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Should IVF be available to lesbians?

520 replies

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/03/2023 19:25

And single women? Or should assisted conception only be for infertile women in heterosexual relationships?

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Citygirlrurallife · 15/03/2023 19:28

Yes it should HTH

Pinacalola · 15/03/2023 19:29

Yes.

smellyflowers · 15/03/2023 19:29

Why shouldn't it?

Pinacalola · 15/03/2023 19:30

I mean yes it should sorry if that was unclear. For both lesbians and single women

coffeewithmilk · 15/03/2023 19:31

Yes of course it should be available.
And it's not just women that are infertile in a heterosexual relationship... men can be infertile too, don't know why there always seems to be more emphasis on the woman when it comes to ivf

Ivf should be available to anyone who wants it.

My son is an ivf baby, we are in a country where it is not publicly funded, so we pay privately for it, and anyone any avail of the services ivf clinics provide, whether they be single, straight, old, young, married, divorced etc etc etc

ourflagmeansdeath · 15/03/2023 19:32

Yes of course it should be available to lesbians and single women, why on earth wouldn't it? What kind of question is this?

blumppump · 15/03/2023 19:34

Of course it should.

What about infertile men? Don't they count?

PacificallyRequested · 15/03/2023 19:34

Yes of course it should be.

Yepanothernamechange · 15/03/2023 19:34

Absolutely

Myaiminlife · 15/03/2023 19:36

If single or lesbian women aren't infertile they shouldn't need IVF - IUI should be there first step - if they choose IVF with no fertility issues then I don't think it should be publicly funded. I had to have a year of trying and six round of IUI before getting a funded round of IVF - obviously the first doesn't apply in single women/same sex couples but they shouldn't be able to jump straight to IVF when there are other cheaper, safer, less invasive methods available.

blumppump · 15/03/2023 19:36

To clarify

You say

Or should assisted conception only be for infertile women in heterosexual relationships?



What about if the man is infertile? Those couples don't get assisted conception in your book?

Lcb123 · 15/03/2023 19:39

Yes, and it is available on NHS. IUI offered first.

fabricstash · 15/03/2023 19:39

Of course it should be available but are you asking if the nhs should fund it? I think that's a different question and I am of two minds. I know a few who went it alone and they did not realise how hard it would be not having any financial and emotional support

dietcokelime · 15/03/2023 19:42

Available - sure.

NHS funded? No.

BordoisAgain · 15/03/2023 19:42

Available - yes

Funded by NHS - no (that goes for everyone)

DedicatedFollowerOfFashion84 · 15/03/2023 19:43

Yes. How else do you imagine lesbians would conceive?

fabricstash · 15/03/2023 19:46

DedicatedFollowerOfFashion84 · 15/03/2023 19:43

Yes. How else do you imagine lesbians would conceive?

Exactly

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/03/2023 19:47

Apologies, I should have said assisted conception only be for heterosexual couples, where one or both are infertile. I wasn't really thinking about the men.Blush

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DevantMaJardin · 15/03/2023 19:48

BordoisAgain · 15/03/2023 19:42

Available - yes

Funded by NHS - no (that goes for everyone)

This ^

Emmamoo89 · 15/03/2023 19:49

Yes definitely

smellyflowers · 15/03/2023 19:49

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/03/2023 19:47

Apologies, I should have said assisted conception only be for heterosexual couples, where one or both are infertile. I wasn't really thinking about the men.Blush

And are you thinking it should be available on the NHS? Or just available generally?

theblackradiator · 15/03/2023 19:50

another vote for available - yes
NHS funded - No

fabricstash · 15/03/2023 19:50

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/03/2023 19:25

And single women? Or should assisted conception only be for infertile women in heterosexual relationships?

Also you know infertile men are entitled to help

GrumpyPanda · 15/03/2023 19:52

fabricstash · 15/03/2023 19:46

Exactly

Um, with the help of syringes? Worked for some folks I know. Seems like OP may be trying to say IVF should be a last resort measure after all else fails.

Ladyofthesea · 15/03/2023 19:53

If it wouldn't be available to lesbians then you want to force them have sex with a man against their will just to get pregnant? To me that feels like a form of legalized rape....

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