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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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Alltheprettyseahorses · 09/06/2023 09:31

I can't believe a man has won in court for the right to access non-consenting naked women. It is state-mandated sex abuse. But then I heard Biden's deranged trans-obsessed rant yesterday, if Sunak had any gumption he'd have pulled him up. How on earth do these idiots get allowed near power?

Twoshoesnewshoes · 09/06/2023 09:32

This is sickening, and scary, the implications in law are really worrying.

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:39

A bit off topic - surprised many here dont know what Korean spa is, its not usually described as "naked lady spa" - this description is hilarious - but yes, its for ladies and you usually are naked in there - you can wear underpants, but its not very comfortable.

There are usually several steam rooms, like one made of jade, one with charcoal, etc; a couple of jacuzzies, one with herbs; you get all relaxed and steamed up and then you can get a whole body scrub from a professional. After that, some lovely Korean food and you can also have a nap on a raised heated platform, soooo lovely.

Having someone there who would make you feel on edge would definitely ruin the whole experience.

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:40

BTW - there is a man equivalent, too, they get different kind of treatment there, like massage etc

Littlesprouts · 09/06/2023 09:44

A bit off topic - surprised many here dont know what Korean spa is, its not usually described as "naked lady spa"

That was how the trans litigant described the win on social media if you didn't see that, not my words by the way!

I agree it would be funny if a kid described it as such, or it was an in joke or something. A fully intact male trying to get in - not so much...

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:46

I@Littlesprouts I know, this is ridiculous - not "Korean spa", but "naked lady spa", wtf

Amazing how easy it is for these people to shit on any culture they come across.

DdraigGoch · 09/06/2023 09:47

ShimmeringShirts · 09/06/2023 09:10

He has a full 5 o’clock shadow, something I’ve never seen on any woman alive, not even on real women who are prone to facial hair themselves.

Some photos showed a full beard

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 09/06/2023 09:51

georgarina · 09/06/2023 08:50

They are common in Asia. I've been to them. They are also common in other cultures ie Judaism. It's a private female-only space based on cultural tradition, not a free spirited nudist thing.

This. It's no different from women feeling able to be naked in a changing room.

PrivateEyeToothpaste · 09/06/2023 09:51

I go to a ‘swimwear optional’ spa in the UK, with alternate male and female sessions. Over half of the women that attend arrive and depart wearing headscarves and modest clothing. If their religion and/or culture means that they don’t show their hair to men I can only assume they certainly wouldn’t want a male to see their naked (or even swimming costume-clad) body. What about their religious rights?

Simonlebonbon · 09/06/2023 09:52

I saw this in trending so I didn't realise the actual issue but I rode over on my soapbox ready to defend my PCOS sisters, I've a few friends with this and some have better beards than your average hells angel!

Anyway hairy ladies, you need me to defend you somewhere more relevant, we ride at dawn!

ginghamstarfish · 09/06/2023 09:53

Disgusting bastard. So he'll be in there alone, as the female customers will hav left, shortly followed by the female staff and then even he won't go anymore because no 'naked ladies' to perv on. Then the business will go bust. What the fuck is wrong with those people who say this is ok, and pass laws to say so?

forgotmyusername1 · 09/06/2023 09:58

Simonlebonbon · 09/06/2023 09:52

I saw this in trending so I didn't realise the actual issue but I rode over on my soapbox ready to defend my PCOS sisters, I've a few friends with this and some have better beards than your average hells angel!

Anyway hairy ladies, you need me to defend you somewhere more relevant, we ride at dawn!

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NyanBinaryJohn · 09/06/2023 10:15

Yet the Trans movement wonder why anti trans sentiment is growing.

Haven, it's because of men like you ruining female owned businesses for your own perverted kink. Racist, misogynist and a narcissist, all rolled in a bit of hair dye.

And the Judge? You are no female ally. You are simply a pathetic handmaiden willing to shit on the traditions of generations or Koreans, all for the sake of one pathetic white man in a dress. Racist and misogynist. Not fit to practice.

I hope the business are sensible and simply fold, take whatever money they have, rather than hold on and go bankrupt.

This is an old post from Haven which the DM kindly shared. He really does intensely hate what he can never truly be.

Bearded femme gains legal access to female only nude spa
KittenKong · 09/06/2023 10:19

That’s close to me sister. I wonder if she would pop down - she’s blind and has a pointy white stick (and taught small children for many years).

