I listened to the conversation between Sam Harris and Megan Phelps Roper. It was interesting that Megan seems to be at the stage where she's floating the idea that woman can refer to gender, and we can keep female for when we need to talk about sex.
It's a popular compromise suggested here by posters who see the issues but aren't ready to go the full terf, as it were, so they come here hoping that there must be some shades of grey and that if we could all just calm down and be a bit kinder, then surely we could find a solution that will work for everyone.
I admire the sentiment, I really do, but it's a vain hope.