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Woman told by PSCO that her thinking is wrong and she needs to educate herself.

319 replies

Signalbox · 14/08/2022 20:12

Woman is visited by a PSCO and told to remove an "offensive" sticker, told that her thinking is wrong and that she needs to educate herself. Also that TWAW is a fact.

FFS what the fuck is going on...

twitter.com/IXthoth/status/1558864403746922496

OP posts:
PaleBlueMoonlight · 14/08/2022 22:09

This is really awful. It's bizarre too. The sticker does not say that transwomen erase women (which they don't), but that trans ideology erases women (which it does by variously denying the existence/importance of sex and by removing the language needed to describe sex based concepts), but the PCSO announces that trans ideology does not exist and then proceeds to lecture the poor woman about how transwomen don't erase women, thus massively straw-manning the argument.

DarkDayforMN · 14/08/2022 22:11

Why has this bullshit taken such a hold in the police? There seem to be a lot of committed believers in their ranks.

I know it’s got a special appeal to midwits and misogynists… oh, authoritarians also. Have I just answered my own question or is there more to it, do you think?

Apollo442 · 14/08/2022 22:11

I'd put up another sticker to piss them off. Perhaps Woman = adult human being.

PrimAndProperViperish · 14/08/2022 22:13

DarkDayforMN · 14/08/2022 22:11

Why has this bullshit taken such a hold in the police? There seem to be a lot of committed believers in their ranks.

I know it’s got a special appeal to midwits and misogynists… oh, authoritarians also. Have I just answered my own question or is there more to it, do you think?

I think you have it there.

This is an enthusiastic officious bit of bullying. She's taking great pleasure in attacking a woman for wrongthink, liberally throwing out a lot of bullshit fallacies and apparently enjoying it when the poor woman gets upset.

tootiredtobother · 14/08/2022 22:16

where does one get these little posters etc ? have a large porch with windows which needs decorating

VestofAbsurdity · 14/08/2022 22:16

It seems the indoctrinated are becoming ever more febrile and draconian in their efforts to instil this ideology they know the tide has turned hence the use of threats and scare tactics all ideologies in their dying throes ramp up the ante.

Chrysanthemum5 · 14/08/2022 22:23

I can't even listen to all of that - she is so upset and the police person just keeps going with badgering her

Apollo442 · 14/08/2022 22:26

Apollo442 · 14/08/2022 22:11

I'd put up another sticker to piss them off. Perhaps Woman = adult human being.

D'oh adult human female!
Definitely pursue a complaint.

yourhairiswinterfire · 14/08/2022 22:29

She offended by my sticker! Pointed at her LGBT, which said that stonewall badge
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She showed me her trans/pride lanyard! Before the hostile tone of ‘I’m going now’.

And yet the police insist that wearing these lanyards, badges, rainbowing their cars and having 'Stonewall' stamped on them isn't political. It quite clearly is Hmm

LondonWolf · 14/08/2022 22:30

I'd have told her to get out of my home after about thirty seconds. It's a good thing she listened and recorded it I guess - sunlight and all that - but there's no way I could have tolerated that.

ScreamingMeMe · 14/08/2022 22:30

Transcript by another twitter user

twitter.com/akfirefly76/status/1558919282251235336?t=ZyOAh4YpouNPB9H5DI0aFw&s=19

I decided to transcribe it as listening can be hard for some people and this interaction was utterly shocking for me with the obvious propaganda capture by the officer.

@IXthoth If I make some attribution errors when the daughters come in, please forgive me.

BELLA DOE: You’re told you’re transphobic if you don’t… If you’re a lesbian and you don’t include trans women.

PCSO: Why would you not include trans women?
BD: Um. Because they’re men.
PCSO: No they’re not.
BD: But they can’t… They can’t change… Then you’d have to…

PCSO: Okay, where you are in your thinkings is very much needed a lot of enlightenment and reading. I find that very offensive and I’d like you to take it off.

BD: But why do you find it offensive?

PCSO: Because you’re trying to tell people in the real world… Not inside your house. Outside. That trans people don’t exist. That it’s an idea. It’s ideology. And that’s it’s being harmful for women, which it isn’t. And it’s not a point of view, that’s fact.

PCSO: So I think that is quite damaging because what you’re doing is trying to give other people the idea of what you believe. Which, I think, you need to do a lot more reading on. Personally.

PCSO: And now because somebody’s spoken to you about it you’re going to keep it there because you feel that that’s your right to do so.
BD: No. I want to… No. It’s been… It’s faded, it’s been there for so… It’s been there. You’re. This. So now I’m… I have… I cannot express.

