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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women and girls' sex-based rights

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StephanieSuperpowers · 25/11/2022 16:21

Well, here we are...

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Tricyrtis2022 · 02/12/2022 10:54

Just posted this on the FWR main page: grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/my-speech-at-the-battle-of-ideas

I was invited to deliver a few words at the Battle of Ideas party being held tonight. here is the full text of what I hope is a short speech.

duc748 · 02/12/2022 12:20

The Labour Party piece, depressing but not surprising. There's an Orwellian sense of 'thoughtcrime' in the Labour Party these days. It's hard to say which is worse, the anti-women thrust of policy, or the unpleasant and undemocratic tactics used to silence dissent. Once again I feel like taking a pair of scissors to my membership card.

duc748 · 02/12/2022 12:27

And Linehan: well said, young man!

Britinme · 02/12/2022 12:34

Thanks for the link to Adult Human Female - have donated and will watch.

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 12:38

deeangelico · 02/12/2022 09:30

3 a.m. isn't a good time to think about anything at all, in my experience. But especially gender ideology. Is is particularly difficult for those in the life sciences, healthcare and medicine, do you think?

Sometimes, I simply can't believe that huge swathes of apparently intelligent people believe this stuff - but then, is it me? Spending most of my education in genetics? I mean, actually working with chromosomes and DNA for about 7 years? And (a delight) eventually settling in medical education?

[an aside - I just managed, by the skin of my teeth, to avoid having to change all "mother"s to "pregnant people" in a fairly big piece of work. Some people seemed to think that this would be a virtuous change and reflect well on them as managers; but I could practically touch the unspoken "ffs" from the clinicians.]

I'm not sure what is worse - the misogyny, the contempt for women, or the rejection of science and objective reality. Nothing bodes well. In fact it bodes badly, boding away like anything.

I study a life science and will be starting post-grad placements soon in a med setting. I haven’t had any specific discussions about it with other students but there was something that came up last year along the lines of ‘people who menstruate’, to which someone responded ‘Eh? Do they mean women?’ She was genuinely confused by the statement so I guess these issues aren’t on everyone’s radar, although she was annoyed at the idea when it was explained.

At the moment I work exclusively with women who have health conditions experienced only by women. However we are encouraged to use gender neutral language, e.g. ‘some people experience this, people with this condition take this treatment while other people take that treatment’ which I find painful, but we’re not at the stage of replacing woman with AFAB or PWM (which fucks me off because we don’t all menstruate) and I hope it doesn’t get to that point. I do feel conflicted as transmen can of course be affected, but I feel it would be more appropriate to adjust language accordingly rather than a policy of blanket gender neutrality. It’s more difficult with online services though, and for that I don’t know what the answers are.

I absolutely loathe terms like person with a cervix and person with a uterus because a significant proportion of women have neither of those things as a result of a total hysterectomy for example. Does this mean they’re not women? If we absolutely must define a woman by a part of their biology then it would make sense to me to refer to two X chromosomes. I know there are exceptions to this but it’s less variable than menstruation or random parts of anatomy. The whole thing incenses me.

Happylittlechicken · 02/12/2022 12:44

My suggestion to people who want to use this ‘inclusive language’ is ok I will use, women, girls and people who menstruate/have a cerviix etc. Not erase women and a sop to those females who wish to deny their biology.

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 12:49

I’m actually surprised we haven’t got to the point of saying, for example, ovarian cancer affects both men and women. Because if TMAM and TWAW then surely this follows that logic. Or maybe we have already, I’m not sure. I’m very concerned about implications this will have on healthcare, provision and statistics.

deeangelico · 02/12/2022 13:08

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 12:38

I study a life science and will be starting post-grad placements soon in a med setting. I haven’t had any specific discussions about it with other students but there was something that came up last year along the lines of ‘people who menstruate’, to which someone responded ‘Eh? Do they mean women?’ She was genuinely confused by the statement so I guess these issues aren’t on everyone’s radar, although she was annoyed at the idea when it was explained.

At the moment I work exclusively with women who have health conditions experienced only by women. However we are encouraged to use gender neutral language, e.g. ‘some people experience this, people with this condition take this treatment while other people take that treatment’ which I find painful, but we’re not at the stage of replacing woman with AFAB or PWM (which fucks me off because we don’t all menstruate) and I hope it doesn’t get to that point. I do feel conflicted as transmen can of course be affected, but I feel it would be more appropriate to adjust language accordingly rather than a policy of blanket gender neutrality. It’s more difficult with online services though, and for that I don’t know what the answers are.

I absolutely loathe terms like person with a cervix and person with a uterus because a significant proportion of women have neither of those things as a result of a total hysterectomy for example. Does this mean they’re not women? If we absolutely must define a woman by a part of their biology then it would make sense to me to refer to two X chromosomes. I know there are exceptions to this but it’s less variable than menstruation or random parts of anatomy. The whole thing incenses me.

The RCM guidance is here:

www.rcm.org.uk/news-views/rcm-opinion/2022/inclusive-language-in-maternity-care-to-address-inequalities/

They will always use "women" but may add inclusives for specific things. About 20 transmen a year give birth, I've been informed. Women over 500,000.

