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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Mermaids advise the CPS on 'sex by deception'

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ArabellaScott · 29/01/2024 20:13

https://mermaidsuk.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Mermaids-Consultation-Response_-Deception-as-to-Gender_-proposed-revision-to-CPS-legal-guidance-on-Rape-and-Serious-Sexual-Offences-1.pdf

Mermaids Response to Consultation on the Deception as to Gender section in the Rape and Serious Sexual Offences (RASSO) legal guidance

'as a charity that support young trans and gender diverse people, we are concerned that many of the recent prosecutions for sex crimes on the basis of deception as to gender affect young people'
...
'Even if a trans person lies about their gender history or assigned sex at birth, they remain an authentic man'

[verbatim copy and pastes - Arabella]

The consultation:

https://www.cps.gov.uk/consultation/consultation-deception-gender-section-rape-and-serious-sexual-offences-rasso-legal

https://mermaidsuk.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Mermaids-Consultation-Response_-Deception-as-to-Gender_-proposed-revision-to-CPS-legal-guidance-on-Rape-and-Serious-Sexual-Offences-1.pdf

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PermanentTemporary · 29/01/2024 22:07

Look, some trans people pass. Of course they do. Every thread on FWR has posts saying 'nobody passes' next to others saying 'I have a transwoman friend I didn't know was trans'. If no trans people ever passed there wouldn't be an issue with this particular law, would there?

Equally, yes more transmen pass as men (at least to other very young people) than transwomen pass as women, particularly for sex. Obviously.

Crankywiddershins · 29/01/2024 22:07

SidewaysOtter · 29/01/2024 21:45

I wouldn’t trust Mermaids to advise on whether today is Monday.

Don't be dayphobic, today identifies as Thursday.

Crankywiddershins · 29/01/2024 22:10

@Boiledbeetle did you have to? I'm going to have nightmares now.

CatPancake · 29/01/2024 22:18

Authentic man.

can we all just make up whatever shit we like and speak to the CPS in a meeting they arrange for us?

songaboutjam · 29/01/2024 22:39

PermanentTemporary · 29/01/2024 21:32

I do think it's reasonable for Mermaids to talk about transmen in this consultation because the two cases that I'm aware of were indeed women presenting as men.

Fair enough, I hadn't been aware of that.

ArabellaScott · 29/01/2024 22:53

Froodwithatowel · 29/01/2024 21:46

A whole lot of this political movement is about trying to destroy other people's right to consent.

Bingo.

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Boiledbeetle · 30/01/2024 00:13

Crankywiddershins · 29/01/2024 22:10

@Boiledbeetle did you have to? I'm going to have nightmares now.

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Boiledbeetle · 30/01/2024 00:14

CatPancake · 29/01/2024 22:18

Authentic man.

can we all just make up whatever shit we like and speak to the CPS in a meeting they arrange for us?

Authentic Man sounds like a 1970s aftershave

NecessaryScene · 30/01/2024 06:18

Trans men are only trotted out like this when Stonewalled organisations want to make something appear less threatening.

So definitely authentic men then. Yep. 100%.

ResisterRex · 30/01/2024 06:54

PermanentTemporary · 29/01/2024 21:32

I do think it's reasonable for Mermaids to talk about transmen in this consultation because the two cases that I'm aware of were indeed women presenting as men.

Except...where are all the other children's charities..?

ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 07:32

It's the concern for convicted sex offenders that I find surprising. Most children's charities are concerned with victims of abuse rather than perpetrators.

The crux is that they claim a person lying about their sex can be absolved if they have an inner essence of trans.

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ResisterRex · 30/01/2024 07:36

The whole thing was drawn around concern for sex offenders. Did that concern start in-house? Or from the outside in, and then the CPS ran with it? They must respond to this consultation before the election IMO. We need to know what direction they plan to go in.

RebelliousCow · 30/01/2024 07:39

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/01/2024 20:28

Why is Mermaids, the children's sex change charity getting involved in this consultation? Especially in the middle of a paedophile /porn scandal?

Edited

Probably because they are in the businsess of encouraging young lesbians to believe they are male.

AlisonDonut · 30/01/2024 07:41

Deception experts consulted in sex by deception laws...erm...almost like...how to DO rather than prevent it.

ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 07:42

'How to get away with lying'.

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ResisterRex · 30/01/2024 07:49

I also recall the whole thing being a prelude to removing the words "penis" and "male" from the definition of rape. And it was based on a misreading of McNally.

The CPS absolutely must tell us what their conclusions of this work were.

VinegarTrio · 30/01/2024 07:50

The concept of passing is the problem. To ‘pass’ is to successfully deceive people about your sex.

Just because you’re justifying that deception on the basis that you really strongly identify as the oppositive sex, it is inherently about deception.