PCSO: You can express your views in your own world. This is not inside your world, is it? Anybody that comes to your door is going to see that.
BD: I don’t… Why… I thought… I said I’d keep myself to myself. This is ridiculous.
PCSO: It’s really upset you?
BD: Yes it has. So…

PCSO: But you don’t think about the fact that-
BD: I do. I think about…
PCSO: it upsets all the trans people to say that they’re erasing women. Which it simply isn’t true.

BD: But that… doesn’t that… If I go to a support group about rape… If I’ve been raped, right?
PCSO: Yeah.
BD: And I go to the support group.
PCSO: Yeah.
BD: I have to include trans men in that [inaudible]
PCSO: What do you mean you have to include trans men in it?

itwasntmetho · 14/08/2022 22:30

That's so sinister. That poor woman.
I'm pleased Mr Owl and co are on it.

MzHz · 14/08/2022 22:30

yourhairiswinterfire · 14/08/2022 20:25

Who the actual fuck does that Stasi PCSO think she is?

My thoughts exactly

ScreamingMeMe · 14/08/2022 22:32

BD: I mean trans women. Trans women. Because-
PCSO: You don’t think trans women get raped? Trans women get raped too. Trans women are women. Women get raped. Men get raped. Trans men get raped. There’s no differentiation and nor should there be.

BD: I’m not talking about the sex… Those who have had the…

(Silence for a few seconds)

PCSO: It’s difficult if you’ve had an experience that’s colored your gen… your idea of what’s going on in life. However, that sort of thing is just preying on your fears.

BD: (sobs)
PCSO: It’s making you scared of something that you shouldn’t be scared of.
BD: I wasn’t scared. I wasn’t scared until I was told that it might cause offense. Now, I feel-

PCSO: No but you’re… No, I’m not on about that. I’m on about the fact that you’re living in fear of trans women.
BD: No I’m not. I’m not in fear… I’m not in fear. I just want… I want to be able to…
PCSO: What do you want to be able to do?

BD: I want to be able to go to my support group for my stuff that has happened to me from men without having men there. And then you’re telling me that-
PCSO: Ah, right. Yes. This is what I’m saying about you’ve got in your head that a trans woman is not a woman.

BD: But they’re not how [inaudible] a woman, however a woman-
PCSO: Okay. That’s not my job to educate you. You need to educate yourself. There’s plenty… If you go on the Internet there’s tons of support groups that will help you with this.

BD: But you’re telling me that I have to change… I have to change my belief.
PCSO: Oh, it’s not belief. It’s not beliefs. It’s facts. It’s not a belief system. It’s not like “do you believe in God?” You know, something you can’t see? It’s not… That’s not…

PCSO: That’s not what this is… You… Again you… you’ve got to try and-
BD: You can’t change sex. It’s impossible to change sex.
PCSO: It’s not change. Okay. It’s how you’re born. It’s how you’re born.

FlorettaB · 14/08/2022 22:33

PCSOs identify as police officers.

VestofAbsurdity · 14/08/2022 22:35

That PCSO needs to be sacked, no ifs, no buts.

If she had turned up at my door she would have had the door slammed in her face within about 20 seconds. That poor woman obviously felt unable to do that and the PCSO knew that and fucking played on that vulnerability, utterly reprehensible.

ScreamingMeMe · 14/08/2022 22:35

PCSO: Now if a person is born in the wrong body and spends big portion of their life in that wrong body and suffers terribly from all sorts of disorders because they have been born into the wrong body.

PCSO: To allow them to transition to the right body to enable them to feel… be the person that they are isn’t something that doesn’t exist. It isn’t a choice. Just the same as being gay isn’t a choice.

PCSO: Do you understand that being gay is not a choice, yeah?
BD: That’s what I’m saying about lesb-
PCSO: Yeah, so being gay is not a choice. Being trans is not a choice. It’s not a choice.

PCSO: It’s not something you just wake up one day & decide to be. It’s not a choice. It causes distress. It causes suicide. It causes people terrible mental health crises & mental ill health for many many years until they find the courage to be the person that they actually are.

PCSO: It’s not that they want to be. It’s not that they wish to be. It’s that they actually are. Does that make sense?
(Silence)
PCSO: Does that make sense?
BD: No.
PCSO: It doesn’t make sense. Okay.
DAUGHTER1: Don’t get upset. It’s a sticker, mum. It’s a sticker.

