This is a good post I think. Part of my therapy approach has been, hard as it seems, to try your best to see the opposing point of view as not deliberately bad faith etc.
And then hoping that person does the same to you.
That doesn't mean you capitulate or dilute your heartfelt opinion. I'll never ever feel anything less than disdain and anger at society for this TRA debacle.
But it does mean that you have to try and see why the other person has what looks like a bad faith argument...because chances are that's what they feel about you.
My thoughts on Phillips and Nandy and any number of high profile Left figures with TRA/adjacent views, is that they genuinely feel protective towards the trans community, and feel that as much protection needs to be extended. And that it's less of an issue for women to budge up a little if a victimised minority can feel less victimised.
This is what's going to inform how I feel Labour are trying to resolve their position here. Not Machievellian politics alone, but genuinely how their activist nature is now hitting the cold air of reality.
It's not pretty, and really uncomfortable to watch, but this is as good as we can reasonably hope for at this point. Starmer changing the weather re Labour policy messaging, and high profile figures like Phillips and Nandy publically stating reconsidering past views.
The question remains, can we trust this company wide, and individuals, contrition on TRA policy? Or are Labour cynical and dishonest enough to renege on all this once in power to push in the Self ID direction?