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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Andrew Doyle

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MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 19:14

Anyone been following this on twitter? He's been attacked for calling Debbie Hayton she in an interview.
Some horrible homophobic stuff and he has left twitter.

https://x.com/fem_mb/status/1754747745967988982?s=20

The attacks on Janice Turner, Stella Creasey, Kathleen Stock and now Andrew Doyle, people who've been at the forefront of putting themselves on the line over this issue, for years, is so utterly depressing.

Sure, disagree with their decisions make your point but accept good people, really good people in these cases, may make come to a different decision to you sometimes. Particularly when it's complex, tricky, and still being worked through.

Some GC feminists are really revealing themselves to be as authoritian as the TRAs.

https://x.com/fem_mb/status/1754747745967988982?s=20

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Datun · 06/02/2024 20:59

A lot of women believe that DH has manipulated people into calling him she.

It's raging inducing when people don't see it.

That's got fuck all to do with hating men, and calling Andrew Doyle, of all people, homophobic slurs.

I can't imagine a single woman on here ever doing that. Christ, loads are homosexual themselves, loads are married to men, and loads have sons.

It's not a man hating hot bed of homophobia.

Datun · 06/02/2024 21:01

If anything, I would've thought that Andrew Doyle was targeted, precisely because he has done so much work.

I don't agree with him calling Hayton she, but that doesn't undo everything he's done!

BigPepperPerson · 06/02/2024 21:28

thanks for articulating what I feel @Datun
I get so frustrated by the "good trans", "real trans" narratives and do worry when people don't see what is blindingly obvious
Men like "Debbie" Hayton worry me more than any unhinged TRA
And I will judge the likes of Stella O'Malley et al for entertaining these bloody men- they're putting my daughter at risk with this ridiculous fawning
I don't know what's happened re Andrew Doyle- obviously homophobic slurs are not ok

Floisme · 06/02/2024 21:28

The screenshots I saw of tweets directed at Andrew Doyle were vile, and of a completely different order to anything I've witnessed in other GC Twitter rows. It was the kind of abuse you hoped had died out years ago. I hope he's ok.

RayonSunrise · 06/02/2024 21:39

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 20:43

It's feeling to me like there are now a group of women calling themselves GC who have followed the logic of the pronoun debate and are now excited by the absolute moral clarity they believe they've discovered and they're swinging this about righteously attacking anyone who for any reason is not pure on this issue at all times.

It doesn't matter how dedicated you've been, how much previous good will you may have accrued, you can be slain and shunned with the statements of truth which are so satisfying to declare and which allow no grace.

Yes, purity spirals can happen anywhere it seems.

ArabellaScott · 06/02/2024 21:43

'Slain and shunned'. Wee bit hyperbolic there.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/02/2024 21:44

Thanks to @ArabellaScott for posting the link to the 4 hour long Twitter space below, for anyone curious.

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/02/2024 21:47

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 20:43

It's feeling to me like there are now a group of women calling themselves GC who have followed the logic of the pronoun debate and are now excited by the absolute moral clarity they believe they've discovered and they're swinging this about righteously attacking anyone who for any reason is not pure on this issue at all times.

It doesn't matter how dedicated you've been, how much previous good will you may have accrued, you can be slain and shunned with the statements of truth which are so satisfying to declare and which allow no grace.

GC feminists have always had a problem with men being called "women", "she" and "her" with good reason.

Are we to stop having a problem with it when it's RW media doing it instead of the Guardian?

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 21:54

RayonSunrise · 06/02/2024 21:39

Yes, purity spirals can happen anywhere it seems.

Yes I'm sensing glee and deep satisfaction in some people on social media in the opportunity to apply this sacrosanct GC rule without mercy.
They have a role to police the failures of those not pure to the movement and they are seizing it with great enthusiasm.
If you're not 100% pure in all action you need to be made to pay.

It's the same old.
It was always going to get to this point.

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PatatiPatatras · 06/02/2024 21:54

Something tells me the zealots have found the wind is no longer blowing one way and they are now cleansing themselves of their past sin.

Religious nuts will follow any god... and throw the first stone with pleasure.

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 21:55

ArabellaScott · 06/02/2024 21:43

'Slain and shunned'. Wee bit hyperbolic there.

A little bit.
To make the point.

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MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 21:56

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/02/2024 21:47

GC feminists have always had a problem with men being called "women", "she" and "her" with good reason.

Are we to stop having a problem with it when it's RW media doing it instead of the Guardian?

Nope.
And not the point anyone is making.

Read Andrew's message.

