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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Waitrose delivery driver

633 replies

MsMoorhead · 09/06/2022 08:16

Kellie Jay-Keen reported by her Waitrose delivery driver!

OP posts:
PurgatoryOfPotholes · 09/06/2022 23:49

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:25

in an abusive transphobic attack

there finished your sentence for you.

To which the driver's response was...? Oh yes, to "take [their] time" over leaving.

Something doesn't add up here...

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:53

SpringBadger · 09/06/2022 23:42

"Clear-cut misgendering", officer! And we are the ones called pearl-clutchers...

I have a question - so bloody what?

If a burglar wakes me in the middle of the night and asks me if I think they're a man or a woman, do I forfeit my rights if I give an answer they don't like?

For that matter, if I refuse to leave someone's property and they (for whatever reason) tell me they think I look like a man, or that I'm not the fairest of them all - well, so what? "You won't believe what this rude customer said about me, when I confronted her about her views, her children, and, towering over her, refused to leave her doorstep"...

If I'm confronted in a supposedly safe space by an aggressive male, am I asking for it if I refuse to tell them what they want to hear?

The trespassing delivery driver has an incel-level sense of entitlement. They need to take the enormous plank out of their own eye first, get over themselves and accept that other people have their own eyes, ears, mouths and thoughts. And rights. They might even find they enjoy life more when they stop patrolling the doorsteps of disobedient women.

Love the Russian propaganda post followed by such a clear example of shameless willingness to disseminate partial truths or outright fictions.

chilling19 · 09/06/2022 23:54

'It seems to me that KJK signs did invite comment'
Seriously?

People have all sorts of signs on their doors or windows or whatever - you know like rainbows.

What we don't expect is a delivery driver, who is delivering goods that we paid for, to comment.

Waitrose - you really need to sort this out. Your staff are there to deliver stuff, and that is it.

SpringBadger · 09/06/2022 23:56

Discovereads, how dare you? I've taken issue with things you have said - you respond to none of my points but simply call me a shameless liar.

Datun · 09/06/2022 23:57

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:46

From what she says, it started when he decided to take exception to her slogan.

Have another listen. KJK states that she asked her what the signs meant. Asking a question is not taking exception. And remember this is KJKs version of events. We don’t have the delivery drivers version of events at all.

Yes she was asked what they were, by someone who is in opposition to them, hence the determination to use her daughter's changing room, and she responded.

And remember this is KJKs version of events. We don’t have the delivery drivers version of events at all.

Correct.

Honestly Discovereads. Posie's entire MO is about correctly identifying the male sex.

Do you really think that you understanding that, knowing that he refused to leave promptly, knowing that he said he was going to share the same changing room as her daughter and there's nothing she can do about it - you knowing all that but still claiming the most awful aspect of the entire scenario is her not willingly calling him female, doesn't look, at the very least, rather extreme?

chilling19 · 09/06/2022 23:57

SpringBadger · 09/06/2022 23:56

Discovereads, how dare you? I've taken issue with things you have said - you respond to none of my points but simply call me a shameless liar.

Don't engage lovey. Not worth it.

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:58

chilling19 · 09/06/2022 23:47

There is no law against misgendering. There is a law against being harassed on your doorstep.

Deliberate misgendering is a form of harrassment.

Datun · 10/06/2022 00:00

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:58

Deliberate misgendering is a form of harrassment.

How does that even fly? She tried several times to get him to leave, even swearing at him. And even then, he dragged his heels. 🙄

NecessaryScene · 10/06/2022 00:02

Deliberate misgendering is a form of harrassment.

Demanding people lie about your sex is a form of harassment.

SpringBadger · 10/06/2022 00:03

chilling19 · 09/06/2022 23:57

Don't engage lovey. Not worth it.

Thank you, you're quite right. That was just shocking to me - I wouldn't speak to anyone here differently to how I would if we were all down the pub, even if I might debate robustly. I shall follow your counsel, keep to civil society and even perhaps go to bed.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:03

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chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:04

Discovereads - misgendering is not harassment. Doesn't matter how much you wish it wasn't so, it isn't.

Cailleach1 · 10/06/2022 00:05

So, all this conversation happened when the long haired, delivery driver had dropped off the delivery and for some reason they decided to hang around and start making remarks to the customer about their business.

They only need to access someone's property to drop the delivery off, and then leave. Is part of the Waitrose delivery service for the delivery driver (long haired or not) to query you about your business and loiter when you ask them to leave? The 'I will be using the same space as your daughter' remark seems designed to creep the customer out. This was after KJK has pointed it makes many women feel uncomfortable.

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:06

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😂😂😂😂 - give it up love. You are boring us now.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:06

you knowing all that but still claiming the most awful aspect of the entire scenario is her not willingly calling him female,

Fiction. Made no such claim.

Datun · 10/06/2022 00:13

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:06

you knowing all that but still claiming the most awful aspect of the entire scenario is her not willingly calling him female,

Fiction. Made no such claim.

Eh? Calling him male is exactly her not calling him female.

Isn't it?

<peers round nervously>

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:16

Cailleach1 · 10/06/2022 00:05

So, all this conversation happened when the long haired, delivery driver had dropped off the delivery and for some reason they decided to hang around and start making remarks to the customer about their business.

They only need to access someone's property to drop the delivery off, and then leave. Is part of the Waitrose delivery service for the delivery driver (long haired or not) to query you about your business and loiter when you ask them to leave? The 'I will be using the same space as your daughter' remark seems designed to creep the customer out. This was after KJK has pointed it makes many women feel uncomfortable.

Let me tell you about a Waitrose delivery. The groceries are not bagged, so you take them from the green crates on the doorstep inside in armfuls and this takes a few minutes. So you normally have a bit of chit chat with the driver. The whole conversation that KJK relates could be done in under 5 mins. After the delivery is done, they have to put the crates back in the back of the van. Then they usually sit in the van and process any refunds due to you (if you refused any poor quality items or substitutions) and to set their GPS for the next delivery before they set off.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:18

Discovereads · 09/06/2022 23:58

Deliberate misgendering is a form of harrassment.

However one's unwanted presence on someone's doorstep and driveway is just what, flattery?

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:18

Discovereads - still going? Not going to convince the feminist board lovey.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:18

Datun · 10/06/2022 00:13

Eh? Calling him male is exactly her not calling him female.

Isn't it?

<peers round nervously>

I see I will have to be specific: “claiming that the most awful aspect of the entire scenario” is not a claim I made. So, that’s a fiction.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:19

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:18

Discovereads - still going? Not going to convince the feminist board lovey.

Don’t care. Not my objective.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:23

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:18

However one's unwanted presence on someone's doorstep and driveway is just what, flattery?

Well she was wanted though wasn’t she as KJK ordered for her groceries to be delivered by Waitrose to her doorstep. And after KJK told her to get off the property, she left.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 10/06/2022 00:25

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:19

Don’t care. Not my objective.

It appears your object is to convince us all that trans activists are totally without integrity and think their wishes supersede all other people's no matter the location, and that given this, negotiation with you is impossible.

Odd objective, but you're achieving it, definitely.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 00:26

chilling19 · 10/06/2022 00:04

Discovereads - misgendering is not harassment. Doesn't matter how much you wish it wasn't so, it isn't.

The U.K. EA Tribunal judgement I posted says otherwise. It says deliberate misgendering, specifically calling a transwoman a man, can be unlawful harrassment and possessing gender critical beliefs doesn’t protect a person from liability.

IcakethereforeIam · 10/06/2022 00:27

Why did KJK leave it was her house?

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