"Clear-cut misgendering", officer! And we are the ones called pearl-clutchers...
I have a question - so bloody what?
If a burglar wakes me in the middle of the night and asks me if I think they're a man or a woman, do I forfeit my rights if I give an answer they don't like?
For that matter, if I refuse to leave someone's property and they (for whatever reason) tell me they think I look like a man, or that I'm not the fairest of them all - well, so what? "You won't believe what this rude customer said about me, when I confronted her about her views, her children, and, towering over her, refused to leave her doorstep"...
If I'm confronted in a supposedly safe space by an aggressive male, am I asking for it if I refuse to tell them what they want to hear?
The trespassing delivery driver has an incel-level sense of entitlement. They need to take the enormous plank out of their own eye first, get over themselves and accept that other people have their own eyes, ears, mouths and thoughts. And rights. They might even find they enjoy life more when they stop patrolling the doorsteps of disobedient women.