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Girl abducted in Galashiels appears to have been held by transwoman

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ArabellaScott · 07/02/2023 19:27

reduxx.info/scotland-crossdressing-butcher-arrested-in-case-of-missing-child/

Only source so far, but appears to be potentially corroborated by the Sun:

www.thesun.co.uk/news/21308457/cops-search-butchers-and-forensics-scour-for-evidence/

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Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 08:30

@Rainbowshit

i am against discrimination
you try to drag me into another point. Which is our course horrific.

Two wrings though…..

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2023 08:30

It's a bit naive to think that overt focus on a particular characteristic of a criminal will not have knock on consequences for the law abiding majority that share that characteristic. 🤷‍♂️

Oh FFS it is relevant.

The media has been mis sexing men for ages in their reports of male pattern crimes committed by men who identify as trans, but this time we're supossed to say the fact that this person is trans is irrelevant?

And we're not supposed to either notice or comment on it?

At a time when the Scottish First Minister is trying to change laws to allow any man who says he is a woman to become a woman at law with minimal process.

Trans woman are male, lesbians are not. It's pretty fucking offensive to make that comparison.

Rainbowshit · 09/02/2023 08:33

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 08:28

@suggestionsplease1

exactly no discrimination is right

But the government ARE discriminating here. Males who say they are trans are given special treatment and allowed to request a move to a female prison. This discriminates against other males who I'm quite sure would prefer to be in a female prison. How is that right @Justellingthetruth ? After all you say all discrimination is bad.

Datun · 09/02/2023 08:33

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 08:27

@NecessaryScene

i don’t say that so my statement stands

Oh for heaven's sake, your statement doesn't 'stand'.

Without discrimination, women's sport wouldn't exist, nor would children's sport, all prisons would be mixed sex, we'd have toddlers falling off disney rides, men in primary schools, five year olds drinking and getting married, homosexuality wouldn't exist, nor would heterosexuality, and the dustman could perform your triple heart bypass.

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 08:35

@lifeturnsonadime

how strange you are making an assumption.
i am against all discrimination and the head lines is discriminatory

that does not excuse the horrific criminal act by a criminal.

when you point out that people have inbuilt discriminatory traits they fight back rather than think. That’s a shame.

As for being a male my Obs and GYn spécialist would probably disagree. It’s I retesting you judge my gender and sex based on zero evidence and only your mind.

ummmm sort of the point about in built discriminating thoughts.

Rainbowshit · 09/02/2023 08:35

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 08:30

@Rainbowshit

i am against discrimination
you try to drag me into another point. Which is our course horrific.

Two wrings though…..

But two wings is still discriminating though? Either Transwomen are real women or they are not. Bigot.

Datun · 09/02/2023 08:39

when you point out that people have inbuilt discriminatory traits they fight back rather than think. That’s a shame.

What do you think happens, say, to women's sport if they can't discriminate on the basis of sex to keep it single sex?

In your words, 'think'.

Boiledbeetle · 09/02/2023 08:39

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 06:43

@Feministwoman

all forms of discrimination are not ok.
you can't choose who.

I am sure you see that as a self proclaimed feminist woman

so the fact a girl is missing is not ok.

all forms of discrimination are not ok.

So stop with your discrimination of women who think people can't change sex.

Some people have a different belief than you.

Stop discriminating yourself!

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2023 08:40

i am against all discrimination and the head lines is discriminatory

So you are against anything being categorised on the basis of any categoristic? Everything should be unisex?

I'm not following your argument here?

So presumably we should be humans and children? Or is discrimination on the basis of age wrong too?

When you used the example of lesbian wasn't that discriminating between humans who are female with exclusive single sex attraction and all other humans?

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 09/02/2023 08:43

YOU GUYS!

IT’S NOT SEX OFFENDERS WHO ARE BAD!

IT’S WOMEN WHO POINT OUT PATTERNS AND RISK FACTORS IN MALE SEX OFFENDING WHO ARE BAD!

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 09/02/2023 08:43

IT’S OK TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST TERFS THO!

Boiledbeetle · 09/02/2023 08:45

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 09/02/2023 08:43

IT’S OK TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST TERFS THO!

😁

Datun · 09/02/2023 08:45

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 09/02/2023 08:43

YOU GUYS!

IT’S NOT SEX OFFENDERS WHO ARE BAD!

IT’S WOMEN WHO POINT OUT PATTERNS AND RISK FACTORS IN MALE SEX OFFENDING WHO ARE BAD!

I cant tell if this person is a TRA or just a bit silly and uninformed.

