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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

How can we prevent the trans issue from being a gift to the right wing?

384 replies

TheTERFnextDoor · 23/07/2023 22:04

I'm really worried about the direction politics is taking, not only in the UK but globally. The right wing is on the rise almost everywhere for various reasons.

Sadly, the gender debate will undoubtedly be a gift to the right wing over the next few years. It's the Tories ace card at the next election; the left as they are at the moment can't win this debate.

What can we practically do to prevent this? I have tried speaking to my local Mp (Labour), and he basically told me to "be kind".

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SunnyEgg · 24/07/2023 15:27

lifeturnsonadime · 24/07/2023 15:23

Nothing more authoritarian, btw, than telling women they are bigots for not believing that humans can change sex and not wanting men to have access to women's spaces and sports. Which is what the labour party has done by expelling women for 'wrong think'.

True. Swallow this lie or else. Yeh sounds great.

Ramblingnamechanger · 24/07/2023 15:33

RebelliousCow yes you are right…but the trans law is being challenged in the courts by Vox as being unconstitutional. I think the socialists/left will have to work quite hard to get feminist groups on board.

caringcarer · 24/07/2023 16:03

ValancyRedfern · 23/07/2023 22:16

We can't. The left wing parties need to wake up and realise this is a massive vote loser. It's not that we haven't been telling them; it's that they refuse to listen.

This. Saying a woman can have a penis is ludicrous and no sane person could vote for them. The left should stop making these stupid statements and admit they made a big mistake but they won't.

AdamRyan · 24/07/2023 16:15

Signalbox · 24/07/2023 15:17

There are loads of features of the current incarnation of the Conservative party that are similar to fascist authoritarian regimes.

Like?

https://www.theneweuropean.co.uk/suella-braverman-wants-to-cleanse-the-civil-service-guess-who-tried-that-in-the-1930s/

https://www.theneweuropean.co.uk/alastair-campbells-diary-how-boris-johnson-became-an-accidental-fascist/

https://www.openculture.com/2016/11/umberto-eco-makes-a-list-of-the-14-common-features-of-fascism.html

Appeal to emotion rather than fact
Raising fears of an outsider threat and distrust of "the other"
Appeal to social frustration
Positioning as "the Voice of the People"

I think we should be holding politicians to account when they start straying in these directions.

I’m with Gary: This IS the kind of thing they did in 1930s Germany

The ‘activist blob’ email should set our alarm bells ringing – it’s an attempt to politicise the state

https://www.theneweuropean.co.uk/suella-braverman-wants-to-cleanse-the-civil-service-guess-who-tried-that-in-the-1930s

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/07/2023 16:18

Appeal to emotion rather than fact

Name me a political party that doesn't do that on either the left or right, because I can't think of one.

lifeturnsonadime · 24/07/2023 16:20

Appeal to emotion rather than fact

Women you must be kind and accept that women can have penises. You must give up your safe spaces to any penis person who says they are a woman. If you don't agree we will expel you from the labour party and we don't want your vote anyway.

lifeturnsonadime · 24/07/2023 16:25

Apologies, I have put safe spaces when I meant single sex spaces.

That Open Culture article is so strange, I'm not sure how it is an example of the Conservative Party being akin to fascist.

To me the use of fascist in this context is akin to calling men women because they say so. It's changing the meaning of words and offence to those who have lived under fascist regimes and to those of us who are really women.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 24/07/2023 16:28

Wellies54 · 24/07/2023 12:58

I agree. My values have not changed. I see nothing left wing or progressive about gender ideology.

Me too. I didn't leave the Left, the Left left me.

To be very clear, I do believe it is progressive to challenge and defang the gender roles and stereotypes that still exist in our culture because of historic sexism so that women (and men) are empowered to live safely and achieve their potential.

I do not believe gender ideology (as it is currently being implemented) is doing any of that, and is in fact strengthening these regressive and disempowering gender roles and stereotypes.

Hepwo · 24/07/2023 16:41

AdamRyan · 24/07/2023 08:51

So your conclusion is thay because of Welsh Labour (who are constrained by conservative westminster decisions), people are better off voting for a party that's been proven to break the law, is full of liars and populists, and has pretty much bankrupted the country and destroyed our standing and global influence on a vanity project?

