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ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 12:55

AIstolemylunch · 20/09/2023 12:42

Did we ever find out what happenned to the fragrant Jess Bradley in the end? Long graduated now so I assume he's now a 30y old accountant called James busy sexually harassing people in wine bars after work, or similar.

Grown a moustache, works in mushrooms.

WickedSerious · 20/09/2023 13:00

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 12:40

It did seem that Herbert was trying to claim some kind of victim status in that Herbert couldn't find somewhere suitable to dilate.

Perhaps Herbert could mount a campaign for suitable spaces for this kind of action to be created and maintained throughout the country.

Perhaps with broadcasting facilities to enable Herbert to improve his reach.

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A dilation suite.

No public building should be without one.

TLDRfuckers · 20/09/2023 13:11

To think this is the sort of dangerous idiots we’re up against. I despair. How did we get here?

maltravers · 20/09/2023 13:22

An airport loo floor - I suspect the grimness is part of the thrill, if we consider the Long Chu/Lavery philosophy that being a woman is about loving the degradation. There speaks a man if ever I heard one.

TeenEyeroll · 20/09/2023 13:46

WickedSerious · 20/09/2023 13:00

A dilation suite.

No public building should be without one.

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You know that women’s facilities would be knocked down to make room for them and the demands wouldn’t stop there.

Bergamotte · 20/09/2023 13:51

MargotBamborough · 20/09/2023 11:52

Thinking about the timing of this some more.

You're flying from London to Scotland.

Let's say it takes you an hour to get to the airport and you want to arrive when check in opens, so two hours before your flight. You set off three hours before your flight. Your flight takes an hour. Let's say it then takes you an hour to reclaim your baggage at the other end. No immigration to go through because this is a domestic flight. Then let's say it takes you two hours to get home, so we're now at seven hours. Let's add on an extra two hours for delays, so all in all you arrive at your destination in Scotland nine hours after you set off from your location in London.

As far as I can tell, barring any multiple hour delays in your flight taking off from London, nine hours is the absolute maximum time it is going to take you to get from door to door. In reality it is probably more like five or six hours.

A regular person who works a 9-5 job and isn't working from home is going to be out of the house for a minimum of nine hours on a normal working day.

So if someone has had a vaginoplasty and needs to do daily dilation, either:

A. they can't work

or

B. they manage to do it outside of working hours, in which case Herbert didn't need to do this at the airport before a short domestic flight

or

C. they need to take time out of their working day and have space provided at work so they can do this.

Which is it?

The article quoted Herbert as saying: "was 'sharing a photo of how I was forced to perform a medical procedure due to all the other facilities being airside [beyond passport and customs control]'."

So really, all you need to allow time for is

  • travelling from home to airport
  • getting through security (including any time queuing)

Dilating isn't like using a toilet, where you need to have the toilet available WHEN you need to pee.
It seems so much more logical to dilate before leaving for the airport. You could also have an extra dilation session once you get home, if you think doing it early would leave too long before today's and tomorrow's dilations.

WickedSerious · 20/09/2023 14:02

TeenEyeroll · 20/09/2023 13:46

You know that women’s facilities would be knocked down to make room for them and the demands wouldn’t stop there.

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We'd better not sign his petition then.

Giggorata · 20/09/2023 14:04

I can't say what I really want to say… so I'm just thinking it very loudly.

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 14:16

Giggorata · 20/09/2023 14:04

I can't say what I really want to say… so I'm just thinking it very loudly.

I can hear you.

Datun · 20/09/2023 14:23

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 14:16

I can hear you.

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Me too. It's actually quite deafening! 😁

QueenBitch666 · 20/09/2023 14:35

As carer for my disabled mother I'm fucking furious. The attention seeking scrote would have got a mouthful of abuse from me, and no doubt my mum would have give him a gob full

Grammarnut · 20/09/2023 14:42

Election line up photo shows he is male, as does the photo in the disabled loo. Wtaf?

MargotBamborough · 20/09/2023 14:47

Grammarnut · 20/09/2023 14:42

Election line up photo shows he is male, as does the photo in the disabled loo. Wtaf?

