Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

Scottish police use Minor Attracted Person instead of 'paedophile' in report

277 replies

pattihews · 31/12/2022 11:12

Chief Constable Iain Livingstone has used the acronym MAP (minor attracted Person) in an annual assessment of the force's work with a European project.

We've all wondered what the + is in LGB and TQIA+ haven't we? Well perhaps now we know. As the Telegraph says:

The term MAP is contentious because child abusers are trying to escape the stigma attached to paedophilia and maintain they should be regarded as a niche group alongside the LGBT community.

As a member of the LGB community I object. Archived link from the Telegraph:
archive.today/e9DCa

OP posts:
Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 31/12/2022 18:41

SnowAndIceLobelia · 31/12/2022 18:30

Not sure what you mean. Does this make it okay? Does leching over children but not touching them make it okay? Or as many sex offenders try and claim- they were only watching videos of abuse but not directly participating so that is okay?

Just not sure of your point tbh.

And for clarity - yea of course someone who looks at images is a sex offender and of course it is harmful and disgusting.

just to be clear.

IcakethereforeIam · 31/12/2022 18:41

Your second example could be someone who hasn't found the opportunity or hasn't been caught.

@Boiledbeetle Flowers and the others on this thread.

SnowAndIceLobelia · 31/12/2022 18:43

You point wasn;t obvious to me, dear. I asked a question. 'Devils advocate' is usually used when people are trying to justify or argue for the merits of something unpleasant.

IcakethereforeIam · 31/12/2022 18:43

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 31/12/2022 18:40

Because looking at and making images of child sex abuse is abusive and an offence.

Well, duh!

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 31/12/2022 18:45

IcakethereforeIam · 31/12/2022 18:43

Well, duh!

Given someone suggested I might think it’s ok for adults to letch at children I felt it necessary to be clear.
duh!

anonexhausted · 31/12/2022 18:45

A child is a child. An abuser who finds sexual attraction there is a paedophile. Whether they've been through puberty is irrelevant. Minor attracted my arse.

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 31/12/2022 18:50

SnowAndIceLobelia · 31/12/2022 18:43

You point wasn;t obvious to me, dear. I asked a question. 'Devils advocate' is usually used when people are trying to justify or argue for the merits of something unpleasant.

We’ll then I misused the term.

its really ridiculous that people can’t talk about the language without being accused of thinking latching at children is ok.

start a thread specific to share rants about peados if that’s what you want to do. This was was about language so I engaged with it as such.

personally I think child sex offender, peadophile, hebophile and other existing terms are good enough.

How appropriate language is obviously depend on the context. I’d your chatting about someone you know being convicted and refer to them as a “nonce” that’s probably clear enough. In a clinic setting or legal nonce wouldn’t be, but peadophile would be an accurate term to use.

I won’t be replying anymore because I honestly don’t like being made out to be a sec abuser apologist simply for saying some language is more accurate than others or means different things.

SnowAndIceLobelia · 31/12/2022 18:55

All I did was ask you to clarify because I did not understand your point.

And explained why I had troubles with what I was understanding your point to be.

I said very clearly that I did not understand what you were trying to say.

purpledalmation · 31/12/2022 19:06

It sounds like they are normalising a pathological interest in very young people.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 31/12/2022 19:09

All we need to know is that adults who abuse children are 100% wrong. Self indulgently musing on the rights and wrongs of language and enabling the attempts of predators to normalise their preferred language is offensive. Save that for the dodgy parts of the internet - there are plenty of them. Leave alone this place where women , mothers, parents, feminists gather.
It's new years eve. Do better next year.

ScrollingLeaves · 31/12/2022 19:10

DriftwoodOnTheShore · Today 18:07
Technically they aren't paedophiles, that's my point. Hence there will be confusion.

Could you or anyone here say where the definition of paedophile meaning attracted to children who have not yet reached puberty can be found?

I am not being sarcastic, just interested to know. I just looked it up in Oxford English Dictionary (the full one which is an on-line library resource) and couldn’t find this specific definition.

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:19

This makes me feel physically sick. How is child abuse being normalised like this?

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:19

DriftwoodOnTheShore · 31/12/2022 11:52

A paedophile is attracted to pre-pubescent children. The new term applies to those past puberty but under 16.

I can see the reasoning.

Fucking hell. What??

