So, 'twat'? Which I use for any and all genders, would have been okay?
Also, can't follow this bit
She said he “pushed” her arm with her shoulder and “exhibited hostility” which made her “very upset”.
Who's the her whose shoulder he used to push 'her' arm, or was it 'her' own shoulder? I assume then he'd got 'her' in some kind of arm lock. Or perhaps everyone is finding these fucking pronouns really confusing 😕