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Maya Forstater Tribunal March 2022- Thread 3

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Whatamesssss · 17/03/2022 16:43

Thread one, here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4498167-Maya-Forstater-hearing-starts-Monday

Thread two, here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4505825-Maya-Forstater-Tribunal-March-2022-Thread-2?pg=1

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Iknowitisheresomewhere · 21/03/2022 11:11

@nauticant

MA: I find it personally offensivee to imply as the leaflet does that allowing trans people to self identify to be women would lead to a risk of discomfort and threat for cis-women.
I mean this is truly jaw-dropping. He finds it offensive to imply that women prefer single sex spaces? Would he be happy undressing in front of a strange woman?
nauticant · 21/03/2022 11:12

MA: Part of it [the need to get rid of Maya] was the worsening of the relationships of within the management team.

LangificusClegasaurous · 21/03/2022 11:13

The worsening of relationships are demonstrably NOT Maya's fault

Zeugma · 21/03/2022 11:13

So MA's well and truly climbed aboard the 'offensive' train.... Hmm

nauticant · 21/03/2022 11:14

It isn't a significant change but what was actually said was more like "would lead to an increase in a risk of discomfort and threat for cis-women." Iknowitisheresomewhere

Pluvia · 21/03/2022 11:16

@LangificusClegasaurous

Did I get this right- he's saying it's offensive for women to think there's risks involved in giving up same-sex spaces, after he said he decided to get rid of Maya on the basis of a perceived risk, not a real event?
Yes, you got it right. It's astonishing.
PerkyBlinder · 21/03/2022 11:17

What's so heartbreaking is that years and years ago, women saw exactly what would happen and yet there's been all this 'offence' at merely suggesting that self ID will increase women's risks of being exposed to male genitalia etc in single sex spaces and yet nobody listened and now real offences happen where women are raped, flashed at - how much worse does it have to get before sense prevails? Now we have Wii Spa, Lia Thomas exposing himself, the NHS enabling rape on wards and then trying to deny it could happen and how many more?

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 21/03/2022 11:19

Agree, @PerkyBlinder.

None of us need a crystal ball to see the risk of a woman being harmed by a male predator or seriously assaulted by a TRA.

I'm listening to Mr Ahmed and all I can hear is a noise that sounds very like the 3 billy goat's gruff tripping into Ben Cooper's trap.

Zeugma · 21/03/2022 11:20

Exactly Perky

(and just realised that in a post earlier I said Lia Williams when I meant to say Lia Thomas)

WinterTrees · 21/03/2022 11:24

I think it's almost because male assaults on women are so common they're background noise to men like Mr Ahmed. Yeah, they happen all the time - no need to use that to say uncomfortable things about the most marginalised group ever.

Chrysanthemum5 · 21/03/2022 11:26

So May had to be removed because MA's senior team couldn't behave like adults, and MA couldn't show leadership and lead his team effectively? Because that seems to be what he's saying

Chrysanthemum5 · 21/03/2022 11:26

Maya not May (blooming autocorrect)

tabbycatstripy · 21/03/2022 11:28

MA: I can identify at least two other pages that I would find offensive. On p. (), I think there is implication that this would threaten ability of SSS to do their jobs, which I think creates this climate of fear. On p. (), there is implication that this would somehow lead to greater instances of women and girls who are born in female bodies... to be exposed to people who are in male bodies, and I think - again, I found this offensive.

BC: Okay. Why is it offensive for women and girls and FPFW (which argues on behalf of that group), why is it offensive for them to say they feel uncomfortable (or would) and that their dignity and privacy was undermined if they felt obliged to share a private space or service with male-bodied people?

MA: I don't find that offensive. I find it offensive to imply, as this does, that allowing transpeople to self-ID, and be women, would lead to an increased set of risks of discomfort for cis women. That's what I found and find offensive. I'm willing for people to hand this out outside, but I don't think it should be in the office and putting it amongst your colleagues.

BC: I don't understand. Am I misunderstanding? I heard you say it is not offensive for women and girls to be concerned about (the above), but that it is offensive for them to have concerns about that? Can you square that? I don't understand.

EJ: I recorded the answer as being that it is offensive to imply that allowing self-ID would lead to an increase in risks, threats and discomfort.

BC: Very well. If you agree that it is not offensive for women and girls to find it undermining of privacy etc to feel under pressure to share SSS with male-bodied people, then, doesn't it follow that it's not offensive to share their concerns about a change in the law which would - they believe - lead to such pressure?

MA: No, because it's not the same in my mind, because what you are doing there is implying that also, if more TW are able to self-ID, that makes the risks go up in ways that I just find the linkage to be offensive in making TW appear to be a threat.

BC: Do you not understand that one of the risks being identified is not a risk of TW attacking women, but a risk of the undermining of women's safety, dignity and privacy in and of itself?

MA: I understand that is being discussed.

BC: Let me suggest that even if you have discomfort about these arguments, if it is right that campaign lit in the office was normal at the time, there is nothing intrinsically improper about this? They are legit campaigning arguments.

MA: I disagree because in all the time I have been at CGD, and I haven't spent much time in London office, I have not seen anybody bringing in campaign lit on an issue that was as polarising for people as a social issue like this. I don't think it was usual. I can't speak with confidence about the London office because I wasn't present in the same way.

BC: Last reason is division at SPG level. That is the reason you gave MF?

MA: Y

BC: Let me suggest it was the actual reason.

MA: It was certainly a reason. Division and fractious, worsening of relationships in the leadership team, and I felt this was source of concern. I needed to get these people back to focusing on their work.

