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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What's the problem with FiLiA?

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RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 06:26

On another thread a few posters referred to "the FiLiA debacle". Without wanting to poke at the wounds in the current feminist movement, can someone tell me what's gone on?

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pattihews · 06/02/2023 14:27

I'm so pissed off by all this. I really enjoyed Filia and posted on here recommending it to any woman.

DerekFaker · 06/02/2023 14:33

AllOutofEverything · 06/02/2023 13:02

Honestly this is meaningless. Where they blocked for being abusive or rude to FILIA? That is the usual reason to block.

No, lots have been blocked simply for disagreeing.

notsurewherenotsurewhy · 06/02/2023 14:39

AllOutofEverything · 06/02/2023 13:11

I think what people are unhappy about was that one workshop took place at the last conference. All because some people disagree with the speakers on the panel. And the appointment of Claire because she speaks out about racism including the racism of popular women in feminism.
There are some women that are seen as forbidden to criticise. So the fact Claire criticises their racism makes her a target.
I also can't believe some women arguing against inclusivity. Which women do you think should not be included at FILIA conferences?

I agree with this. I think it's interesting (and depressing) that Claire Heuchan is the one being cast as 'divisive' here.

DerekFaker · 06/02/2023 14:40

And the appointment of Claire because she speaks out about racism including the racism of popular women in feminism.
There are some women that are seen as forbidden to criticise. So the fact Claire criticises their racism makes her a target.

Is that you Claire?

We've already told you why: it's because she's extremely unpleasant. The replies to Filia make that clear.

And no, it isn't about one woman (we know you mean Posie,and I hardly think comparing someone to dog shit is 'criticism'), she's done this to quite a lot of women. Couple of examples for ya.

What's the problem with FiLiA?
What's the problem with FiLiA?
RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 16:39

I think some of the responses illustrate the problem that FiLiA is facing.

I can't say "I disagree with the application of CRT to the conditions and nature of racism in the UK" without being told I'm denying racism exists.

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IwantToRetire · 06/02/2023 16:55

I am hestitantly outing myself as the one who talked about debacle, but cant really say where it was I said it.

But was within the context of the WPUK workshop at FiLia.

The problem with FiLia is that it has about as much to do with women's liberation as going on a package tour and then thinking you know about the country you were escorted through.

But if you want your feminism curated for you, and accept that someone else (who may have personal rather than political reasons) chooses who has a platform and who doesn't they you pays your money and accepts what you get.

And on one level that doesn't matter, but it does when it turns out it is the same small friendship group that is basically promoting their friends and there brand of feminism.

The Elephant thread allowed women to explore this ongoing deceit as something they hadn't realised was happening. And thanks to one poster whose name I have forgotten found out that WPUK directors now has members of a group called Actual Gender Critical Left who are the chief maligners of KJK and Kara Danski (is that her name) and quite honestly it seems very personal rather than political.

Added to this dinner party feminism, is the fact, also discussed on FWR that it appeared that the trustees of FiLia are using money dontated or granted to them to run the conferenct to sue a woman who asked for an apology for being thrown out (violently by men) from the social she had a ticket for 2 years ago, and a similar though less violent one this year.

The problem is FiLia is really feminist entertainment inc. with about as much political intergrity as any corporate brand. Or at best fanzine feminism. But they are thrilled to be able to tag themselves onto big names and get spoken about as though they were actual political activists. So whilst the jousting for top billing is going on between the organisers and the names, actual feminism, which is what women are doing at the grass roots is just trampled over or ignored.

Not forgetting that the cost in terms of time and money is beyond most women.

And no it had nothing to do with why women's liberation fell apart after the Birmingham WLM conference in 1978. Partly because no actual woman who was part of WLM would have attended a conference where they sat dutifully in rows whilst their superiors talked down to them from a platform.

The only similarity is in fact the endless attempt by some socialist feminists to be in charge of the agenda. The Birmingham Conference fell apart because some socialists feminsts felt a vote on women being safe from male violence wasn't a priority. This ended up with microphones being snatched and / or turned off. Which could have been funny but had a huge impact on those attending was within minutes what seemed like a very large group of women bumping along in what seemed like a shared direction turned out not to be true. Or maybe that a few women were able to disrupt it enough and no one had ever had to deal with a situation like that. And it broke trust. So no one tried to do it again.

So what is going on at FiLia is also about how, through the back door rather than an outright stand off over a mike, some socialist feminists are setting the agenda.

As the so called Women's Liberation Conference organised by WPUK.

Its funny how all these groups who actually despise who the WLM worked and it fundamental principals are quite happy to use its same to give what they are doing validity.

AllOutofEverything · 06/02/2023 17:01

RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 16:39

I think some of the responses illustrate the problem that FiLiA is facing.

I can't say "I disagree with the application of CRT to the conditions and nature of racism in the UK" without being told I'm denying racism exists.

Perhaps you can explain what exactly you disagree with then?

RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 17:06

I'm not answerable to you @AllOutofEverything.

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RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 17:08

Thank you @IwantToRetire that's helpful.

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AllOutofEverything · 06/02/2023 17:10

RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 17:06

I'm not answerable to you @AllOutofEverything.

No you are not. But if you will not explain why your objections to critical race theory are not racist then I am left with one conclusion.

RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 17:14

So you're condemning me for assumed wrongthink. I see. That tells me all I need to know about you!

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EndlessTea · 06/02/2023 17:17

AllOutofEverything · 06/02/2023 13:11

I think what people are unhappy about was that one workshop took place at the last conference. All because some people disagree with the speakers on the panel. And the appointment of Claire because she speaks out about racism including the racism of popular women in feminism.
There are some women that are seen as forbidden to criticise. So the fact Claire criticises their racism makes her a target.
I also can't believe some women arguing against inclusivity. Which women do you think should not be included at FILIA conferences?

I also can't believe some women arguing against inclusivity. Which women do you think should not be included at FILIA conferences?

The ones with a cock

EndlessTea · 06/02/2023 17:31

I remember when I first saw articles and posts by Sister Outrider, there was a lot of supportive cooing from my fellow feminist friends and and I thought Hmm A bit Emperor’s New Clothes imo. Nothing insightful added. To be honest, she wouldn’t be the only one I’ve thought the same about, but I keep shtum because you want to give someone time to find their feet/voice as a writer.

I hadn’t realised she said all those nasty things about KJK though.

As for the ‘EDI vampire’. What a brilliant description.

So many orgs are vampirised - look at Stonewall’s inclusion scheme.

Ramblingnamechanger · 06/02/2023 17:33

Interesting to see the Birmingham conference mentioned here. As I remember it was similar issues which caused the disruption …with broadly soc fems disagreeing with Rad fems about men. It was strange to have so many speakers at Filia but I appreciated hearing most of them. I would say there is room for that while also appreciating KJKs approach of letting women speak on the topic of the moment.

BlueHeelers · 06/02/2023 18:18

And critical race theory simply means recognising that racism and institutional racism exists.

As far as I understand it (and it’s only adjacent to my research field) it’s a bit more complex than that.

Some of the teaching drawn out of CRT (which is not the same as CRT itself) is about the inevitable positioning of any and every white person as racist, whether intentional or not.

BlueHeelers · 06/02/2023 18:31

And a more general comment - I think E all need to be verrry careful about “purity spirals” - feminism and the women’s movement is a broad church. And I’d argue it needs to be.

So many women find Kelly-Jay Kean / Pisie Parker speaks in a way that they get. They don’t want the academic feminists (like me). They want a direct acknowledgement of their experiences. Others come to feminism via socialism. Others are what we used to call in Australia “femocrats”. Women who got very high up in tne government bureaucracies to effect change. There are the separation /political lesbians (I heard a great WDI webinar featuring sheilaJeffreys on this 2 weeks ago)

And so on. We are50% of the population - of course there will be differences of approach and of course there will be passionate debate and disagreements. we don’t all think alike! And the women’s movement needs all of this diversity- we need all the girls and women!

I was at the WPUK event on Saturday. On the way there I was hailed by a former student which was very sweet. She was on her way to another Feminist conference. It was one which was set up in opposition to the WPUK one by other UCL academics (a whole nasty story there) but I wished her well. I thought it was great that she was committed enough to feminist thinking and activism to attend anything!

I’m just so pleased to see this resurgence of the grass roots women’s movement. We need it, wherever it is.

RhymesWithOrange · 06/02/2023 22:20

But if you will not explain why your objections to critical race theory are not racist then I am left with one conclusion.

This is why we can't have nice things.

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KatMcBundleFace · 06/02/2023 22:26

The party was completely sold out. No one could get an extra ticket. 🐂💩

KatMcBundleFace · 06/02/2023 22:27

Filia was truly incredible. So much to think about. I will definitely be going in the future and the party was absolutely brilliant.

pattihews · 06/02/2023 23:08

Just as a reminder, Louise Perry on why the next wave of feminism will be Conservative.

www.spectator.co.uk/article/why-the-next-wave-of-feminism-is-conservative/

AllOutofEverything, I think what people are unhappy about was that one workshop took place at the last conference. All because some people disagree with the speakers on the panel.

Nope, that wasn't what it was about. I started that thread, I know. You also misrepresented the woman who spoke from the floor at that event who said that all the money going to the legal crowdfunders must come from the right because working class socialist women like her had no money. And then she said it was okay now because she'd married a wealthy man.

Here's the thread that opened up the worm can and you'll see that it's about an awful lot more than not agreeing with the speakers.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4662757-womens-place-uk-filia-event-the-elephant-ignored-yet-again

ArcheryAnnie · 06/02/2023 23:15

@IwantToRetire what's your issue with the Women's Liberation conference? I went to both the 2020 one and the one two days ago, and got a lot out of talking (and arguing!) with all kinds of lovely, interesting, committed women activists all day.

LiverpoolMuse · 06/02/2023 23:22

What is EDI please?

Shinyredbicycle · 06/02/2023 23:27

I went to both UCL/WPUK conferences and Filia and enjoyed them all.

Filia are quite extraordinary in their attention to global issues and very local, grass roots work.

Glad that it's in Glasgow this year, although not sure if I'll be able to go. They do have free/very low cost tickets and do what they can to coordinate lift shares and find women free places to stay.

Shinyredbicycle · 06/02/2023 23:27

Equality, diversity and inclusion.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/02/2023 23:38

And critical race theory simply means recognising that racism and institutional racism exists.

No it doesn't, any more than queer theory just recognises that homophobia and transphobia exist.

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