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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

If I woke up tomorrow and was a man...

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Kinsters · 23/05/2023 16:34

Just musing on sex and gender and trying to decide how I would really feel if I woke up tomorrow and I was a man.

Clothes, hobbies, make-up wouldn't change really. I don't really care much what people think of my appearance but I think there would be advantages to being perceived as a man, especially at work.

I wouldn't like being bigger in size. I like being small because I can fit more easily in places (writing that down it sounds silly). I'm sure there are advantages to being bigger/male proportioned that I've never known about or considered. It'd be great to be stronger too. Sex wise, if my DH was at the same time turned into a woman I think we could make it work. It would be an adjustment though.

I don't think waking up as a man would affect any of my day to day interactions - I could still do all the things I do with my kids. Maybe some of my friendships would be different but I have both male and female friends so maybe not.

I guess I just feel that fundamentally I wouldn't be that different. Anyone else pondered this and reached the same or different conclusion? Don't get me wrong, I like being a woman (although now I've been thinking about this a while - do I like being a woman? Really?). I guess I accept being a woman would be a better way of putting it. It is interesting to think how different life would be if I was a man.

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Kinsters · 26/05/2023 09:05

Grammarnut · 26/05/2023 08:47

But why would you have sex with a man if you became a man? Sexual orientation is not the same as sex so it might remain the same or change along with your sex. And it is not homophobic (or heterophobic) to have sexual preferences.

Because my DH is a man. I'd feel more comfortable if he changed into a woman at the same time haha.

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hyperspacebug · 26/05/2023 09:20

I am short enough as it is and not sure I'd be rolling in life as very short man with thick East European accent.

Also perception of men having it easier vs perception of being someone from different background? Not sure. If you are tall skinny blonde from genteel background and dressed like one...everyone would be fawning over you and not care if your opinion is wrong. Preferable to a posh man who may be more judged harshly for not being productive/entrepreneurial.

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