Literally everyone who has ever had this particular procedure is male.

viques · 20/09/2023 14:48

It’s a funny thing, but as a woman I have never had to use a dilator to keep my vagina from closing itself up. But I suppose these new style , improved model, 21st century women know what they are doing. Progress eh?

MagpiePi · 20/09/2023 14:53

It was a dead give away that he started the tweet with 'let's play'.

Funnily enough, I am not up to date on the latest dilation techniques, but why does he have to lie down? Women can change tampons, give birth and even have a shag in an upright postion.

MavisMcMinty · 20/09/2023 14:57

viques · 20/09/2023 14:48

It’s a funny thing, but as a woman I have never had to use a dilator to keep my vagina from closing itself up. But I suppose these new style , improved model, 21st century women know what they are doing. Progress eh?

Women with e.g cervical cancer who’ve had radical pelvic radiotherapy have to use vaginal dilators. They don’t tend to do it on public toilet floors, or post pictures on social media of themselves pretending to do it.

Funny that.

FrancescaContini · 20/09/2023 15:00

Repulsive

HootyMcBooby76 · 20/09/2023 15:02

He probably doesn't care about the piss riddled floor.

Going from past TRA demonstrations involving copious amounts of urine and pissing oneself to gain attention, and a lot of TWs seeming obsession with bodily fluids, it probably adds to the experience.

All adds to the thrill dontcha' know.

TinselAngel · 20/09/2023 15:04

Was there no multi faith prayer room he could use? Or would that have been disrespectful?

loislovesstewie · 20/09/2023 15:07

I'm imagining urine in the hair from that pic.

viques · 20/09/2023 15:13

SabrinaThwaite · 20/09/2023 00:42

It was apparently on the 6th day after surgery.

”Discharge day” 🤢

I reckon the real discharge day will be about four days after frolicking on that bed of other people germs. It will be green and stink.

viques · 20/09/2023 15:22

ArabeIIaScott · 20/09/2023 12:40

It did seem that Herbert was trying to claim some kind of victim status in that Herbert couldn't find somewhere suitable to dilate.

Perhaps Herbert could mount a campaign for suitable spaces for this kind of action to be created and maintained throughout the country.

Perhaps with broadcasting facilities to enable Herbert to improve his reach.

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If he does campaign then I hope he remembers that there are some transwomen, one with a cervix comes to mind, who deliberately seek out women’s toilets in airports to do whatever it is that men do in toilets like pissing on the floor so if Herbert wanted to have a safe dilation space he should bear this in mind before trying to commandeer womens spaces for his emergency rummaging about .

Mochudubh · 20/09/2023 15:42

As a PP helpfully posted above. LGW has facilities available that don't require lying on a piss-soaked floor. That poster only linked to the LGW home page but it took me about 30 seconds to find the relevant info.

Methinks the lady doth protest too much.

https://www.gatwickairport.com/at-the-airport/passenger-services/special-assistance/facilities-and-services/
"We have two adult Changing Places located on the arrivals routes in both of our terminals. These facilities are available for all arriving passengers and include an adjustable bed that lowers to ground level, a hoist and flexible wash basins, within a large wash room with full shower facilities.

Changing Places are free to use and do not need to be pre-booked. There is a sign adjacent to the facility with a phone number to call to gain access. These facilities are clearly sign posted if you are an arriving passenger.

For departing passengers, we also have a small Changing Place located on the upper level of the South Terminal departure lounge with an adjustable bed and wash basin. However, if you are departing from North Terminal, we advise you to go to the Special assistance desk located in the departure lounge, where a member of the special assistance team will be happy to escort you to the facility which is on the arrivals route. Please allow plenty of time to get there.

HootyMcBooby76 · 20/09/2023 15:49

Gosh with all these transwomen queueing up to use the toilets, I hope they are prepared for a wait, what with all the dilating fun and selfie taking that seems to be happening inside them.

MavisMcMinty · 20/09/2023 15:51

While people who really do “just want to pee” hop cross-legged in the queue. How very inclusive.