🤔

You would have to live on a diet of Guardian BS to think destroyed and bankrupted are words that in any way describe the UK.

It almost comical reading posts that pop up saying this now.

PorcelinaV · 24/07/2023 16:46

https://www.theneweuropean.co.uk/suella-braverman-wants-to-cleanse-the-civil-service-guess-who-tried-that-in-the-1930s/

So let’s remind ourselves of what the Nazis did to the German civil service. In 1933 they passed a law designed not just to expel Jews but also to “cleanse the civil service of all those elements that had crept into it in the last 14 years, mainly because of their party affiliations, but who lacked all competence and moral qualifications”.

So this kind of thing is being compared to an email where the civil service were described as part of an "activist blob"?

It's hardly impressive evidence of a strong parallel.

I’m with Gary: This IS the kind of thing they did in 1930s Germany

The ‘activist blob’ email should set our alarm bells ringing – it’s an attempt to politicise the state

https://www.theneweuropean.co.uk/suella-braverman-wants-to-cleanse-the-civil-service-guess-who-tried-that-in-the-1930s

Hepwo · 24/07/2023 16:52

AdamRyan · 24/07/2023 09:19

When Maria Miller had her consultation, trans politics were really not being widely debated by the mainstream.

She ran a consultation, invited no feminist groups to be involved, called us bigots and "purported feminists" for having concerns. And proposed a move to self ID for transgender people.

This was 8 years ago. It was this Conservative government. Yet now people think the Conservatives are going to protect women's rights.

Either you have a very short memory or you haven't actually been following the debate and are just hopping on to cheerlead the tories.

Here's an article from 2016 where Miller talks about how trans people deserve self ID (and interestingly Jess Philips from Labour is quoted in the GC side of the debate)

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/maria-miller-says-only-hostility-to-transgender-report-came-from-women-purporting-to-be-feminists-a6830406.html

Jess Phillips put her name on a private member's bill with Maria Miller to change the Equality Act to say gender identity.

This only stopped because of the referendum on Europe.

The results of the consultation were analysed and found to be in opposition to removing the medical sign off.

Overall that consultation was a good thing, a body of evidence is now held in the public domain about why it was proposed by trans people and why the public responded that it should not go ahead.

Westfacing · 24/07/2023 16:52

I don't see how we can prevent it being a gift to the right wing if the Labour Party doesn't come to its senses in the run up to the general election. In fact it's already a gift to the Mail, TalkTV, GBnews etc.

PronounssheRa · 24/07/2023 17:04

Jess Phillips put her name on a private member's bill with Maria Miller to change the Equality Act to say gender identity.

She also thinks that spousal consent is 'awful'

How can we prevent the trans issue from being a gift to the right wing?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 24/07/2023 17:11

It's in Labour's hands to stop this being 'a gift to the right wing'. They just need to support women & women's rights.

I don't know why they haven't thought of this for themselves. Seems like stating the bleeding obvious.

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 24/07/2023 17:14

PronounssheRa · 24/07/2023 17:04

Jess Phillips put her name on a private member's bill with Maria Miller to change the Equality Act to say gender identity.

She also thinks that spousal consent is 'awful'

Today Annaliese Dodds has doubled down on that, apparently speaking on behalf of the Labour party.

Annaliese Dodds: To modernise, simplify and reform the gender recognition law, we will:

Replace the panel of anonymous doctors who oversee decisions with a registrar model.

Replace the 'acquired gender' period with a reflection period.

Scrap the outdated spousal consent mechanism.

https://twitter.com/AnnelieseDodds/status/1683434056225112065

Fantastic.

https://twitter.com/AnnelieseDodds/status/1683434056225112065

Hepwo · 24/07/2023 17:25

Scrap the outdated spousal consent mechanism.

So are any of the "Tories hate women" posters going to respond to this?

Dodds doesn't even believe women married to men who are transitioning should have the simple right to leave that marriage to the man they married BEFORE he changes his birth certificate. They want women to be forced to divorce them as women.