There are situations where someone’s
sex just doesn’t matter at all - and the idea of deception just doesn’t matter. Whether my bus driver is male or female is of absolutely no consequence to me as a passenger. Whether the new hire in the accounts department is male or female
matters not one jot to whether they can do their job.

In those kind of cases, their desire to ‘pass’ doesn’t matter because the people
around them don’t need to know what sex they are.

But there are situations where it does matter and it’s not ok to deceive anyone. If the company wants you to travel and expects room sharing, then the sex if your colleague is likely to matter. Same when it comes to sharing single-sex spaces.

It absolutely and fundamentally matters if you want to pursue a romantic and/or sexual relationship with that person. The idea that one partner should be allowed to deceive the other about their sex so that they will have sex with them is abhorrent. And indefensible.

Overall, the whole concept (and goal) of passing is a problem.

Froodwithatowel · 30/01/2024 08:01

And it's again based on the whole 'some people are more equal (and human) than others' belief, where the TQ+ identity unlocks higher levels of privilege and treatment compared to the norm.

If someone is upset about sex by deception committed by a person who intentionally used them in this abusive way while privately holding a TQ+ identity, the lobby's concern is that the perpetrator's feelings and self expression is the only valued thing.

And that perpetrators with TQ+ identities are excused their crime and their victims dismissed and the harm to them erased and scolded into silence, where perpetrators without TQ+ identities would face the law and their victims have access to justice.

I mean, who at this point cannot spot the obvious whacking great issue here?

And who thinks this is going to end in sunshine and rainbows rather than increasing resentment and anger towards the weaponised special identity choice that enables abuse of others without responsibility?

And are we arguing that holding a TQ+ identity means that choosing to use and abuse a non consenting other person in this awful way is a 'normal' part of being TQ+ and should be accepted unquestioningly as such, as opposed to the actions of someone with any identity who has a major issue with capacity for respect and boundaries of other people? Because that also raises a LOT of issues and questions.

ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 08:57

ResisterRex · 30/01/2024 07:36

The whole thing was drawn around concern for sex offenders. Did that concern start in-house? Or from the outside in, and then the CPS ran with it? They must respond to this consultation before the election IMO. We need to know what direction they plan to go in.

You can see the questions that were asked (I assume CPS posed these) in Mermaids' submission.

Charitably one could say this was looking at the law and whether 'sex by deception' is a law that is fair/being fairly prosecuted?

Mermaids' response is that if someone tells you they are a certain sex then they are, and if they admit they were lying about their sex, then they're not.

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ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 08:58

It's a refreshingly simple approach to crime.

'Ask them if they dunnit and if they say 'no', believe them'.

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ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 09:00

No thought appears to have been given to the victims of sex by deception. Those familiar with Mermaids may be surprised they missed the glaringly obvious point, which is that if a victim accuses a trans person of being their birth sex rather than the sex they identify as they are surely guilty of transphobia.

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ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 09:01

If the accused was pretending to be trans they are a sex offender and the other party a victim of sexual assault.

If the accused is really truly trans they are brave and stunning and the other party is a bigot.

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ArabellaScott · 30/01/2024 09:02
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Apologies for Columbo posting.

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RethinkingLife · 30/01/2024 09:11

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/01/2024 20:52

I seem to recall that there's an odd story about the origins of this? I recall reading something by the Gay Mens Network ? that suggested there are out of control staff in the CPS running amok with consultations like this and managers too scared to challenge them? Or something like that.
Certainly the nature of the consultations suggests the usual CPS stitch up against women's interests? And for some odd reason the targets for prosecutions in this area all seem to be women?

It's all very odd

The CPS and their waggish appointments that may underpin some of this fear and the consultations. iirc, this appointment (Sophie Cook) is known to have defended sex by deception (see Glinner link).

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/4561116-cps-appoints-trans-activist-who-was-critical-of-women

Cook, however, does not believe that knowledge of a person’s sex is a necessity when consenting to sexual activity with them.
Transgender people are entitled to a private life and the personal choice as to how much of their history they disclose”, [Cook] said, claiming that ‘forcing transgender people to disclose their history to prospective partners’ is ‘infringing their ‘human rights’.
[Cook] doesn’t show the same concern for the ‘human rights’ of women who may prefer to know the sex of the person with whom they are physically intimate.

https://grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/sophie-cook-the-cps-and-speaking

PS: Cook had a role in the CPS' extension of domestic abuse to include displaying pre-transition photos, 'withholding' money for transition costs etc.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4843625-domestic-abuse-according-to-the-cps-includes

CPS appoints trans activist who was critical of women | Mumsnet

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https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4561116-cps-appoints-trans-activist-who-was-critical-of-women

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 30/01/2024 09:18

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