You asked
“But is there anything in our biology which inherently makes men more violent than women? That's the important question.”
I answered that with a no.
You didn't. You answered it with:
I have seen no evidence that men are forced to be violent due to their minor biological differences from women.
I didn't say anything about men being 'forced' to be violent. Of course they're not. Lots of men aren't violent at all.
But you now say that you meant to say that you don't believe there's anything biological about men's greater propensity to violence.
If you believe that men being bigger and having more muscle actually drives them to be violent while women being able to be impregnated makes us not violent, then that’s a belief as it bears no relation to anything in the current scientific understanding of the causes of violence.
If I'm on my own and get into an argument with a man, and he seems to be getting angry and looks as though he might hit me, I'll back off, start to try to placate him and try to get away from him. This is because he is likely to be bigger than me and almost certainly much stronger than me and if he hit me I'd get hurt. I can't imagine such a man reacting to me in this way if it was me getting angry (he might even try to get me more riled, just for the fun of it). If you can't see how this size and strength difference changes human interactions, I can only assume you're either male or you've led a very sheltered life.
It’s not a coincidence that rates of violence are virtually the same in other patriarchal societies but the cause of it is not inherently biological, it is psycho-social whereby early life socialisation plays the primary role in creating violent men.
So why do you think virtually all societies everywhere in the world and throughout history have socialised their males the same way? Why did it start and why has it continued?