Many women here find the use of pronouns or names that are not biologically correct to be hurtful and disrespectful of women and would struggle to engage in a discussion with those who demand to gaslight, mind control and dictate our speech.
Where is the respectfulness when every time a polite argument is made by gender critical people we are freely called bigots and transphobes?!
There is no middle ground here only acceptance on both sides. We call it how we see it and they call it how they wish to see it. and everyone will just have to put on their big girl and big boy pants.
Picking a side on the pronoun issue will always exclude and insult one group.
But for the record, and something to think about, almost the entire internet is a "safe space" for trans people and a misogynistic shithole for women.
I sincerely hope that a forum called mumsnet would at least be more forthcoming to it's majority of female users and not take the piss like so many other "pro women" websites and organisations like the one this particular discussion is about.
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