It really is one thing to hear second hand that maybe there are small numbers of people who regret transition and quite another to actually hear an articulate, brave young woman explicitly describing the irreversible damage done to her body and call it out as the medical scandal it is.
No fluffy euphamisms, no denying that at least this young person has been harmed.
I can see how hearing her speak for the first time would have an emotional gut punch that being generally aware of the controversy wouldn't match. I think many of us have had moments of finding ourselves a top of an even greater peak.
There's the moment you understand detransitioners exist, then the one you realise the full horror of what was done to them and how little safeguarding there is to ensure that it really was the right treatment for them, then the moment you realise they are not rare, the moment you realise that it isn't about people who aren't really trans getting caught up in medicalisation at all because some detransitioners are from the most classic presentations of trans: persistent cross sex identification with dysphoria not just the rapid onset group. The moment you realise that even for the small numbers who would have if left alone grown up and pursued trans surgeries that even for this group, medicalising them young results in poorer health and medical outcomes than leaving them to grow up and decide as adults.
The moment you realise the medical industry passes the buck between the surgeons, endocrinologists, psychologists with no one really taking responsibility for the diagnosis. The health "professionals" are trusting that they wouldn't be seeing the patients if they were not trans and the patients are trusting the HCP that they wouldn't treat them if they were not. And they are trusting the treatments are more effective and safe than they are. What a mess.
To get where we need to be to protect young people, we need more people to see this stuff. I appreciate the frustration of the women who have been begging for them to see it. But watching people gradually peak and encouraging them along is part of how we get there.
I do think AN .want what society was doing and he's right though I can understand women wanting to stand up and say "we objected" too