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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Assigned at birth" - challenging it at school

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FacebookPhotos · 24/06/2022 08:53

Has anyone successfully challenged the use of this terminology in a school? I teach science in a secondary school and I've just overheard a non-science teacher explaining to children in PSHE that biological sex is assigned at birth. I need to challenge it, but wondered if anyone has managed to get that particular terminology changed.

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achillestoes · 24/06/2022 09:00

I haven’t. To be honest, I don’t think this terminology is the main obstacle to educating children in accurate scientific terms. Sex kind of is assigned - you or a doctor observe the physical characteristics of the newborn, and you say “girl” or “boy”. What is important is that young people understand that sex is binary and immutable, and that gender identity is a belief, not an objective fact.

BootsAndRoots · 24/06/2022 09:01

Sex is assigned at conception, with the X or Y chromosome of the sperm deciding the sex of the person.

Sex is then recorded/observed at birth.

KittenKong · 24/06/2022 09:02

I’d ask how exactly this magical coin toss happens.

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:04

biological sex is assigned at birth.

Whats to challenge about this? Biological sex is assigned at birth. It is also true that rarely a baby is assigned the wrong sex due to intersex genetic disorders. So saying “assigned” is accurate because at birth the sex is assigned based on physiology, not genetics.

achillestoes · 24/06/2022 09:16

It’s so important to emphasise that ‘rarely’ and ‘wrongly’, as in, a child might wrongly be assigned female when they are male or vice versa, but they will never sit ‘somewhere in the middle’, however they appear. And it’s rare.

dolorsit · 24/06/2022 09:16

The terms AFAB and AMAB were originally used by people with certain DSDs who had ambiguous/ atypical genitals at birth.

The doctors identified their sex but then assigned them a sex on the basis of what plastic surgery/drugs could do to "normalise" the children's bodies.

Parents were then encouraged to lie to their children about their origins.

When it emerged that the research that this was based on was falsified the people who had endured unnecessary cosmetic surgery coined the phrase assigned at birth to describe what was done to them.

I find the wide spread use of assigned at birth to be appropriation of the worst kind which obscures the terrible way children were treated.

Incidentally, many of the doctors were horrified when they discovered that the evidence used to justify this treatment was falsified. They genuinely believed that this treatment was best practice.

Apologies for the rant.

NumberTheory · 24/06/2022 09:19

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:04

biological sex is assigned at birth.

Whats to challenge about this? Biological sex is assigned at birth. It is also true that rarely a baby is assigned the wrong sex due to intersex genetic disorders. So saying “assigned” is accurate because at birth the sex is assigned based on physiology, not genetics.

This is incorrect because it looks at biological sex as something that depends upon what the doctor decides when someone is born. But your sex doesn’t depend on that, your sex is developed by the egg and sperm that make you. On the few occasions that doctors get it wrong with some of the rarer DSDs they aren’t assigning you a biological sex, they are recording an incorrect sex as your legal sex on your birth certificate.. Your biological sex is whatever it is whether the doctor gets it right or wrong on the birth certificate. If at a later sage it’s discovered you have a DSD and actually the doctor got your sex wrong, your biological sex doesn’t change, its your knowledge about your biology that changes.

ValerieDoonican · 24/06/2022 09:26

I think it is important to challenge because it opens the way to a misleading line of argument that our sex is controlled by human decisions IE, - if sex can become m or f by the decision (ie based like other decisions, on informed choice) of an HCP when we are born, then by logical extension, as children, teens or adults we can make a different decision using different information and therefore literally change sex.

Using the word "assigned" implies that sex is in the fiift of the HCP, which is obviously nonsense.

Therefore, using "assigned" is misleading, and could harm children, by encouraging them to belive things that can never be true.

ValerieDoonican · 24/06/2022 09:30

So I guess I would argue that the school needs to protect children from the harm of not understanding what biological sex is.

NumberTheory · 24/06/2022 09:31

OP it’s difficult to know te best way to approach this as it will depend a lot on you and your school. But could you try something along the lines of concerned about inaccurate terminology. Say that biological sex is determined at conception by biology and can’t be assigned by a person and you think the term “assigned at birth is very misleading and scientifically unsupported. Biological sex is observed at birth (very occasionally incorrectly) and from that observation legal sex is assigned by the registrar and gender by society. ?

FemmeNatal · 24/06/2022 09:34

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:04

biological sex is assigned at birth.

Whats to challenge about this? Biological sex is assigned at birth. It is also true that rarely a baby is assigned the wrong sex due to intersex genetic disorders. So saying “assigned” is accurate because at birth the sex is assigned based on physiology, not genetics.

I think you are maybe confused here. Assigned implies a choice. Maybe a committee deciding what sex your child should be, or something like a sorting hat.

As others have written, it’s observed. We knew the sex of our children before birth based on both observation and genetic testing. No-one did any assigning.