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2023 08:46

Justtellinthetruth

So what should the headline have been?

Human abducts child.
Man abducts child
Woman abducts child
Trans woman abducts child

Or would you just really rather it wasn't reported or talked about at all?

Datun · 09/02/2023 08:46

Not you ShireWifeofNigelFarage. I realise that was a bit ambiguous !

borntobequiet · 09/02/2023 08:47

i am against discrimination

I wonder how on Earth you navigate life.

MichelleScarn · 09/02/2023 08:49

lifeturnsonadime · 09/02/2023 08:46

Justtellinthetruth

So what should the headline have been?

Human abducts child.
Man abducts child
Woman abducts child
Trans woman abducts child

Or would you just really rather it wasn't reported or talked about at all?

Some definitely would, there was a poster on another thread who said everyone should (am paraphrasing here) 'calm down as the little girl had been found so nothing to see here, let's just move on'... 😑

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 09/02/2023 08:49

Datun · 09/02/2023 08:46

Not you ShireWifeofNigelFarage. I realise that was a bit ambiguous !

Nah, I knew you didn’t mean me - as if ANY Mumsnetter would have this as a serious username! Even enthusiastic Brexit voters would shy away from marrying Nige the Frog 🐸

NecessaryScene · 09/02/2023 08:50

Human abducts child.

"Thing did something to thing."

Stop discriminating by species, age and action.

Although I not realise I'm discriminating by count. We need a new language that doesn't distinguish singular and plural.

And maybe the noun/verb distinction is a bit discriminatory.

And dammit, I also specified tense.

How about

"Ug."

Helleofabore · 09/02/2023 08:50

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 06:43

@Feministwoman

all forms of discrimination are not ok.
you can't choose who.

I am sure you see that as a self proclaimed feminist woman

so the fact a girl is missing is not ok.

How about you let all the trans people know then that if they commit any crime that is reportable in the media, they will be described by sex, not gender. That is with an age descriptor so in this case, man.

Once that is agreed, there is no real need for us to fight back on these descriptors.

You are using shame to try to stop discussion.

And by the way, I think it is very negatively discriminatory that media supports the need of a man over the needs of women and children to have accurate reporting and for crimes that are not committed by women as being wrongly attributed.

But I guess none of our opinions count to you . And that is your negative discrimination right there. Own it.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 09/02/2023 08:50

MichelleScarn · 09/02/2023 08:49

Some definitely would, there was a poster on another thread who said everyone should (am paraphrasing here) 'calm down as the little girl had been found so nothing to see here, let's just move on'... 😑

Wow.

Because that poor little girl isn’t going to need extensive therapy (and probably a whole new identity and relocation package for her family to give her some anonymity back) and this man isn’t a danger to any other kiddies?

They must think we are complete idiots.

Helleofabore · 09/02/2023 09:12

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 08:28

@suggestionsplease1

exactly no discrimination is right

Please stop repeating this statement.

What it shows is your inability to hold a concept with all its realities in your head.

People have pointed you to the definition of discrimination. Discrimination can be positive and it can be negative. You have assumed, incorrectly, that all discrimination is negative.

Negative discrimination can be done for positive reasons as well as for negative. One reason is to exclude others from a group meant, for overcoming oppression or another even better defined reason such as for privacy to discuss trauma.

You accusations reflect over simplified thinking.

And you and suggestions both seem to miss the very fact that if male criminals had not been given permission, through whoever gave it without asking women, to insist that media, courts and statistics collectors to have their crime reported as being committed by female criminals , then this would not be something we have to question.

If you want to point fingers of shame, point it at every single person who supported male criminals being treated as female criminals. And if that includes you, then own it.

Marchmount · 09/02/2023 09:12

So Justtellingthetruth is against all discrimination. Looking forward to her/him putting forward the case to remove it all.

Unisex prisons, adults having unfettered access to all children, children driving cars, unqualified people working as surgeons.

Trans rights activists are a bit simple and can only operate in a world of inane, simplistic straplines. Trans women are women, no discrimination - they really don’t seem capable of working through the implications of these trite phrases but it makes great Twitter posts.

nilsmousehammer · 09/02/2023 09:15

Justellingthetruth · 09/02/2023 07:23

@Datun

well if you think you can and you do then you are defining yourself and trying to excuse discrimaination.

I hope in time you learn to foregive yourself

Pray for us sinners, Mrs Murdstone. 🙄

A few decades from the rosary of Hail Judith Butler, and some Red Bull blessed by Stonewall flicked around should help.

Helleofabore · 09/02/2023 09:17

The thinking is so simplistic, I cannot believe it is real.

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