Plasticfreefantastic · 02/12/2022 13:18

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 12:49

I’m actually surprised we haven’t got to the point of saying, for example, ovarian cancer affects both men and women. Because if TMAM and TWAW then surely this follows that logic. Or maybe we have already, I’m not sure. I’m very concerned about implications this will have on healthcare, provision and statistics.

www.teenagecancertrust.org/information-about-cancer/ovarian-cancer

Have a good look for the word ‘woman’ here for example.

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 13:35

Plasticfreefantastic · 02/12/2022 13:18

www.teenagecancertrust.org/information-about-cancer/ovarian-cancer

Have a good look for the word ‘woman’ here for example.

Crikey, it’s like a game of Taboo.

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 13:40

deeangelico · 02/12/2022 13:08

The RCM guidance is here:

www.rcm.org.uk/news-views/rcm-opinion/2022/inclusive-language-in-maternity-care-to-address-inequalities/

They will always use "women" but may add inclusives for specific things. About 20 transmen a year give birth, I've been informed. Women over 500,000.

I think their stance on it sounds sensible. It’s heartening that they’re preserving the use of ‘women’. What a thing to say 😳

Merrylus · 02/12/2022 13:41

I try to stick to evidence-based arguments, but the erasure of the words we use to describe ourselves to placate a minority whose sensitivities apparently matter more than ours does anger me inside. The attempt to erase the word 'mother', for example, really hurts. It's very precious to me, and to most women who have children, I would think. Other women will also have words that are crucial to their sense of self and find the words are being erased or colonised, 'lesbian' for example.

Britinme · 02/12/2022 13:42

Yes! What Merrylus said!

Winterborne74 · 02/12/2022 13:53

I was just coming to post the same, lus:

www.gov.uk/government/news/regulator-announces-statutory-inquiry-into-mermaids

So that explains SG's sudden departure.

CyanCyan · 02/12/2022 13:54

Merrylus · 02/12/2022 13:41

I try to stick to evidence-based arguments, but the erasure of the words we use to describe ourselves to placate a minority whose sensitivities apparently matter more than ours does anger me inside. The attempt to erase the word 'mother', for example, really hurts. It's very precious to me, and to most women who have children, I would think. Other women will also have words that are crucial to their sense of self and find the words are being erased or colonised, 'lesbian' for example.

One of the things that so often seems to be overlooked in pursuit of inclusive language is that inclusive language may feel exclusive to a person of the sex the service is set up to provide for (if that make sense, feels like an awful sentence!). Like ‘mother’, as you say. I have endometriosis and find it upsetting when I read articles about it referring to AFABs or people with ovaries, the latter being particularly infuriating as many women with endometriosis have had oophorectomies. Some might say this is bigoted of me but why is my upset at language like this less valid than upset at words like ‘woman’?

Patrooshka1 · 02/12/2022 14:06

It seems the adults may be slowly coming back in the room: the Charity Commission are going ahead with a proper investigation in to Mermaids (at last).

Kucingsparkles · 02/12/2022 14:08

Winterborne74 · 02/12/2022 13:53

I was just coming to post the same, lus:

www.gov.uk/government/news/regulator-announces-statutory-inquiry-into-mermaids

So that explains SG's sudden departure.

I predict that the reverse-ferreting from TRSOH will be a sight to behold.

Merrylus · 02/12/2022 14:12

I think we all knew that Susie Green's abrupt departure signalled that something was up, but it's good to know that there is going to be a proper investigation. It will be interesting to see how Mermaids' celebrity allies react.

bignosebignose · 02/12/2022 14:16

Kucingsparkles · 02/12/2022 14:08

I predict that the reverse-ferreting from TRSOH will be a sight to behold.

I predict plenty of "well obviously we didn't support THAT sort of thing and it's frankly hateful of you to imply that we did" in response to anything and everything that ever goes on/ comes out.

Kucingsparkles · 02/12/2022 14:24

I predict plenty of "well obviously we didn't support THAT sort of thing and it's frankly hateful of you to imply that we did" in response to anything and everything that ever goes on/ comes out.

It's funny, but for some inexplicable reason I read the bit in quotation marks in the "voice" of you-know-who from the Old Place.

TassLeHoff · 02/12/2022 14:39

They got lottery funding? WTAF?

Winterborne74 · 02/12/2022 14:42

"For me it is and has always about protecting vulnerable and marginalised LGBT+ children, young people and their families. It's not about individual organisations, and I condemn any wrongdoing unequivocally, it's about standing against the hostile climate created by anti-trans hate groups, who laughably and hypocritically call themselves feminists, putting our young LBGT+ siblings at risk. It is bitterly ironic that the heat and noise created by these bigots distracted the authorities from the important task of safeguarding young people"

...is my prediction. Or similar

druscilla · 02/12/2022 14:51

They'll say we were right for the wrong reasons.

Winterborne74 · 02/12/2022 14:52

druscilla · 02/12/2022 14:51

They'll say we were right for the wrong reasons.

Ha!

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