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Macy Gray has capitulated

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Gogster · 11/07/2022 20:51

https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2022/07/macy-gray-apologizes-anti-trans-comments-misunderstood-today-show-hoda-kotb-piers-morgan

4 days. Just 4 days, Macy. "Do better".Hmm

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SerfwithaT · 11/07/2022 22:33

Gogster · 11/07/2022 21:25

It is cowardly.

She's a celebrity and vulnerable because of that, she lives in a country with plenty of armed nutters and her job is standing on a bloody stage in front of crowds. Even with her forced apology she will be very aware of how vulnerable she is every time she's performing.

Clymene · 11/07/2022 22:39

Floisme · 11/07/2022 22:24

You’re calling her a coward on an anonymous website?
And you name-changed first?

That poor woman. I hope she’s comes through this ok.

Quite.

Pathetic

FlibbertyGiblets · 11/07/2022 23:06

I only managed three minutes of that video in the second post. I can't bear that man jeering at Macy. So cruel.

I feel so sorry for Macy.

BoreOfWhabylon · 11/07/2022 23:12

Clymene · 11/07/2022 21:42

She's not a coward. She's a woman who is tied to a recording contract.

There are a lot of questionable new posters on FWR.

Agree on both these points

Datun · 11/07/2022 23:13

She's been bullied, threatened and targeted. She relies on PR for her living.

She's been made to capitulate. This is a journey, and she's only just started. But I have absolutely zero doubt, whatsoever, that she will get there in the end, because her PR will be accommodating her view, not opposing it.

The tide has turned, and she's getting the last of the howling backlash.

ContradickstoryEvidence · 11/07/2022 23:19

Are you out and proud in your GC views in your work place, family, friends, all social media? If the answer is no, do you consider yourself to be a coward?

OneEyedPenguin · 11/07/2022 23:23

Macy has bipolar disorder. She didn't seem quite alright in herself during the Piers Morgan interview, I actually felt uncomfortable watching it. I think she's vulnerable at the moment and had little clue about backlash she would receive.

GirlDownUnder22 · 11/07/2022 23:23

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GirlDownUnder22 · 11/07/2022 23:25

ContradickstoryEvidence · 11/07/2022 23:19

Are you out and proud in your GC views in your work place, family, friends, all social media? If the answer is no, do you consider yourself to be a coward?

100% this. The GC crowd want other people to do they heavy lifting for them then take credit for "supporting" them. It's weak, and cowardly.

Margotshypotheticaldog · 11/07/2022 23:27

@GirlDownUnder22
You need to get out more.

Margotshypotheticaldog · 11/07/2022 23:33

I should elaborate.
Out in the real world, women understand, women know the truth, and women see what is happening.
Out in the real world real women are speaking to each other and in the real world women are not afraid to speak out.
Tinternet is not the real world. You need to get out more and listen to what women are actually saying to each other.

DoubleShotEspresso · 11/07/2022 23:33

God this is so awfully sad.

I don't believe it's cowardly. Artists such as MG come along with a massive team, all of whom fall broke the moment she gets dropped. Those inferring the lack of contract clauses should know that when a major record company views you out if favour, you get unceremoniously dropped.

I'd question far more heavily the spineless PR and management teams who have manipulated this in order to conserve future business deals and their own destiny.

I actually pity Macy Gray in these circumstances. We can compare the unique position of JKR who in stark contrast can voice her opinions freely -not all artists are as fortunate.

Really tough viewing 😢

cantthinkofanothergoodusername · 11/07/2022 23:35

my 20 yr old daughter went to a Pride march at the weekend. She came home and asked why the trans groups were so loud, angry and aggressive. She was totally alienated. Shocked at people walking around with barely healed mastectomy scars (her Aunt has just had one for breast cancer). They shout, scream, bully and harass. Pretty much 100% of people I know are GC but only about 10% are open about it. That number is increasing
all time though.

cantthinkofanothergoodusername · 11/07/2022 23:36

and yes; Twitter ain't the real world. Not even close. Thank Fuck.

SwapPlaces · 11/07/2022 23:36

It is cowardly …but it’s also perfectly understandable. We all hope that when the spotlight is on us we’ll rise to the occasion. But when it’s your career in the line, and you have a family to support and you’re facing social ostracism, it’s bloody hard. Most will fall.

The video of her on the today show was very, very difficult viewing. it looked like she was being publicly humiliated in a Red Guard Struggle Session. I don’t know how you could watch it and not have empathy for the position she was in.

She might come back - remember JK Rowlings ‘middle age moment’ back in the beginning of her her support.

LordLoveADuck · 11/07/2022 23:43

@Johnnysgirl Unless you've made your GC views public to a wide audience, you have no right to call her cowardly. Perhaps you need a reminder of how bad it gets

Documentation of threats against GC

GibbonsGoatsGibbons · 12/07/2022 01:07

Of course I wish she had kept telling her (& nature's!) truth but I don't blame her I blame the bullies.

just like I wish every woman in an abusive relationship could leave first time I don't blame them for taking -on average- 7 tries

I hope she has good support

timeisnotaline · 12/07/2022 01:18

I wouldn’t blame her at all, it’s atrocious bullying. It’s perfectly understood that people can go on stress leave and have nervous breakdowns from
being bullied at work and that doesn’t make them cowards. I am in absolute awe of the strong women speaking out and the service they do for women, they are heroes. Macy couldn’t stand up to the bullies and we should send her love, not put the boot in. What she thinks won’t have changed, and I hope she has good friends.

Gogster · 12/07/2022 06:07

namitynamechange · 11/07/2022 22:14

I have no idea why she repented. But, it isn't just her livelihood at stake. She has a whole band she works with who would also have been impacted/tarred by association and they arent as well known as her but have likely spent 2 years working together on a creative project only to see it effectively chucked away in the course of one interview. That must be an incredibly awkward position to be in (see also Mumford and Sons). Plus, she lives in America where people have guns which probably makes the crazy TRA threat seem more pertinent.
I am not saying those are the reasons - but I dont think calling her a coward is fair.

The band/guns is certainly something I didn't think about when I originally called her a coward. I take that back.

I really hope this ugly episode peaks more people.

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Gogster · 12/07/2022 06:08

Floisme · 11/07/2022 22:24

You’re calling her a coward on an anonymous website?
And you name-changed first?

That poor woman. I hope she’s comes through this ok.

I didn't name change for this thread.

And what's the site being anonymous got to do with it?

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Gogster · 12/07/2022 06:09

FlibbertyGiblets · 11/07/2022 23:06

I only managed three minutes of that video in the second post. I can't bear that man jeering at Macy. So cruel.

I feel so sorry for Macy.

He's an idiot for sure.

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Gogster · 12/07/2022 06:10

*Are you out and proud in your GC views in your work place, family, friends, all social media? If the answer is no, do you consider yourself to be a coward?

I am, yes. So no, I don't.

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JasmineVioletRose · 12/07/2022 06:17

Bette middler too 🙄

bellinisurge · 12/07/2022 06:19

I don't think she's a coward. I think she's been bullied. I hope she has good people around her who are holding her hand while she endures it.

JasmineVioletRose · 12/07/2022 06:20

I save my ire for women who could speak out - like Caitlin Moran or Bridget Christie - who've made their career by purporting to be feminists but who choose to keep schtum

Absolutely!!! And Deborah Frances White!!! Omg did anyone the patronising pile of shite she put out to GC fems the other week?!?! 🙈🙄

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