TheSmallestOneWasMadeline
How timely. Buck Angel post this tweet on the 18/10/22.
twitter.com/buckangel/status/1582475207133913088?s=46&t=PP8HlIJopvaQNJLaLhcTrw
Stop trying to use me as the "gotcha moment" I would NEVER use the women's room at this time in my life, I would rather piss in my pants than be disrespectful to women. Love, Buck
Of course, this brought out the disingenuous tweets from a chorus of transitioned males declaring they would be distressed in the male toilet and totally missed Buck’s point.
Which was pointed out pages back.
Many transitioned females have empathy for other females and understand the power of the changes their taking testosterone makes. They choose to not distress other females and will find another solution.
This empathy is exhibited by transitioned males toward females, but it is rarer. As per the replies of the tweet. Whereas Buck’s reply was all about the needs of other females, the transitioned males was all about them.
It becomes clearer and clearer the more these males communicate. Even when they understand that using the toilet and changing rooms cause distress they choose to continue.
We are constantly told by lobby groups that we should listen when people tell us who they are. And I think it is so true on many unintended levels.
Either way. Using Buck Angel is not a gotcha. But just imagine a world where not one male person over puberty used female single spaces out of respect, so female people would know that instinctively that a transitioned female was female. It might have helped in many cases.
However, there will always be those who will respond to both the male presentation of a female person (even those without testosterone) or a male presenting as a female with the sex cues that cannot be changed or disguised regardless.
It must be a person with a complete lack of empathy who assumes first that any female person, adult or child, who responds with distress at a male presenting female is doing so out of ‘bigotry’ and not from a place of extreme trauma.