'Will we eventually lose the ability to have debates and disagreements, and will just totally destroying ‘the other side’ ( whatever that may be) be all that matters?'
Seriously? Do you remember No Debate?
It is not women who have refused the debate and now here we are.
Women have been forced into a corner by the insistence that transwomen magically become not a threat in women's spaces once they transition. Time and time again,this has been proved false.
It is simply too dangerous to allow men, no matter how they identify, no matter how nice they are, into women's and, let us not forget, children's spaces.
Despite women shouting this from the rooftops for years, and that it would result in women and children being harmed before everyone would wake up to this massive safeguarding fail, we have been ignored, insulted and gaslighted on a scale I have not ever seen before.
So, human beings cannot change sex, men and (no matter how they identify) must stay out of our spaces. That's it. Beyond this they can dress, identify how they please and fight for their own third spaces.