putting a camera in there instead in order to invade their privacy is wrong.

Rather than installing a camera, Hayton has campaigned for Hayton’s “community” to be included in those female-only spaces.

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 23:13

@Helleofabore i actually don’t know wether transsexuals do or do not go home and get off on their day, or have a good old wank. I dont know if men who i encountered at work have a good wank when they go home about me. But it has no effect it is private.

The difference to be made is the internet and what if anything are men, whatever they wear, do there that proliferates the exploitation of children and women.

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 23:18

Datun · 11/02/2024 23:07

Karensalright

Why does Debbie Hayton wear women's clothes and fake breasts if it's nothing to do with his paraphilia?

Or does he have a paraphilia that is sexual for every other man who has it, but not him?

There seems to be some kind of disconnect about what we have been told by people one Blanchard and other male people and what we are hearing that Hayton has written. And what sissy porn has portrayed.

Either way. The question remains, do Hayton’s students have the freedom to call Hayton ‘sir’ and male pronouns?

Does Hayton use the male toilets if the gender neutral toilet option is not available?

Have we seen Hayton’s change of heart about breast size and the worth of women ?

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 23:20

Sorry i need to go bed, useful discussion so okay if I pick it up tomorrow lots to think about bless you all

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 23:23

Karensalright · 11/02/2024 23:13

@Helleofabore i actually don’t know wether transsexuals do or do not go home and get off on their day, or have a good old wank. I dont know if men who i encountered at work have a good wank when they go home about me. But it has no effect it is private.

The difference to be made is the internet and what if anything are men, whatever they wear, do there that proliferates the exploitation of children and women.

So you don’t know and don’t think that any steps should be taken to ensure women and children are at least protected from participating in a male person’s fantasy when it is has been said by others who have the paraphilia that being treated as a woman reinforces their fantasy.

Good to know.

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 23:25

Honestly, it sounds more like this book comes with a plea to not bother removing safeguarding because bad stuff is going to happen anyway.

Garlickit · 11/02/2024 23:37

Hang on, has Janice Turner opined that it's extremist to say "he" is the correct English personal pronoun for a male? Good grief 🤣🤣

Helleofabore · 11/02/2024 23:42

Datun · 11/02/2024 23:04

Got it.

And is a paedophile fine hanging out in the swing park as long he defers his arousal until he gets home?

What about a voyeur? Can they spy in my changing room as long as they don't get an actual erection until later?

And people should be free to wear their dog play fetish outfits in public. And their ‘little’ fetish oufits.

Because they are not having sex right at that time. It is all good.