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:41

NumberTheory · 24/06/2022 09:19

This is incorrect because it looks at biological sex as something that depends upon what the doctor decides when someone is born. But your sex doesn’t depend on that, your sex is developed by the egg and sperm that make you. On the few occasions that doctors get it wrong with some of the rarer DSDs they aren’t assigning you a biological sex, they are recording an incorrect sex as your legal sex on your birth certificate.. Your biological sex is whatever it is whether the doctor gets it right or wrong on the birth certificate. If at a later sage it’s discovered you have a DSD and actually the doctor got your sex wrong, your biological sex doesn’t change, its your knowledge about your biology that changes.

No it doesn’t. “Assigned” means to have given something to someone, which then implies it can be re-assigned in future if the term given later proves to be wrong or a bad decision. “Assigned” doesn’t mean that biological sex is thereby determined. Assigned and determined are two completely different words with different meanings. Biological sex is determined by genetics.

ZandathePanda · 24/06/2022 09:42

This is why gender ideology is like a religion, a belief system. I was a biology teacher but content I was teaching clashed with passages in the bible that the RE teacher was teaching. The pupils were used to getting mixed messages. I would be very clear that gender was a social construct and this is what this ideology believes. However, back in the factual and scientific world…..

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:43

FemmeNatal · 24/06/2022 09:34

I think you are maybe confused here. Assigned implies a choice. Maybe a committee deciding what sex your child should be, or something like a sorting hat.

As others have written, it’s observed. We knew the sex of our children before birth based on both observation and genetic testing. No-one did any assigning.

Im not the one confused here. The newborn is observed and then a sex is assigned based on those observations. And of course there is choice, you can choose to assign M or F.

HipTightOnions · 24/06/2022 09:47

The newborn is observed and then a sex is assigned based on those observations

No, the sex of the baby already exists independently of anyone doing any "assigning".

IcakethereforeIam · 24/06/2022 09:49

So, if a doctor or midwife observes a baby with a penis and testicles they can choose to assign it as female? Forgive me, I'm not trying to be obtuse, I'm trying to follow your reasoning.

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:50

HipTightOnions · 24/06/2022 09:47

The newborn is observed and then a sex is assigned based on those observations

No, the sex of the baby already exists independently of anyone doing any "assigning".

FFS, of course sex exists from conception. But in many cases you have no fucking idea if it’s a boy or a girl until after birth. Assigning sex merely means formally naming what is already there. The act of “assigning” is not an act of creation.

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:52

IcakethereforeIam · 24/06/2022 09:49

So, if a doctor or midwife observes a baby with a penis and testicles they can choose to assign it as female? Forgive me, I'm not trying to be obtuse, I'm trying to follow your reasoning.

Yes you’re deliberately being obtuse. As we all know boy or girl have different physiological features and the assignment of sex will depend observation of those features. However, in rare cases, what looks like a girl may in fact be genetically a boy or even more rarely, vice versa.

MrsOwainGlyndŵr · 24/06/2022 09:54

BootsAndRoots · 24/06/2022 09:01

Sex is assigned at conception, with the X or Y chromosome of the sperm deciding the sex of the person.

Sex is then recorded/observed at birth.

This ^

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:54

Say that biological sex is determined at conception by biology and can’t be assigned by a person and you think the term “assigned at birth is very misleading and scientifically unsupported. Biological sex is observed at birth (very occasionally incorrectly) and from that observation legal sex is assigned by the registrar and gender by society. ?

Yes biological sex is determined by genetics from conception
Sex is observed at birth and assigned by the HCP attending
The registrar merely records the sex assigned at birth on the birth certificate (they do not assign).

IStandWithMaya · 24/06/2022 09:57

Sex is not assigned. It is noted.

FemmeNatal · 24/06/2022 10:00

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:43

Im not the one confused here. The newborn is observed and then a sex is assigned based on those observations. And of course there is choice, you can choose to assign M or F.

No, when my son was born no-one could have chosen to “assign” his sex. They could have lied and claimed he was female, but his sex is defined completely by the developmental path he followed in-utero. He developed towards the support for small gametes, hi is XY. No-one in the room when he was born had any ability to influence what sex he was. That was set in stone many months before.

Your view would imply that the actual sex was open to question, that my normal, healthy properly-formed boy could have been changed to being female by the doctor.

What then, he’d have just had to accept that he was a chick with a dick, that he’d been assigned female, and that was that?

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 10:01

IStandWithMaya · 24/06/2022 09:57

Sex is not assigned. It is noted.

No it is assigned because there is a value judgement going on to guide the choice of M or F. “Noted” merely means to record what is given to you. It doesn’t cover the decision making process.

FemmeNatal · 24/06/2022 10:01

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 09:50

FFS, of course sex exists from conception. But in many cases you have no fucking idea if it’s a boy or a girl until after birth. Assigning sex merely means formally naming what is already there. The act of “assigning” is not an act of creation.

Maybe English isn’t your first language (it’s not mine either), but no, that’s not what assign means. The word you are looking for is “observed.”

FemmeNatal · 24/06/2022 10:03

Discovereads · 24/06/2022 10:01

No it is assigned because there is a value judgement going on to guide the choice of M or F. “Noted” merely means to record what is given to you. It doesn’t cover the decision making process.

There was no decision-making process. My son was observed to be a boy.