A re read of the Deptford Women's Project open letter may be interesting at this point. They were noting at the time that their service users - people struggling with addiction, with literacy, with access to education, poverty, homelessness - were having to deal with an invasion of privately educated, wealthy young students from the university who wished to take over the session and lecture these people, in detail, about how those students were more oppressed than anyone, (largely about stating a claim to be the focus of the group and activities, and to lead and determine the actions of the group) and about pronouns and the importance of social justice politics and language choices.
They were unable to notice that to those living on the edge, day to day, with real problems such as where the next meal came from or where to sleep tonight, or with filling out a form, pronouns were on a different planet.
Gentrification of working class was how the project put it - and explained it well - but it was largely fetishizing and role playing a perceived identity. With absolute, serene obliviousness to how unreal and insulting this was to people actually living in the world this privileged, wealthy, highly educated group were enjoying a dabble in. While wishing to be the commanding class of it. That part of it sailed over their heads too.