Very similar to what some of the comments on the above posted video said.
I thought the same - how many men would put up with some big guy shoving his hand in their pants for 10 seconds for a grope?
On a personal level, an older teenage cousin groped me when I was 9, for what I remember as a short time. I was so freaked out that I completely blocked it out of my head for about 8 years. I was really upset when it came back to me one day.
I still feel weird about it and about the fact I didn't tell anyone, because I was young and confused and didn't know how to explain it. They live far away and I have thankfully only ever had to see him since then at his dad's funeral.
It's about the violation ffs, not the duration of the event. 😓