Quite.
There is no way to indulge and enable male humans in this desire without harming and disadvantaging females.
Even if all those males were perfectly behaved and respectful towards females, they still harm and disadvantage by their presence and biological reality alone.
What we're seeing now is even if the harm is the life-destroying trauma of being raped.... it is still much more important to indulge and enable male desires than to care about this.
And balance up the male supremacism of it - it is perfectly acceptable for females to be told no when they express a deeply held wish for provision, to feel afraid, to be retraumatised, to be excluded, to be physically damaged and injured...
but absolutely unthinkable to say no to a male.
Why is anyone still pretending at this point to believe that those males are in some way women? This is fantastically dimorphic sex based values.