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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

New chair of Stonewall Iain Anderson says he wants “less shouting” in the debate around LGBT rights

89 replies

WallaceinAnderland · 30/10/2022 14:27

“I want to get this conversation off Twitter, I want to stop debating people’s lives”

I bet you do mate. Not going your way at the moment is it.

https://twitter.com/BBCPolitics/status/1586673996967604225

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PurgatoryOfPotholes · 30/10/2022 19:24

Hey, it's nothing worse, and a great deal better, than most women have had to deal with if they dared express dissent on this topic outside mumsnet.

You only realise how bad it is, when you list out all the particularly unpleasant incidents, at once.

Pixiedust1234 · 30/10/2022 19:45

It really is back to no debate isnt it. Let the boys talk in the corridors of power and the backroom because I'm used to talking to politicians. We can't talk on twitter because women are mean (and screenshot things).

To paraphrase Judge Judy... He's lying because his lips are moving.

lechiffre55 · 30/10/2022 19:48

"I want to stop debating people’s lives”
is very different from
"we should debate what's best for the lives of people with very complex issues"
Debating what's the best course of action to ensure the best outcome for people with complex issues is the only way to arrive at the best course of action for those people. But religion doesn't accept any challenge to the orthodox view, because that would challenge the power and position of the high priests. This is not about what's best for trans people or people who think they might be trans, it's about maintaining power and prestige for the priests at the top of the pyramid.

ResisterRex · 30/10/2022 19:53

Also, this is a good point about blocking people:

twitter.com/jo_bartosch/status/1586807263884460034?s=46&t=zkVul54kivilU7h5Obre1g

Do they stand by this action?

I also think people involved in charities shouldn't be anonymous:

www.stonewall.org.uk/trans-advisory-group

"MEMBERS OF THE GROUP WERE APPOINTED FOLLOWING AN EXTENSIVE APPLICATION AND RECRUITMENT PROCESS. PLEASE NOTE, SOME MEMBERS OF THE GROUP HAVE ELECTED TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS, SO HAVE NOT BEEN INCLUDED ON THIS LIST. "

What do they influence who do they have contact with?

Such a lot of questions

OhHolyJesus · 30/10/2022 20:00

“I want to get this conversation off Twitter"

no debate didn't work* and now Musk is readmitting previously banned GC accounts we are sure to lose even worse than before*

"I want to stop debating people’s lives."

It's not women's lives he's talking about it is?

Bit late Iain, it's just a bit too late ...and if the lives of the people you don't wish to 'debate' require the lives of all people, including children, to bow down to an ideology built on sand in their thoughts, words and actions then quite honestly you'd be best of sticking to Twitter as it doesn't work in the real world.**

MrsOvertonsWindow · 30/10/2022 20:04

ResisterRex · 30/10/2022 19:53

Also, this is a good point about blocking people:

twitter.com/jo_bartosch/status/1586807263884460034?s=46&t=zkVul54kivilU7h5Obre1g

Do they stand by this action?

I also think people involved in charities shouldn't be anonymous:

www.stonewall.org.uk/trans-advisory-group

"MEMBERS OF THE GROUP WERE APPOINTED FOLLOWING AN EXTENSIVE APPLICATION AND RECRUITMENT PROCESS. PLEASE NOTE, SOME MEMBERS OF THE GROUP HAVE ELECTED TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS, SO HAVE NOT BEEN INCLUDED ON THIS LIST. "

What do they influence who do they have contact with?

Such a lot of questions

Stonewall were quick to appoint Aimee Challenor to that trans advisory group when the paedophile scandal involving them emerged from the Green Party. That was when I understood how dangerous Stonewall had the potential to be to children. They "advised" schools yet openly appointed someone with that history.

ResisterRex · 30/10/2022 21:29

Sex Matters has written to Stonewall:

sex-matters.org/posts/updates/letter-to-stonewall/

Ohyoudodoyou · 30/10/2022 21:37

Those replies are pretty scathing but with some very valid points.
He won't answer respond to them though. We've seen this before.
Be great if he did a q and a on here, hey?

