It has been done via women, even the women here, being kind, generous, wishing to be reasonable, to find compromise, to listen and care, to do the right thing, to believe and understand...
all the things a decent person does which makes them so easy to abuse by a movement that has zero intention of reciprocal respect, care, kindness or any of the other words thrown around for no values beyond manipulative purposes.
I have been guilty of it too, I have failed to realise the absolute lack of conscience and the cold manipulation at the heart of this. I am done now. I will not enable any more.