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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Response from health care service providers "assigned at birth"

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FernlovingNodosaur · 03/11/2022 07:53

Can you please give your thoughts on this matter and if your smart wording/thinking could add anything to my response letter.

I complained via email because I very recently received an unsolicited advert from my major health care provider see below for company. About a serious sex based disease yet the advert used assigned at birth manta.

Their response email below:

Dear Ms

I'm emailing you in response to your complain on Wednesday 2nd November regarding your unhappiness that we make reference to the term "assigned at birth" rather than classifying a specific gender.
I apologise if it has caused you any offence - it is not the service that Babylon aim to deliver.
Our marketing team are using the term "assigned at birth" to cause minimal offence to our many patients and we will be continuing to use this term. Unfortunately, we can't adapt marketing emails individually to each person's gender and have to use a neutral term.
If you have any further queries, please let me know.
Cheers,
Clinical Operations Team Leader.
**

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Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 09:34

Discovereads · 04/11/2022 08:21

@Helleofabore
As long as you can keep them civil and not give in to the ableist insults of the past. I think your interpretation of my use of ‘English’ language was rather clearly in bad faith. But hey, if you want to parse that to mean only people who have no other language difficulties, fill your boots.

I think you have me confused with someone else on “ableist insults” as I am totally and permanently disabled so that’s just not something I do.

Its quite clear to me that saying “English language difficulties” refers to difficulties with only the English language. If you’d meant “language difficulties” in the sense of cognitive difficulties with any/all languages, you would not have tacked on “English” to that clause.

As someone with cognitive language difficulties due to traumatic brain injury and post-concussion syndrome, I can assure you they do affect every language I speak/read/write and not just English. The same is true for everyone else with this sort of disability, as my Nuerorehabilitation consultant often told me as I relearned how to speak/read/write over the first year following my accident.

I don’t think my reading is in bad faith. I rather suspect you had a slip of the tongue and instead of going “oops” you’re instead doing reverse accusations that I “assumed” you meant only English when you literally wrote only English!

Id be happy to discuss matters on threads with you without insults, but as you can see you’ve asked for no insults while simultaneously insulting me twice! So that’s something to reflect on. Is that a promise that can be kept?

And moving on.

I think my other posts discussing the use of this 'term' may have clarified my point.

knittingaddict · 04/11/2022 09:35

maddy68 · 03/11/2022 09:05

That tern is correct. For example my nephew was born with female internal sexual organs and external male sexual organs. A medical choice had to me be made at birth which sex was determined and the medical intervention accordingly.

You are being very offensive to intersex children by banging on about what you perceive to be a choice

This scenario sounds very unlikely.

TheClogLady · 04/11/2022 09:47

Discoveread your straw man definition is completely wrong, btw.

it’s not

‘a weak or
sham argument that is easily refuted’

it’s actually

‘an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument’.

(see screenshots)

Response from health care service providers "assigned at birth"
Response from health care service providers "assigned at birth"
Response from health care service providers "assigned at birth"
Response from health care service providers "assigned at birth"
WednesdaysChild11 · 04/11/2022 09:50

They signed off "cheers"? Cheers???!! Wtaf is that about???

Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 09:54

And the same arguments against using the terms 'assigned [sex] at birth' can be then applied to :

"People with internal reproductive organs"

This is a new one. Used on a sign in an NHS hospital department.

"people with a cervix'

A survey discovered that close to 50% of women did not know what a cervix actually was.

There is a whole slew of these variations floating around that are nothing to do with a term (assigned [sex] at birth) that has been used within a specific very small group (just pointing out again for 0.018% of the population) and everything to do with an all or nothing approach that has been denied came from Stonewall by Nancy Kelley.

So where did it come from? (not a topic for this thread, there has been enough derailing as it is and my apologies to OP)

Discovereads · 04/11/2022 09:56

TheClogLady · 04/11/2022 09:47

Discoveread your straw man definition is completely wrong, btw.

it’s not

‘a weak or
sham argument that is easily refuted’

it’s actually

‘an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument’.

(see screenshots)

@TheClogLady

Really you must expand your vocabulary because a sham argument is
“‘an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument’.”

My definition wasn’t wrong, it was simply a more concise definition. 🤣

TheClogLady · 04/11/2022 10:10

Discovereads · 04/11/2022 09:56

@TheClogLady

Really you must expand your vocabulary because a sham argument is
“‘an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument’.”

My definition wasn’t wrong, it was simply a more concise definition. 🤣

Now you are neglecting to point out that the person engaged in constructing the sham argument was YOU!

My definition wasn’t wrong, it was simply a more concise definition

Your definition wasn’t ‘more concise’ it was a deliberate obfuscation of the term.

To clarify, you positioned yourself as refuting OPs argument re: clear comms in health related emails from healthcare providers by saying ‘it’s just a question on a form’

but the OP wasn’t talking about a question on a form.