RhannionKPSS · 30/10/2022 21:40

Iain doesn’t like the sunlight pouring in on Stonewall , Crispin Blunt and all the other dealings going on in private. Too late the time of no debate is over, women won’t wheesht about safety, privacy, dignity and safeguarding children.

RhannionKPSS · 30/10/2022 21:44

I wouldn’t trust Iain as far as I could throw him. After the Nolan series on Stonewall exposed their appalling behaviour it should have been shut down, and it still should. What Stonewall have done to women’s rights & children is unforgivable. LGB Alliance would do well to keep well away from them.

FOJN · 30/10/2022 22:00

"Debating people's lives"

He's got his constructive dialogue off to a good start with this little gem.

Fuck off Iain.

Pixiedust1234 · 30/10/2022 22:05

I thought I had misheard him originally but reading it on the link he really did say "I believe in a big tent". What the heck does that mean?

Charley50 · 30/10/2022 22:09

Excellent letter from Sex Matters. Straight to the point; they don't fuck around 💪🏼💪🏽😍

SidewaysOtter · 30/10/2022 22:22

All he can want whatever he likes. Doesn’t mean he’s going to get it.

#nodebate is so over.

ArabellaScott · 30/10/2022 22:26

Pixiedust1234 · 30/10/2022 22:05

I thought I had misheard him originally but reading it on the link he really did say "I believe in a big tent". What the heck does that mean?

He means one of the inflatable ones, with a porch.

TheClogLady · 30/10/2022 22:26

Pixiedust1234 · 30/10/2022 22:05

I thought I had misheard him originally but reading it on the link he really did say "I believe in a big tent". What the heck does that mean?

It means the trans umbrella ☂ just got so wide it turned into a big top 🎪 !

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 30/10/2022 22:33

So, instead of a Winter of Discontent, we'll have a Winter in a (big) Disco Tent?

Hmm, not sure this will avoid the discontent bit.

LadyLobbyist · 30/10/2022 22:33

I know Iain a bit professionally. Always had a lot of time for him as a very bright (gay) lobbyist and business owner, but have been shocked by his complete capture TBH.

stealtheatingtunnocks · 30/10/2022 22:38

He knows he has joined a sinking ship.

he’s stupid enough to believe he shits polystyrene

fucking idiots took over the asylum some time ago

ZandathePanda · 30/10/2022 23:43

I just looked at that clip without the sound on so as not to wake anyone. Does he sound as angry as he looks?

antelopevalley · 31/10/2022 00:26

TheMostBeautifulDogInTheWorld · 30/10/2022 16:01

This was just a tiny part of the programme, it was mostly about UK politics this week in general. It wasn't in any sense a debate about Stonewall itself or its policies or aims - it was just something that came up tangentially in the context of Kemi Badenoch's appointment. Anderson had been invited because he describes himself as a "long-time Conservative-watcher" or something - can't remember if that's the exact words but that's the gist.

But yes it would be good to have Bev or Kate on one week too - again as general politics commentators as well as for any specialist issues that come up!

LGB Alliance membership is mainly straight people. Why would they have them on.

Intru · 31/10/2022 00:44

antelopevalley · 31/10/2022 00:26

LGB Alliance membership is mainly straight people. Why would they have them on.

Because they are a charity involved with protecting the rights of the LGB community. If you want only people who are L, G, or B to be spoken to about this there are plenty of LGBA members who tick one of those boxes.

Pixiedust1234 · 31/10/2022 00:44

Probably because of who they represent. Have I fallen for a trick question? 🤔

Merida46 · 31/10/2022 00:46

The only people doing the shouting are the masked, mainly male, thugs shouting down women who want to speak about issues that affect real women!

antelopevalley · 31/10/2022 00:46

But you do not represent the LGB community if the majority of your membership are straight.

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