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Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 12:05

SidewaysOtter · 08/02/2024 12:03

We treat anorexia very differently to genderism.

Exactly. If someone presents with an eating disorder, no-one says "Well of course you're as fat as you think you are. Here, have some diet pills to validate that view and we'll help you put together an extreme diet to try and make you look the way you think you should".

And yet with gender issues, there is a cohort of clinicians and therapists who believe affirmation is the only option, in a way that simply would not be considered in any other setting.

Of course the individual conversations of "No, you're not fat/trans/whatever" shouldn't be held by strangers in the street and it's incredibly disingenuous to say that they should, or that this is what anyone here is proposing. But there also needs to be a general societal shift away from referring to "trans children". After all, society as a whole does not advocate that eating disorders are normalised.

And we definitely don’t create a new harmful law to affirm it

AdamRyan · 08/02/2024 12:07

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 11:51

One of my best friends teenage daughter's is struggling with anorexia at the moment, her mother has not been encouraged by medics (or anyone else for that matter) to tell her daughter she doesn't need to eat or that she shouldn't eat because she might get fat. Quite the opposite.

I can't quite believe you have used such a poor argument.

Completely irrelevant to my point.
How would you feel if I posted a photo of your friends daughter on the Internet, said it was social contagion gone mad, and the mother shouldn't allow it?

That's my point. The tone of posts on here are posters doing that about Brianna, and thinking it's ok. It is not.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 12:07

BIossomtoes · 08/02/2024 12:03

Thing is as long as Sunak’s PM it won’t die down. He’ll never be able to mention the issue again without it being thrown in his face.

Of course he will.

Or are you suggest that the Labour Party should continue to make political capital out of Brianna's murder rather than deal with the legitimate concerns of women?

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 12:09

AdamRyan · 08/02/2024 12:07

Completely irrelevant to my point.
How would you feel if I posted a photo of your friends daughter on the Internet, said it was social contagion gone mad, and the mother shouldn't allow it?

That's my point. The tone of posts on here are posters doing that about Brianna, and thinking it's ok. It is not.

You are struggling

My points have been clear we should not use the language of trans for children

Nothing about photos online

The opposite in fact adults should stop using children at all for their gender ideology agenda.

anyolddinosaur · 08/02/2024 12:14

Funny how posters insist that they knew exactly what was in each man's mind.

The grieving mother was not present. I could state that both men knew that and that Starmer deliberately lied to create this fuss. But that would be as ridiculous as claiming that both men thought she was there.

Starmer invited her because he knows Sunak jibes at him for being unable to define a woman. He set a trap, claiming a grieving mother was present when she was not. , Sunak walked into it.

BIossomtoes · 08/02/2024 12:16

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 12:07

Of course he will.

Or are you suggest that the Labour Party should continue to make political capital out of Brianna's murder rather than deal with the legitimate concerns of women?

I’m suggesting that he’s given the hostile media a stick to beat him with. Surely you don’t need reminding how politicians’ gaffes follow them round like bad smell? Johnson hiding in the fridge? Raab announcing that men are subject to misogyny and not knowing where Dover is? Sunak will never be allowed to forget this. It’s yet another example of his reverse Midas touch, he’s a completely useless politician.

SinnerBoy · 08/02/2024 12:19

*BackToLurk" Today 10:59

+ + She wasn’t there. This has been pointed out repeatedly. + +

But Sunak would have thought she was

And? Are you saying he's an evil little hate goblin, who couldn't resist possibly upsetting a grieving mother?

As opposed to taking the piss out of a vaccilating, weak ideologue, who's like a flag in a gale?

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 12:23

Completely irrelevant to my point.
How would you feel if I posted a photo of your friends daughter on the Internet, said it was social contagion gone mad, and the mother shouldn't allow it?

I have no idea what you are talking about. No one has posted a picture of anyone on the internet.