Who was it you said hates women again?

Froodwithatowel · 24/07/2023 17:26

Yes. Definitely preventing women being able to escape a marriage when a man changes it unilaterally from the contract they agreed to, is progressive and morally great.

<slow handclap>

Boomboom22 · 24/07/2023 17:31

They can still divorce normally right or are you not allowed to traumatise tw in that way? Probably illegal or labour want it to be. So progressive 🤣🤣

Hepwo · 24/07/2023 17:32

Unbelievable that they have put that back on the table.

All the lies about that are being regurgitated.

Starting with calling it a veto.

From the honest party?

Froodwithatowel · 24/07/2023 17:32

And it begs the same question I've seen from a number of posters across a number of threads today.

Labour: are you this ill informed and stupid that you don't KNOW the problems and complexities involved? Have you seriously managed to escape all knowledge when it's all over the public domain for anyone with a brain who needs to be involved? And if so, wtf are you doing?

Or are you fully aware, and going to do it anyway, but are too gutless to own that you are openly and frankly desirous of creating an unequal male supremacist society in which women and children are abused in the name of male freedoms. Largely sexual freedoms. With their lesser rights and status fixed in law to prevent their resisting or protesting this. And if so, wtf are you doing? Extremist left governments tend to create the same dictators and body counts as extremist right governments, totalinarianism isn't any nicer if it comes in red rather than blue.

Which is it?

PorcelinaV · 24/07/2023 17:34

I wonder if trans-rights activism would show parallels with left-wing authoritarianism?

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2021/09/psychological-dimensions-left-wing-authoritarianism/620185/

Intriguingly, the researchers found some common traits between left-wing and right-wing authoritarians, including a “preference for social uniformity, prejudice towards different others, willingness to wield group authority to coerce behavior, cognitive rigidity, aggression and punitiveness towards perceived enemies, outsized concern for hierarchy, and moral absolutism.”

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Costello and his colleagues started fresh. They developed what eventually became a list of 39 statements capturing sentiments such as “We need to replace the established order by any means necessary” and “I should have the right not to be exposed to offensive views.” Subjects were asked to score the statements on a scale of 1 to 7. They showed a trait that the researchers described as “anti-hierarchical aggression” by agreeing strongly that “If I could remake society, I would put people who currently have the most privilege at the bottom.” By agreeing with statements such as “Getting rid of inequality is more important than protecting the so-called ‘right’ to free speech,” they showed an attitude called “top-down censorship.” And they showed what the research team called “anti-conventionalism” by endorsing statements such as “I cannot imagine myself becoming friends with a political conservative.”

The Experts Somehow Overlooked Authoritarians on the Left

Many psychologists wrongly assumed that coercive attitudes exist only among conservatives.

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2021/09/psychological-dimensions-left-wing-authoritarianism/620185

Swansandcustard · 24/07/2023 17:34

By accepting there are other issues as well, and not accepting verbal bribes which are empty words to pander to certain groups, much like the immigration issues. Don’t be fooled they have a position down to FWR!

nothingcomestonothing · 24/07/2023 17:36

AdamRyan · 24/07/2023 15:15

There are loads of features of the current incarnation of the Conservative party that are similar to fascist authoritarian regimes.

In Europe, we should know the danger of turning a blind eye to warning signs. Yet when people point out the similarities between the Conservative rhetoric and fascists its written off as hysteria.

I can fully understand people not voting Labour because of their policies but i can't understand why any woman would vote Conservative. They will shaft us.

Since we're at the 'accusations of fascism ' part of the thread, presumably it's a good time to post this?

How can we prevent the trans issue from being a gift to the right wing?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 24/07/2023 17:40

@nothingcomestonothing I've seen similar things but not that one.

'Impressive taste in clothing'? uh-errr 😂

SusiePevensie · 24/07/2023 17:42

' too gutless to own that you are openly and frankly desirous of creating an unequal male supremacist society in which women and children are abused in the name of male freedoms. Largely sexual freedoms'

Sigh. The people lobbying against women's sexual freedoms are also the ones campaigning against trans rights. That's just the boring reality. It might be ideologically unsatisfactory, but it is there.