BD: My… my. I’m offending trans women who are women.
D1: So if I had a sticker about something else, a poem, something else and so I was… And someone else has complained about it why should I remove that sticker?
PCSO: Because it’s offensive.

D1: How is it offensive?
DAUGHTER2: Well they shouldn’t look at it then.
D1: Is that poem [inaudible] If I was to put lesbians don’t have penises. Am I offending… Who am I offending?
PCSO: That’s… You’re again… You’re going away from the point. The point-

D1: How is it offensive?
D2: You shouldn’t look at it.
PCSO: Because it’s stating that trans people… trans women are an idea not a…and they don’t exist.

VestofAbsurdity · 14/08/2022 22:35

Thank you for the transcript @ScreamingMeMe I struggled to hear it clearly.

pombear · 14/08/2022 22:36

There's some real shockers in there. I think this calls for a transcript for posterity, should it disappear from Twitter.

Part One:

BD: You told you’re transphobic if you don’t, if you’re a lesbian and you don’t include transwomen, right?

PCSO: Why would you not include transwomen?

BD: Erm, because they’re men?

PCSO: No they’re not.

BD: You can’t , you can’t change, but then you’d have to...

PCSO: OK where you are in your thinking is very much needing a lot of enlightenment and reading. I find that very offensive and I’d like you to take it off.

BD: But why do you find, why do you find it offensive

PCSO: Because you’re trying to tell people in the real world, not inside your house, outside, that trans people don’t exist, that it’s an idea, it’s ideology, and that it’s being harmful to women, which it isn’t. And it’s not a point of view, that’s fact. So I think that is quite damaging. Because what you’re actually doing is trying to give other people the idea of what you believe which I think you need to do a lot more reading on, personally.

And now because somebody’s spoken to you about it, you’re going to keep it there because you feel that that’s your right to do so.

BD: No, I don’t, I want to, no, but it’s been there, it’s faded, it’s been there so, it’s been there, you’re, this. So now I, I have, I cannot express.

PCSO: You can express your views in your own world. This is not inside your world, is it? Anybody that comes to your door is going to see that.

BD: But I don’t erm by, I said I keep myself to myself [sound of crying]

PCSO: It’s really upset you?

BD: Yes it has. So?

PCSO: But you don’t think about that fact that it

BD: I do, I think about

PCSO: Upsets all the trans people to say that they, they’re erasing women which simply isn’t true

BD: But doesn’t that... If I go to a support group about rape, if I’ve been raped, right?

PCSO: Yep

BD: And I go to a support group

PCSO: Yeah

BD: I have to include transmen in it – why?

PCSO: What do you mean you have to include transmen in it?

BD: I mean transwomen, transwomen.

PCSO: Because transwomen get raped

BD: I mean

PCSO: You don’t think transwomen don’t get raped? Transwomen get raped too.
Transwomen are women. Women get raped. Men get raped. Transmen get raped.
There’s no differentiation. And nor should there be.

ScreamingMeMe · 14/08/2022 22:37

PCSO: Which is what your… is it your mum?
D1: Yeah.
D2: Our mum.
PCSO: It’s what your mum’s saying.
D1: Can’t believe all this about a sticker.
D2: They shouldn’t look at it then.

D1: Well…

PCSO: If you read something on there that was racist, you would understand why I was coming to say you shouldn’t have that on your door, wouldn’t you?
BD: But it’s different. It’s different.
PCSO: How is it different?
BD: Completely different.

PCSO: How is it different?
BD: Because people are born black. Like, people are born their sex, male and female.

PCSO: No, that’s not… Again, you’re missing the point. All I can urge you to do is just to… just read… just educate yourself.

BD: I have. I have. I have. I have.

D1: Educate?
BD: Oh no. Sorry, I’m not… I’m not educated… I’m not being educated on being a man being taught that he’s a woman. A man is not a woman, he never will be. He’s a man.

PCSO: Hang on a sec.
BD: No, I’m not.
PCSO: So, nobody’s being told anything. This is what I’m saying… That’s where there’s a big big gap in understanding here. There’s a huge gap in understanding.

DarkDayforMN · 14/08/2022 22:38

It’s not like “do you believe in God?” You know, something you can’t see

Jesus Christ this is frustrating to be subjected to even third hand. I can’t imagine what Bella was feeling.

