That’s a really great article by Jenni Russell and I think she’s expressed the situation almost perfectly. As a small gripe I think that having been watching this debate for years the good man/predatory man split she identifies is too generous to men as a class. Especially to men in politics.
There are too many men who want women to stop moaning and be kind even when we have clearly and repeatedly outlined to them the reality of the threats faced- they know perfectly well that women don’t want to be subjected to those risks and threats.
But these men are fine with women running daily risks simply because they don’t want to see middle aged women not behaving like accommodating Mummies to everyone. We don’t have much sexual purpose to them at this age, so we may as well make ourselves useful to others.
Those men aren’t ‘predatory’ as in having plans of attacking women and girls in the ladies’ toilet necessarily, they are just bog standard found everywhere everyday misogynists. Budge up, be kind, TWAW, most oppressed people ever types. Not good men for sure.
There are some prominent good ones- Malcolm Clark, Glinner, who stick their necks out for women all the time (thank you) but the rest of this group of good men must have been literally hiding under a rock for the past ten years if they haven’t come across this before.
Hopefully they will all snap into action now they have heard women’s plight and get involved to support us? Perhaps donations and social media follows to Sex Matters will rocket as these good men come out? Jenni Russell can’t mean any current politicians are good men because they are all well aware of these issues and how women feel about them and have been for years.
Still, men do need to be involved to make legislative change so she’s probably just being tactical by being overly nice about it.