The straw man (definition: an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument) in this scenario was you pretending ‘it’s just a question on a form’.

so even in your concise (and thus inaccurate) definition, ‘a weak, sham argument’ the person making the sham argument was you.

OP wasn’t talking about a question on a form and you misrepresented her position in order to be able to dismiss it with a weak, sham argument.

HTH.

Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 10:16

TheClogLady

Ahh. Clog. When I saw this rabbit hole, I decided to avoid it because it is really just further sparpling. But yes. You have parsed this correctly in my opinion.

Discovereads · 04/11/2022 10:19

@TheClogLady
oh my goodness. Using the word sham argument isn’t an obfuscation. There you go again using words you do not understand.

To clarify, you positioned yourself as refuting OPs argument re: clear comms in health related emails from healthcare providers by saying ‘it’s just a question on a form’. Lol nice try. By the 3rd post on page 1 of the thread your lot had already positioned yourself into a discussion of sex assigned at birth by midwives and through chromosome tests of babies to put on birth certificates, and how your consensus is that “assigned” is incorrect terminology and would cause mass confusion.

This thread departed from the OPs advert long loooong before I joined in. So you cannot lay your strawman at my door. 🤣

TheClogLady · 04/11/2022 10:35

Discovereads · 04/11/2022 10:19

@TheClogLady
oh my goodness. Using the word sham argument isn’t an obfuscation. There you go again using words you do not understand.

To clarify, you positioned yourself as refuting OPs argument re: clear comms in health related emails from healthcare providers by saying ‘it’s just a question on a form’. Lol nice try. By the 3rd post on page 1 of the thread your lot had already positioned yourself into a discussion of sex assigned at birth by midwives and through chromosome tests of babies to put on birth certificates, and how your consensus is that “assigned” is incorrect terminology and would cause mass confusion.

This thread departed from the OPs advert long loooong before I joined in. So you cannot lay your strawman at my door. 🤣

you are officially making yourself look silly now!

you are obfuscating by using a ‘concise’ definition for straw man that omits the key part* of what the phrase describes, the misrepresentation of the opponents argument^

a common or garden weak, sham argument isn’t a straw man, it’s just a weak, sham argument,

‘But they did it first!’ Is a weak, sham argument that doesn’t meet the straw man definition.

HTH!

Discovereads · 04/11/2022 10:51

@TheClogLady
How embarrassing for you that don’t know what a sham argument is. Sham argument includes arguments that misrepresent the opponents argument as it means any argument that is not genuine in any way. So, no it doesn’t exclude any “key parts” of the verbose explanatory definition you cut and paste from Wikipedia.

But they did it first!’ Is a weak, sham argument that doesn’t meet the straw man definition.

You have created yet another pop up strawman. I didn’t say “they did it first”- that wasn’t my argument. I said, the fact your side set up a strawman at the very beginning of the thread that I hours and hours later demolished, means that I did not create the strawman in the first place so you cannot lay your side’s strawman at my door.

I feel like I’m in that old cow riding video game constantly running over strawmen/scarecrows you keep flinging into my path.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 04/11/2022 10:51

Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 09:54

And the same arguments against using the terms 'assigned [sex] at birth' can be then applied to :

"People with internal reproductive organs"

This is a new one. Used on a sign in an NHS hospital department.

"people with a cervix'

A survey discovered that close to 50% of women did not know what a cervix actually was.

There is a whole slew of these variations floating around that are nothing to do with a term (assigned [sex] at birth) that has been used within a specific very small group (just pointing out again for 0.018% of the population) and everything to do with an all or nothing approach that has been denied came from Stonewall by Nancy Kelley.

So where did it come from? (not a topic for this thread, there has been enough derailing as it is and my apologies to OP)

The whole things just daft anyway

people with vaginas
people with internal reproductive systems
people with cervixes

eleventy billion ways of describing females without saying females

i wouldn’t have a massive issue with women, transmen and non binary OR female

but the twisting and turning to NOT say female/woman is just ridiculous….people actually get paid to come up with this stuff!

FernlovingNodosaur · 04/11/2022 11:05

Thanks to everyone who contributed. Ladyof2022 I do have acknowledged problems with English grammar/spelling and constructing sentences, that's why I asked this board and it's smart and English savvy women. Fortunately I am considered a good orator, otherwise my confidence to express myself would have taken a bit of dent after your post.

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Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 11:05

I saw one last week that was partners with eggs!

Err... what? Does that also include males with nits or worm eggs? males who are carrying groceries? males who have just eaten eggs?

I think that marketing newbies and creative agencies are just trying to come up with new and imaginative ways to get around the terms that woman have loudly said 'fuck off with that crap!' and are just getting more and more detached from humanity.