Is there any chance that absolute Umbridge of a PSCO will have to defend these statements in court, because I swear I will throw money at it to make it happen.

pombear · 14/08/2022 22:39

Part Two:

BD: But I’m talking about sex…those who’ve had erm…

[pause]

PCSO: It’s difficult, if you’ve had an experience that has coloured your judge, your, your idea of what’s gone on, what’s going on in life. However, that sort of thing is just preying on your fears. It’s making you scared of something you shouldn’t be scared of.

BD: I wasn’t scared, I wasn’t scared until I was told that it might cause offence. Now I feel [crying]

PCSO: No but you’re, no I’m not on about that I’m on about the fact that you’re, you’re living in fear of transwomen.

BD: I’m not, I’m not. I’m not in fear, I’m not in fear. I just want to be able.
I want to be able [pauses] oh…

PCSO: What, what do you want to be able to do?

BD: I want to be able to go to a support group to talk about my, my stuff that’s happened to me from men without having them there, and then you’re telling me

PCSO: Ah, right, yeah. So this is what I’m saying about you, you’ve got in your head that a transwoman is not a woman.

BD: But they’re not. How are they a woman, tell me please, tell me how are they a woman?

PCSO: [Sighs] OK, that’s not my job to educate you. But you need to educate yourself.
There’s plenty, if you go on the internet there’s tons of support groups that will help you with this.

BD: But you’re telling me I have to change, I have to change my beliefs

PCSO: But it’s not a belief, it’s not beliefs, it’s facts. It’s not a belief system, it’s not like ‘do you believe in God’, you know, something you can’t see. It’s not, that’s not, that’s not what this is, you, again, you’ve got to, you’ve got to try and

BD: You can’t change sex. It’s physically impossible to change sex.

PCSO: It’s not change. OK. It’s how you’re born. It’s how you’re born. Now if a person is born with the wrong body and spends a good portion of their life in the wrong body and suffers terribly from all sorts of disorders because they have been born into the wrong body, to allow them to transition into the right body to enable them to feel, be the person that they are isn’t something that doesn’t exist. It isn’t a choice.

Just the same as being gay isn’t a choice. You do understand that being gay is not a choice, don’t you?

BD: That’s what I’m saying about lesbians, about...

pombear · 14/08/2022 22:41

Part Three:

PCSO: Yeah, so being gay’s not a choice, being trans is not a choice. It’s not a choice. It’s not something that you just wake up one day [snapping fingers noise] and decide to be. It’s not a choice. It causes distress. It causes suicide. It causes people, er, terrible mental health crises, and mental ill health for many many years until they, until they find the courage to be the person that they actually are. And it’s not that they want to be. It’s not that they wish to be. It’s that they’re actually trans.

Does that make sense?

[pause]

Does that make sense?

BD: No

PCSO: Doesn’t make sense. OK.

Child in background: Yeah, a sticker can’t offend anyone.
Another in background: Don’t be upset, it’s a sticker mum, it’s a sticker.

BD: [upset] But why, why? I’m offending transwomen who are women...

Other/BD?: So if I had a sticker about something else, opposing something else, and someone else was to complain about it, why should I remove that sticker?

PCSO: Because it’s offensive.

Other/BD?: How’s it offensive?

Child: Well they shouldn’t look at it then.

BD: If I was to put ‘lesbians don’t have a penis, penises’ am I offending, who am I offending?

PCSO: You’re again, you’re going away from the point.

Other: Why is it offensive?

Child: They shouldn’t look at it

PCSO: Because, it’s, it’s stating that trans pe, transwomen are an idea, not a th, that they don’t exist. Which is what you’re, you’re, is it your mum?

Child: Yeah, it is my mum.

PCSO: It’s what your mum is saying.

Signalbox · 14/08/2022 22:43

Thanks to the transcribers!

OP posts:
pombear · 14/08/2022 22:43

Part Four:

PCSO: If you had something on there that was racist you would understand why I was coming to say you shouldn’t have that on your door, wouldn’t you?

BD: Completely different.

PCSO: How is it different?

BD: Completely different.

PCSO: How is it different?

BD: Because people are born black, like people are born their sex, male and female.

PCSO: No, that’s, that’s not, again, you’re missing the point. All I can urge you to do is just, just read...

BD: I have, I have, I am

PCSO: Just, just, educate yourself

BD: Oh, no. Sorry, I’m not educating myself, being educated

PCSO: Go ahead

BD: On being a man, being told he’s a woman. A man is not a woman, he never will be. He’s a man.

PCSO: Hang on a sec.

BD: No, I’m not.

PCSO: So, nobody’s being told anything. This is what I’m saying. That’s where there’s a big, big gap in understanding, there’s a huge gap in understanding.

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