I agree with the OP. You can't know what it's like to be a man unless you are a man. My guess is that girls suffering from gender dysphoria have a problem with expectations placed on women. For instance, many of us women don't like wearing a bra because it's uncomfortable but we are required to wear one whenever we go out. Other expectations are more subtle. For instance, we often couch our language to make it less blunt. We don't want to sound too certain of our beliefs because it creates jealousy in other women.
For women, it IS important others see us as being feminine. It is a bad day for a woman if she walks into a restroom and other women gasp even slightly because her haircut or some other feature have given them the idea she is a man.
I feel every bit a woman but certain things bother me, such as the expectation I would want to wear makeup, high heels, nylons, bras, perfume, impractical clothing, or jewellery. So when I see transgendered women all dressed up, I'm astonished they are picking the worst parts of being a woman to emulate!
The best part of being a woman is leaving computer problems and house problems to men. I'm absolutely relieved I don't have to design bridges, fix cars, fight fires, fight wars, fight crime, deal with scary animals or lift heavy things.
If there's a mousetrap to be set, I ask a man to do it. For me, being a woman is about avoiding responsibility whenever possible, though I do still have many responsibilities.
As for the OP, I consider all men as basically cursed by their biology. It must be a living hell to think of sex every ten seconds and constantly react to sexual stimuli physically. I see men as basically handicapped and distracted. It's a wonder they accomplish as much as they do.