I'm reminded of that sketch Eddie Izzard did back in the days when he was very funny, about can there being, in his words, a difference between transvestites and fucking weirdo transvestites with criminal records, and not confusing one with the other.
I'm in the same mind about LGB related issues. I'm one of the increasing number of LGB grown ups who stopped going anywhere near Pride years ago, no longer feel any pride in Pride but acute embarrassment, and are doing our best not to look at the flags and fuss and attempts to make LGB a whole lot of things that many do not relate to, agree with or want anything to do with having spent decades trying to convince the public that being LGB did not equate with deviant with no boundaries or capacity for normal social appropriacy.
This is not helpful. Any more than trying to insist that 'normal kink' involves total lack of care or regard for involving non consenting others, and that's fine and appropriate if LGB. No, that would be fucking weirdo inappropriate LGB and kink, not LGB or kink.