But in the spirit of this thread that got stuck on the post about maddies nephew, "people with internal reproductive systems" is including any male that may still retain their internal testes.

I mean, if we are being told that we have to change the language to suit the half of 0.018% (0.009%) of the population. Let's point out how terms like 'people with internal reproductive systems' are then including people who shouldn't be included.

FernlovingNodosaur · 04/11/2022 11:10

Helleofabore. It's crazy, that they tie themselves up in linguistic knots, when simply clear words will do.

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TheKeatingFive · 04/11/2022 11:12

I just can't get over it really. Why wouldn't you have/use a word to identify the female sex class? How on earth would the benefits of having that word not outweigh any disadvantages?

Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 11:16

Many brands are trying very hard to not offend and to remain neutral. They are likely to get blow back from groups whatever they do.

The email that OP received was blatantly 'our marketing team has decided and there will be no alternative information considered so don't bother, just suck it up.' This is also quite poor communication from any brand. And it is worse considering it is a health organisation.

Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 11:18

They are likely to get blow back from groups whatever they do.

No. That is not quite right .

They could choose additive language and that would upset far fewer people.

But they haven't. It could well be that one of their objectives is virtue signal as well and we shouldn't lose sight of that.

livvyposts · 04/11/2022 11:33

We would not call this particular patient a man, because sex chromosomes are not the endpoint of sex development.

Well @CharlieParley it seems some of the posters on here would classify this person as a man. So even gender critical people can't agree on a functional definition of sex when it is ambiguous.

For those interested here is a consensus statement from clinicians outlining both the treatment and gender assignment of intersex children: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2082839/

"Initial gender uncertainty is unsettling and stressful for families. Expediting a thorough assessment and decision is required. Factors that influence gender assignment include the diagnosis, genital appearance, surgical options, need for life long replacement therapy, the potential for fertility, views of the family, and sometimes the circumstances relating to cultural practices. More than 90% of 46,XX CAH patients41 and all 46,XY CAIS assigned females in infancy42 identify as females. Evidence supports the current recommendation to raise markedly virilised 46,XX infants with CAH as female.43 Approximately 60% of 5α‐reductase (5αRD2) deficient patients assigned female in infancy and virilising at puberty (and all assigned male) live as males.5 In 5αRD2 and possibly 17β‐hydroxysteroid dehydrogenase (17βHSD3) deficiencies, where the diagnosis is made in infancy, the combination of a male gender identity in the majority and the potential for fertility (documented in 5αRD2, but unknown in 17βHSD3) should be discussed when providing evidence for gender assignment.5,44,45 Among patients with PAIS, androgen biosynthetic defects, and incomplete gonadal dysgenesis, there is dissatisfaction with the sex of rearing in about 25% of individuals, whether raised male or female."

Etc etc. It's complicated, and a range of factors are used to assign sex with the aim of making an assignation which matches whatever the gender identity of the child turns out to be. It's not done the way people here claim which renders many of the arguments on this thread redundant.

DameHelena · 04/11/2022 11:36

That's from 2006. Is it still pertinent?

Helleofabore · 04/11/2022 11:55

And here is livvy still politicising people's rare medical conditions to score points.

Has anyone here said '100% of people can be categorised into male or female'? I haven't, has anyone else?

You are still using a group of people to attempt to destabilise the robust and proven concepts of male and female. You have been called out on it and still persist.

And I agree with damehelena. 2006 is a lifetime in regards to the ability to categorise children into sex classes.

It's not done the way people here claim which renders many of the arguments on this thread redundant.

Can you please be very specific as to what process you think posters have said is being used?

Because I think you are still operating under your own prejudiced views about the beliefs of posters on this board.

TheKeatingFive · 04/11/2022 12:00

I'm not sure if Livvy has grasped that 46XX and 46XY are an absolutely tiny subset of the wider DSDs. Only about 500 individuals have ever been recorded with this particular disorder.

WednesdaysChild11 · 04/11/2022 12:03

Is no-one going to comment on how this so called professional signed off with "Cheers" in a formal letter. 😭😭 I can't.

livvyposts · 04/11/2022 12:16

TheKeatingFive · 04/11/2022 12:00

I'm not sure if Livvy has grasped that 46XX and 46XY are an absolutely tiny subset of the wider DSDs. Only about 500 individuals have ever been recorded with this particular disorder.

I presume you mean in the UK. This paper puts the prevalence at 6.4 per 100,000: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27603905/

Chersfrozenface · 04/11/2022 12:27

"people with internal reproductive systems" doesn't work either.

In both sexes part of the reproductive system in internal and part is external.

In females most is internal to the torso but there's the vulva, the "outer part of the female genitals" as one site puts it.

In males a good deal is external to the torso, but the seminal vesicle, prostate gland and part of the associated plumbing in internal.