ClitoralViolence · 31/12/2022 19:20

Boiledbeetle · 31/12/2022 18:38

And one more thing, (green grass fluffy cloud, green grass fluffy clouds)

Firstly, I'm probably glad I didn't see the deleted postsI

Secondly, did those still pondering and arguing the merits of certain age groups I'd be interested to know how you catergorise/identify the following man

when he was 12 he got his first rape conviction for raping a child (age unknown)

When he was 15 he got his second rape conviction for raping a child (age unknown)

When he was 18 he bludgeoned a woman in here 80s to death

in his 30s he attempted to get himself into a position to rape two girls who had gone through puberty

in his 30s he rapes a prepubescent child

in his 60sin prison he attempts to groom the youngest prisoners on his block

dying in hospital he is kept handcuffed to a prisoner officer so he gets his kicks from distressing the nurse forced to give him a bedbath

What do you call that man? Because I call him Steve.

I call him an Inmate of Hell.
Flowers Boiled xx

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:21

You do realise how young some girls are when they go through puberty?

This is vile.

DriftwoodOnTheShore · 31/12/2022 19:22

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:19

Fucking hell. What??

Not sure what you mean. I said I could see a reason for an all-encompassing term as Paedophile isn't one.

No need for your reaction at all.

Boiledbeetle · 31/12/2022 19:23

ClitoralViolence · 31/12/2022 19:20

I call him an Inmate of Hell.
Flowers Boiled xx

Oh if it exists he there.

And I'm the one who put him in prison!

I win!

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:24

I understand where you are coming from, and FWIW I think it's important to differentiate attraction to pre-pubescent children from what is really a biologically normal attraction to post-pubescent minors.

It's not "normal". It's fucking sick and if you'd been subjected to abuse at that age by one of these paedophiles you'd know that.

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:25

No need for your reaction at all.

Yes, there is. And if you can't comprehend it there's something seriously wrong with you.

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:26

Boiledbeetle · 31/12/2022 16:15

A spokesman for the force stressed that MAPs is not a term they routinely use to describe child abusers and said that its use in the report had to be understood in context.

I don't Fucking care.

No one should use MAP for PAEDOPHILE. NO ONE.

I wasn't raped by a minor attracted person I was raped by a paedophile.

So they can take their weasily words and

FUCK OFF

Exactly. 😔

FrancescaContini · 31/12/2022 19:28

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:24

I understand where you are coming from, and FWIW I think it's important to differentiate attraction to pre-pubescent children from what is really a biologically normal attraction to post-pubescent minors.

It's not "normal". It's fucking sick and if you'd been subjected to abuse at that age by one of these paedophiles you'd know that.

I couldn’t agree with you more, @DustAndAshes . Some of the cold, matter of fact posts here about terminology are beyond belief. I genuinely feel sickened by them.

💐 for all women affected by abuse by adults as children.

DustAndAshes · 31/12/2022 19:34

Thank you. We don't need it redefined and excused. It is abuse. It's vile. There is no excuse and no it's absolutely not "normal" for a grown man to be a predator to a teenage child.

Deathclaw · 31/12/2022 19:34

Some of the cold, matter of fact posts here about terminology are beyond belief. I genuinely feel sickened by them.

Rather interesting looking at the posting history of those 'just' discussing the language. Support for a certain prince, unquestioning support of a teacher accused of sexual assault etc.

Not surprising.

DdraigGoch · 31/12/2022 19:36

Yes, so now by protesting against MAP and insisting on paedophile, many people will conclude MAPs are not paedophiles and the protest and removal of MAP was to dissociate it from paedophile.

@Onnabugeisha how many people? Virtually no one has heard of "MAP".

I think that it would be easier if we just settled on a different word ("nonce"?). No one would be in any doubt just what sort of person it applied to.

Boiledbeetle · 31/12/2022 19:36

And my final thoughts...

Even the thickest of twats, and I've met a few know what a "pedo" is. It's a nonce, a pervert, a kiddy fiddler. Whatever the local it's found your way. These people will also be the same group who mistake a paediatrician for a paedophile.

"Pedo" is very ingrained in our language. it is understand from the most intelligent to the least intelligent. If any name should be changed would it not make more fucking sense to change the name of paediatricians.

Green grass fluffy clouds green grass fluffy clouds. And breathe and relax.