Male, female, trans, enbie, stargender for all I care:
You don't drive in heels.
In my function as someone working in a very formal professional environment and hence "individual regularly seen on heels":
I thought everyone and their grandmother had, by now, figured out the good, old trick of "you come in trainers, you change into your heels around the corner from the office, you strut into said office on your heels, keep them on for as long as anyone can see your feet, take them off underneath your desk, strut out of the office again in heels, change back into trainers around the corner!"
This is not about gender identity!
It's not even just about presenting "feminine": "naice" high heels are expensive AF. Nobody in their right mind would want to wear down their stiletto heels walking outside unless it's absolutely required by circumstances. Personally, I change into a pair of "business appropriate" flats when I walk outside, even with clients present!
Zero sympathy from me!