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Genderwoo · 06/02/2024 21:57

I was up very late, and reading the thread in question but not with the caps attached earlier or those same comments happening live. He said he's had a lot of comments from gay men alleging homophobia from GC accounts. He said he wouldn't be GC anymore then, a few times. Interspersed with this was:

Anti-feminist commenters getting digs in alleging feminist misandry - Billboard Chris was one.
Many comments objecting to the use of she/her for Hayton. Assertive but not phobic, but coupled with the actual homphobia in other comments, a tipping point may have been reached 🤷🏻‍♀️

I feel he's had his buttons pushed - hours of pushback about pronouns for Hayton, heard he was disparaged in a Spaces, was definitely commented on about being block-happy, but not rudely. I feel I read someone wondering whether GC antipathy to surrogacy was what he meant as classable as homophobia. All gone puff in the morning.

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 21:57

PatatiPatatras · 06/02/2024 21:54

Something tells me the zealots have found the wind is no longer blowing one way and they are now cleansing themselves of their past sin.

Religious nuts will follow any god... and throw the first stone with pleasure.

Yes.
Zealotry has entered the movement.

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Winnading · 06/02/2024 22:09

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 21:56

Nope.
And not the point anyone is making.

Read Andrew's message.

I've read Andrew's message (thanks for the screenshot) he too assumes its women, the original kind, that are making these pronouncements.
I'm yet to be convinced. Of the screenshots a pp put up, one had a blue tick, the others could have been anyone.

Still no idea why the entire of MN is being blamed for it and still not sure what "it" is. Looks a lot like a man threw a strop and closed down his social media?

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/02/2024 22:12

I've read his message and I disagree with his accusation of homophobia in the feminist movement, given the lesbians in it. He was happy to use female pronouns wrt DH and that was his choice. Given his knowledge of the situation I'm shocked that he was surprised by the reaction he got.

To cry "homophobia" and hatred of men then flounce was his decision and he's perfectly entitled to do so. But it doesn't make his allegations against feminism true. Feminism is a pro-woman movement. Not a pro-trans, pro-man (heterosexual or homosexual), or "Be Kind" movement.

The idea that women need to be so grateful to men for stating biological reality that they stay silent is anti feminist.

ArabellaScott · 06/02/2024 22:12

Looks like a lot of fuss over fuckall imo.

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/02/2024 22:17

He said he wouldn't be GC anymore...

Seriously? WTF? Does he know what GC means?

Floisme · 06/02/2024 22:41

No it wasn't fuck all. He's had some truly vile homophobic abuse. I've seen a few screenshots and I've no idea who from though no-one I recognised. But I imagine he's feeling pretty shaken and I'm not going to take anything he's said tonight that seriously. Let the dust settle.

Datun · 06/02/2024 22:48

Floisme · 06/02/2024 22:41

No it wasn't fuck all. He's had some truly vile homophobic abuse. I've seen a few screenshots and I've no idea who from though no-one I recognised. But I imagine he's feeling pretty shaken and I'm not going to take anything he's said tonight that seriously. Let the dust settle.

Very sensible.

AlisonDonut · 06/02/2024 22:56

The same people that say they are in this fight to try and preserve single sex spaces, are happy to pander to, promote and be friends with the man that wrote the policy that removed the rights of girls and women in schools, to single sex spaces.

Make it make sense. Why are they so chummy with him? I just don't get it.

Datun · 06/02/2024 23:06

AlisonDonut · 06/02/2024 22:56

The same people that say they are in this fight to try and preserve single sex spaces, are happy to pander to, promote and be friends with the man that wrote the policy that removed the rights of girls and women in schools, to single sex spaces.

Make it make sense. Why are they so chummy with him? I just don't get it.

Me neither.

But I'll say one thing, I genuinely believe this is a journey and that they are just not yet at the destination.

And yes I know that sounds patronising...

... but I really think I'm right

And yes, I know that sounds patronising too 🤣

I could keep going...

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/02/2024 23:18

MalagaNights · 06/02/2024 20:43

It's feeling to me like there are now a group of women calling themselves GC who have followed the logic of the pronoun debate and are now excited by the absolute moral clarity they believe they've discovered and they're swinging this about righteously attacking anyone who for any reason is not pure on this issue at all times.

It doesn't matter how dedicated you've been, how much previous good will you may have accrued, you can be slain and shunned with the statements of truth which are so satisfying to declare and which allow no grace.

GC women have been clear from the start. Men are not women.

What is pathetic is well paid, adult commentators with a massive platform, who've made names for themselves the back of feminists, women's rights and child safeguarding campaigners defer to transwomen when face to face with them. Then complaining about mean GC feminists when pulled up on it.

It's utter hypocrisy to say children shouldn't call transwomen teachers "Miss" if the so-called adults in the room refer to them as "she" and "her".

anothernamitynamenamechange · 06/02/2024 23:40

Its tempting to think all those accounts saying incredibly homophobic things/cartoonishly misandrist stuff were not real women/not real GC feminists. But its twitter. Something about that platform seems to bring out the very worst in people (not making excuses) and I don't think purity spirals and unpleasantness are linked to any particular group. I do think its a little unfair when its used as proof of female/feminist toxicity when you don't see isolated male rage tweets used in the same way most of the time (or maybe you do). But that's going of topic its completely understandable for Andrew Doyle to be upset about this.