And as for the social contagion being a factor in the rise of teens identifying as trans well presumably in the interests of the CHILDREN it is a good idea to consider that this might well be a possibility, especially in teenage girls (numbers in this category has risen most dramatically) and the connection between neurodiversity and gender questioning children. We owe it to the children to consider whether these factors may play a part, surely? Especially when we see stark stories from detransitioners. I mean in what other area would we just let children go on potentially unnecessary pathways that can end up in infertility without exploring the root cause of the discomfort ?

The TRAs have done such a good job in silencing the debate. This can't continue, children are being harmed.

SinnerBoy · 08/02/2024 12:24

AdamRyan · Today 11:49

OK. I'll make a point of telling a random thin stranger that next time I see them shall I.

Come on, you can and do make better arrangements than that, it's not analogous. Who here has said that they will approach a transw in the street to tell them "You're a man in a dress?"

lieselotte · 08/02/2024 12:28

Marchintospring · 08/02/2024 09:35

The problem is Brianna was trans and that was one of the reasons Brianna was murdered. Not because she was woman.
There would have been no issue pointing this out.

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If she'd been a biological woman she would have been killed as well. Her killers would have used any old excuse.

BackToLurk · 08/02/2024 12:31

anyolddinosaur · 08/02/2024 12:14

Funny how posters insist that they knew exactly what was in each man's mind.

The grieving mother was not present. I could state that both men knew that and that Starmer deliberately lied to create this fuss. But that would be as ridiculous as claiming that both men thought she was there.

Starmer invited her because he knows Sunak jibes at him for being unable to define a woman. He set a trap, claiming a grieving mother was present when she was not. , Sunak walked into it.

I could state that both men knew that and that Starmer deliberately lied to create this fuss. But that would be as ridiculous as claiming that both men thought she was there.

Nope. Starmer stated she was there just before Sunak made his comment. It’s entirely reasonable to say they both believed she was there. It’s astonishing anyone is arguing otherwise

ScrollingLeaves · 08/02/2024 12:32

Even before this happened people were using the tragic and horrific murder of Brianna Ghey as a reason why no criticisms of transactivism should ever be made. Hence the more recent blame for her murder thrown at JK Rowling.

This will now set a veto in stone against any mention of any fault with transactivism such as the Labour party’s under their planned agenda.

It is the transactivists imo who add to children's vulnerability.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 12:33

I’m suggesting that he’s given the hostile media a stick to beat him with. Surely you don’t need reminding how politicians’ gaffes follow them round like bad smell? Johnson hiding in the fridge? Raab announcing that men are subject to misogyny and not knowing where Dover is? Sunak will never be allowed to forget this. It’s yet another example of his reverse Midas touch, he’s a completely useless politician.

What will Sunak never be allowed to forget? I must be in an alternative universe to you because it was Starmer who made political capital out of Brianna's death not Sunak : S

GailBlancheViola · 08/02/2024 12:36

OK. I'll make a point of telling a random thin stranger that next time I see them shall I.

My very slim sister gets that all the time usually from people who are very overweight, as well as comments on the food she has in her basket in the supermarket, so you'd be just another one of many. Be warned though she does bite back.

BIossomtoes · 08/02/2024 12:36

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 12:33

I’m suggesting that he’s given the hostile media a stick to beat him with. Surely you don’t need reminding how politicians’ gaffes follow them round like bad smell? Johnson hiding in the fridge? Raab announcing that men are subject to misogyny and not knowing where Dover is? Sunak will never be allowed to forget this. It’s yet another example of his reverse Midas touch, he’s a completely useless politician.

