Also, now I've caught up with the whole thread- just want to say I'm sorry you're dealing with this @Sparkly.
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The hardest thing to try to make sense of, for me, is the capture of any of the physiologically informed fields- like psychotherapy.
These are the people who should know better; to be able to see the internal, interpersonal, and systemic dynamics at play, and to hold a big picture view.
Also, they hold the understanding that the only constant is change, that children and young people are moving through developmental stages, and that curiosity is a cardinal virtue in psychotherapeutic work.
Crucial too, is all psychotherapists understand the need to always be aware of blind spots.
It's shocking and terrifying to me. And deeply destabilising.
I feel for you, starting out your career in this environment.
If not already, I suggest following Gender a Wider.Lens podcast and You Must be Some Kind of Therapist' podcast, both on YouTube. To keep you feel sane and grounded in your integrity.