Here is the transcript from the oft misquoted 'men should arm themselves' video:
...and men? for once, I'm talking to you. I'm talking about you Dads who maybe 'carry' I think that's something that you say? I'm so down with the American lingo! Maybe you carry, maybe you don't. Maybe you consider yourself a protector of women. Maybe you're that sort of man. Maybe you have a daughter, or a Mother, or a wife. Maybe you have a sister. Maybe you just have some friends. Maybe you just think that women are human and you don't need any absolute connection with them to feel compelled to protect us.
I think you should start using Women's toilets, men. Because you have every right to self identify. Clearly; don't do it and upset women and girls that are already in there, but just make a point of doing it. And maybe make the women feel ok about you doing it. If, you know, if you come out and you frighten someone. But it's about time you started using Women's toilets and saying that you identify as a woman, if stopped. And I think that's how you're gonna have to... that's one of the many ways that you are going to have to combat the insanity of self-ID Even if it's not called self-ID, that's pretty much what you have, now, in the United States. And that's how you men are gonna help.'
Can you please highlight the exact place where you think this calls for armed men to defend women's toilets?
Because, I think anyone actually reading the transcript can see that it is actually saying that those men who seek to protect their family (some of who 'carry') could protect their family by self id'ing as women and entering the toilets. The difference may be too subtle for you, but it is there.
Language has meaning and it is important to attribute the correct interpretation to the words that have been said.
Do I agree that any male should be identifying as women to 'defend' women in toilets, no I do not because that would needlessly distress other women?
But if you are making accusations, please make sure you are making accurate ones.