Dd14 tells me she's going out tomorrow, I ask who, she tells me (I've changed names) Lucy, Beth, Sarah and Josh
I know of the girls but ask who is josh
She says oh it's my mate who you know as Laura, he's trans and goes by Josh
So. I feel bad because I feel like 20 years ago people were dismissive of people being gay etc and I don't want to be ignorant and transphobic. But, much against how I wish I felt, I find it hard to stop my eyes rolling a bit.
I don't want to be ignorant, and bigoted. It almost feels to me like the pure amount of people proclaiming to be trans almost makes a mockery out of those with genuine body dismorphia. Or do I just need to get a grip and realise it's not up to me to feel a certain way about how people identify
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How to react re children telling you about trans friends
plainwhitecheese · 23/05/2022 16:07
Afterfire · 23/05/2022 16:26
Don’t enter into any discussion. You don’t want to fall out with your dd about this and it isn’t your battle to be had - if they’re her friends that’s all that matters. My dd aged 19 has a whole group of trans friends and I just embrace it and go with it, we chat openly about it all but without judgement. Her Nan and Grandad have been very judgemental about it all and as a result she hardly speaks to them now. There’s no way I’m risking that happening to me!
Cheekymaw · 23/05/2022 16:44
Sorry my head is mince ,you have a son. Binders not such a concern for you. Make sure you discuss same sex spaces and how to promote safety and dignity for DS's female pals .
Eightiesfan · 23/05/2022 17:21
OP, I completely agree with the ridiculous number of school aged children (and adults) who have self-identified as trans. I also think it’s insulting to those who have body dysmorphia as they are treating being trans as a fashion accessory.
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