What will Sunak never be allowed to forget? I must be in an alternative universe to you because it was Starmer who made political capital out of Brianna's death not Sunak : S

I’m not being intentionally rude but if you can’t see why it will haunt him you’re as politically naive as he appears to be. And you are in an alternative universe because the majority of commentators see a politician so stupid that he regurgitates the script someone else has written for him with no regard for its appropriateness.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 12:38

Luckily for Sunak Starmer did a massive u turn just after

Showing that yes he does have a problem with not sticking to anything

Starmer has more to worry about particularly since his own party are going for it - cowardly and scared etc

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 12:42

BIossomtoes · 08/02/2024 12:36

I’m not being intentionally rude but if you can’t see why it will haunt him you’re as politically naive as he appears to be. And you are in an alternative universe because the majority of commentators see a politician so stupid that he regurgitates the script someone else has written for him with no regard for its appropriateness.

It's OK I'm used to rudeness on these threads : )

It was Starmer who made political capital out of a child's murder and if he continues to do so that reflects more on the Labour Party than it does on Sunak.

I can't stand Sunak but he's done nothing wrong here, except fail to realise that Starmer would take advantage!

You clearly believe that some topics should be off limit in the HoC. I don't. We disagree and that's OK.

anotherside · 08/02/2024 12:48

Britain is going to vote Tory lite this time around. 20 point lead and if anything more left wing Labour voters will hold their nose and swing round to Starmer at crunch time. How on Earth the Tories thought a billionaire candidate was the right guy to fight a centrist Labour candidate coming after years of austerity I’ve no idea. Sunak should just give up.

anotherside · 08/02/2024 12:50

I couldn’t give a toss about the trans debate. What ought to worry people is that the Tory press seem incredibly comfortable with the prospect of Starmer becoming PM. Nothing fundamental will change …

ScrollingLeaves · 08/02/2024 12:53

lifeturnsonadime - Today 12:45

You clearly believe that some topics should be off limit in the HoC. I don't. We disagree and that's OK.

It is not that some topics should be off limits in the HoC. It is that, very unfortunately indeed, because of this debacle, this topic will now de facto be off limits for a long, long time. It will cause a long and chilling shadow where the really worrying culprits will hide.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 12:54

ScrollingLeaves · 08/02/2024 12:53

lifeturnsonadime - Today 12:45

You clearly believe that some topics should be off limit in the HoC. I don't. We disagree and that's OK.

It is not that some topics should be off limits in the HoC. It is that, very unfortunately indeed, because of this debacle, this topic will now de facto be off limits for a long, long time. It will cause a long and chilling shadow where the really worrying culprits will hide.

No it won’t but if there is a point to be made about u turns by Starmer there is even more in the offing

I don’t think Sunak will step back but I do agree that people will try to use a case to hide behind. It won’t work though

CantDealwithChristmas · 08/02/2024 12:57

Sunak was talking about women.

it was Starmer who made it all about Mrs Ghey and trans.

CantDealwithChristmas · 08/02/2024 13:02

Cancelledcurio · 07/02/2024 16:13

Just seems grubby that they are both using that murdered wean to score political points.

Politicians have been using murdered weans to score political points at least since the Athenian Democratic Assembly's emotionally charged debate about the Siege of Melos...and that was in 416 BC.

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 08/02/2024 13:03

I think a lot will change. Not with public spending, or the economy, but with speech laws.

Starmer decided the conditions when a topic could not be mentioned, not even debated, just mentioned. He decided that a womens rights issue could not be even said because a mother of a murdered child was in the building.

He has stated that womens rights and trans rights are compatible and do not clash, so why has he linked the two now? Does he now believe the two cannot succeed at the same time?

I suspect if labour are the next government, there is going to be a lot of this sort of constraints on free speech.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 13:05

ZuttZeVootEeeVo · 08/02/2024 13:03

I think a lot will change. Not with public spending, or the economy, but with speech laws.

Starmer decided the conditions when a topic could not be mentioned, not even debated, just mentioned. He decided that a womens rights issue could not be even said because a mother of a murdered child was in the building.

He has stated that womens rights and trans rights are compatible and do not clash, so why has he linked the two now? Does he now believe the two cannot succeed at the same time?

I suspect if labour are the next government, there is going to be a lot of this sort of constraints on free speech.

Yes that will be the only thing

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