Lesbian speed dating event update

[Justme56]

Jenny’s event is back on.

Back in the 80's we never had any problem telling a butch lesbian wasn't a man. I think it is your delusion to believe this is now an issue whose solution is to let in any male who claims to be a woman.
All women are welcome in women's single sex spaces including butch lesbians, women with short hair or any GNC female. As it has always been. This has nothing to do with feminine presentation. Quite the opposite.
Just no males.

Can you bring all that evidence to back your claims?

come on, I’d love to see these tests’. Which tests? I haven’t seen any research so I am super keen to see this.

Or you are expressing wishful thinking.

Urban myth, used to try and leverage women into giving up single sex spaces.

Again on the grounds that male people just cannot be expected to care about or respect that women need inclusion and access too.

Why do you think some male people seem to have this serious social problem with respecting other people's needs and inclusion?

The homophobia and misogyny here, to claim that lesbians are indistinguishable from men.
It's not true but you're vile to perpetuate this disgusting stereotype.

Which person on here has been "put to the test" or is this yet another tedious lie?

It's interesting how some transwoman are insistent that they 100% pass, but they don't pass, even over faceless communication such as forums or Twitter.

Still musing on this whole 'ha ha, you can't have boundaries cos we'll smash them anyway' thing.

It's extremely male. And they know it.

Only a certain kind of male however.

I know and love many males. Yet none of them are gits. This seems to be the difference.

Yes, me too. It's male in that men are not expected to give way and be kind and accepting in the same way as women.

Just stop sexually harassing us and we'll call it good...

Are we lesbians evil terfs for refusing to break down the Cotton ceiling and sleep with trans women? Or are we evil sexual harassers of trans women (because we supposedly want to sleep with them)?

Make up your mind, gender activists, because it can’t be both.

Keep up, dear. Sexual harassment is about both power and sex. Pestering someone for sexual favours is quintessential sexual harassment. And sexual harassment is what you were accusing lesbians of doing.

Now perhaps you can clarify if you really do think that lesbians not wanting to sleep with trans women is “bigotry”? Or perhaps it was some other thing you were accusing me of.

Which person on here has been "put to the test" or is this yet another tedious lie?
Not able to answer this, I see.

Another homophobe who wants to deny same-sex attraction.

Must not be very good feminists around here...
Is that all you have? Seriously? I don't know whether to laugh or cry at this. A twelve yr old could do a better retort 😂

If this worked, there wouldn't be a problem, would there? 😂

We could have the mixed sex 'lesbian' groups for those very happy with it being a mixed sex thing, and we could have the female only lesbian groups for those not, and everyone could leave everyone else alone and in peace!

Except no, male people just keep on harrassing and shutting down and erasing those homosexual females who won't just get their knickers off and learn to like dick.

As usual, it's the women who say no, I want to do what works for me, who are the targets.

'puts you to the test'

fucksake. How fucking gross can you get.

Lesbians don't want dick. They don't need to 'pass a test' to prove it.

Women can say 'no' to men.

We don't need to jump through hoops or make a case or pass a test.

We say no. That's all.

Women are allowed to say 'no' to men and I've yet to meet a woman who can't accurately sex all humans they meet.

Men don't seem to be quite as good as it (which makes evolutionary sense if you think it through) although I've only known men get it wrong from pictures / videos, not in person with so much more information to go on.

It's a pretty innate skill for women. Also other mammals like dogs can correctly sex humans - males and females smell differently. The idea a chromosome test is needed is laughable.

I’m actually kinda surprised that message was deleted.

Hmm. A damn shame for the deletion. It's better everyone sees what's been said.

Mad isn't it? But very familiar. Many blokes feel that women should not be permitted to lesbian until they have proven to said bloke's satisfaction (peer reviewed cited materials only) that they really, really are homosexual.

This usually includes proving that even said bloke's most fantastic dick does not 'turn' them. 'You're not gay, you just haven't shagged me yet'/'I bet I could turn you' being very common ones. And snarls of 'frigid' if you declined this amazing opportunity.

It's baffling how some of these men get their egos in through doors. But it's part and parcel of the whole 'it's not like women are real people with real feelings who can actually make independent decisions and have lives that do not revolve around being sexually useful to men - cos if they're not being sexually useful to a bloke what's the point of them?' thing.

Oh wow, I am delighted to see Gender Ideology Myth number 7 "you can never tell" in real time!
Even using the "butch lesbians (who are always being booted out of the women's loos)" myth to back it up 😂
Excellent.
Keep em coming.

I think men look at porn and think that it's either
1...a documentary/educational, or
2...a self help manual.

No suprise they take what they've "learnt" from it and apply to real world situations, incl touch problems to solve like "lesbians really aren't interested in me".

*tough problems