She is raging about all this.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 09/06/2023 10:20

NyanBinaryJohn · 09/06/2023 10:15

Yet the Trans movement wonder why anti trans sentiment is growing.

Haven, it's because of men like you ruining female owned businesses for your own perverted kink. Racist, misogynist and a narcissist, all rolled in a bit of hair dye.

And the Judge? You are no female ally. You are simply a pathetic handmaiden willing to shit on the traditions of generations or Koreans, all for the sake of one pathetic white man in a dress. Racist and misogynist. Not fit to practice.

I hope the business are sensible and simply fold, take whatever money they have, rather than hold on and go bankrupt.

This is an old post from Haven which the DM kindly shared. He really does intensely hate what he can never truly be.

Judges just interpret the law and this judgement was pretty much inevitable, given State law. It's the fault of the state's law-makers, not the judge.

Annaissleeping · 09/06/2023 10:33

Cakencookieobsessed · 09/06/2023 07:56

It's wrong they're allowing it but anyone getting nude in a public spa probably doesn't care. Who even goes to these places??

I went to Finland before the pandemic and learnt a bit there about how much saunas are part of the Finnish culture. Finns go daily. They are where community bonds are formed. Political meetings happen there, business meetings. My guide said (respectfully) that British people don't get it. They have spirits of the sauna and folklore connected to them going back thousands of years. It's part of their mental health care system in a way, it's good for you physically too. Babies get born in Finnish saunas. It's where they wash.

This thread might not be about Finland but I think we need to be careful about dismissing something that has huge cultural importance to others. I suspect Korean spas are similar. And who even goes? Elderly women, new mothers, babies, young children. This is not the 'go and have a spa day' situation that gets thrown out on Mumsnet when someone is stressed and over worked, where you get an overpriced massage and some lukewarm bucks fizz.

coronabeer · 09/06/2023 10:37

Can’t peel a kiwi without thinking about “her”.

inamarina · 09/06/2023 10:38

IncomingTraffic · 09/06/2023 08:10

It’s really interesting how respect for other cultures (in this case Korean traditions) matters less than letting biological males be naked in a space for women.

Who cares about all the female people who will now be excluded from the space. ‘Inclusion’ of white males is the top priority.

With the added factor that you’re not allowed to mention that they’re male, and must undertake re-education if you dare to even think that.

Yes, I’ve noticed that too.
Interesting how some “progressives” can shift their focus so easily according to the newest ideology and all of the sudden other minorities don’t matter.

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 10:39

@Annaissleeping I totally agree - majority of people going to these spas are usually Koreans who want to continue to live their traditional lifestyle where going to the spa is simply part of a normal everyday life. These places are already very inclusive as they allow Western women who cant speak the language and very often don't know all the cultural implications, rituals, norms of behaviour etc.

I wonder if this place will simply close and re-open somewhere in predominantly Asian area of town with Korean only signage, so no westerners would even know its there.

coronabeer · 09/06/2023 10:42

As for the “incidental woman” nonsense - that’s like saying anyone who ever dressed as a pantomime horse is more of a horse than Red Rum.

zibzibara · 09/06/2023 10:45

This is one of the US states that is currently incarcerating men in women's prisons, Kara Dansky writes about it in her book:

Male convicted rapists are being permitted to be housed in women's prisons with vulnerable women, many of whom have already suffered tremendous abuse at the hands of men. A man who goes by the name of Princess Zoee Marie Andromeda Love, who was convicted of raping a twelve-year-old girl, is being housed in a Washington state women’s prison and has allegedly had sexual intercourse with a female inmate (which, if true, legally constitutes rape). His placement in the women's prison is in accordance with the official policy of the Washington State Department of Corrections.

They clearly don't give a shit about women in general.

KittenKong · 09/06/2023 10:49

Washington state is a bit bonkers like that. I suspect it’s the crazy from California rising…

notokaywiththetropes · 09/06/2023 10:51

Cakencookieobsessed · 09/06/2023 07:56

It's wrong they're allowing it but anyone getting nude in a public spa probably doesn't care. Who even goes to these places??

Of course they care. The only reason most women would be nude in a public spa is because its female only. Lots of people go to these places, and why shouldn;t they?

KittenKong · 09/06/2023 10:58

If it doesn’t matter why isn’t this character going to a mixed nude/men only spa?