BC: Let's break down your approach. In the intro (para X), you refer to decision about VF as whether you should take an active decision to affiliate to CGD, and you say your view was that offering to renew VF was an act of 'commission'. Starting point would have been to renew the VF. Non-active default was not to renew.

MA: Y. It had lapsed. No action would have left things as they stood.

BC: So, if you say to do the active thing you need consensus, you are a) making it in practice a collective decision, not yours...

MA: I don't agree but okay.

BC: b) effectively handing a veto to the opponents of the active decision?

MA: N. Because I can give you many instances where I moved forward where a) I did not have consensus and b) I had a divided SPG.

BC: I'm interested in this one. You say offering to renew the VF did require consensus. In this instance, you said you needed consensus. That was an effective veto.

MA: As I say, sentence thereafter in same paragraph, I note that I have in mind all the other issues. As I said, no reason to assume that in this decision alone I would have applied consensus. Many of major decisions, I have (lost what he's saying here.)

BC: On Friday, you said decision would have been same regardless of lack of consensus, because of risk of repeat.

MA: Actually what I think I said was that if there had been reluctant... consensus, then I would not have gone ahead because I would have had pause and still have come out with same decision.

BC: But again, reason you gave for coming out with same decision was your suggestion that there was a risk of repeat and issue cropping up again?

MA: And consequences that would flow.

BC: No factual basis for that position (as MF had already indicated the opposite). No factual basis for thinking that, did you?

MA: Had to make a judgment about balance of risks. So you're right - no factual evidence. But I saw my role as being able to look ahead and think about risks to org.

BC: Again, the reason you didn't mention this at the time and can't point to evidence is because it wasn't really a factor, was it?

MA: Reason I can't provide a factual basis is because there wasn't one. I didn't want to get embroiled in a long conversation. I wanted to give a couple of reasons, and then to talk about what came next. I didn't see it as an occasion to discuss all the risks.

BC: Real reason was EM and others made clear they wouldn't change their mind. It was a collective decision driven by opposition.

MA: You can keep saying that. I certainly took on board the lack of consensus and more than that, the degree of fractured relationships, but that point, alone would not have been sufficient.

BC: Bundle.

MA: MF sent email after your call, asking for you to confirm understanding of discussion.

BC: You understood she was making an allegation of being turned down because of her beliefs?

MA: Y

BC: You thought she was litigious?

MA: I worried yes.

BC: As did EM?

MA: Y

BC: suggested lawyers take over?

OD: Sorry?

MA: Yes.

BC: Don't want to know about that discussion, but upshot was you sent email to MF.

MA: Y

BC: And if you look at p (), the attitude behind that short email was (MP) 'send it and see what happens'. EM says send ASAP.

MA: Y

BC: I'm suggesting the attitude behind the short email was send it and we'll see what happens.

MA: That's what MP says.

BC: That attitude reflects clear understanding that email in those terms would make future relationship impossible?

MA: Disagree. I asked MP to follow up on the consultancy. Email was a result of conversations with the lawyers. Their advice... the outcome was that I was to draft email to send. No way in my mind was this equivalent of asking MP not to continue conversations about the consultancy.

BC: If you had intended him to take that forward, you would not have written 'Thank you for your contribution to CGD and CGDE over last two and a half years.' You would have written 'We hope you will continue' etc.

MA: Could have done, you can argue about whether it would have been better. But this was email as a result of a process involving our legal advisors. Didn't want to micromanage.

BC: Bundle. This is report to Board in April 2017. Summarising position from 2016. Says under heading CGDE Board of Trustees: delegates management to SPG, enabling integratino of CGDE. It was always an integrated management structure.

MA: That was intention. What I found was that it was uneven and a bit less structured than I would have liked. Whole purpose was moving on with clarity. Also asking AG in 2019 to take over as CEO of CGDE. Whole process to turn this concept into operational reality.

BC: You reinforced that as soon as you arrived?

MA: Took me through late summer of 2017 to get a sense of what was happening. Really began to be applied 2018.

SpinningTheSeedsOfLove · 21/03/2022 11:29

I think Ben Cooper's closing statement tomorrow is going to be significant.

Juggins2 · 21/03/2022 11:32

I agree @SpinningTheSeedsOfLove. I wish it could be taped and publicised! Obv there are restrictions but seems sad to be lost forever when it will be a significant statement and we'll all be cheering along.

I've got my mum to watch too. Had to bribe her with kitten cuddles 😺

Theeyeballsinthefuckingsky · 21/03/2022 11:32

Im just trying to imagine all work decisions being taken apart by Ben cooper on a witness stand

I think there needs to be something introduced called the “cooper competence” ie would I look a right tit trying to defend this in court

PoshPyjamas · 21/03/2022 11:33

I think Ben Cooper's closing statement tomorrow is going to be significant

Me too. So much of what he's saying feels unsayable to me at the moment (as a woman who works in a university). So to hear him condense all that, so articulately, and so apparently without fear... priceless.

tabbycatstripy · 21/03/2022 11:33

BC: Bundle. From report to Board of CGDE Nov 2017. p. (), reports to Board present things truthfully?

MA: Y

BC: One CGD - operates... (reads long explanation very fast - implication is One CGD as of Nov 2017).

MA: That was principle but reality something else but that was principle.

BC: Let's not split hairs. I'm suggesting the organisation was basically a single international think tank?

MA: Y

BC: As far as you could, it operated like that?

MA: That was how things worked much of the time but not all. Struck me in middle of 2017 that one of our funders received competing funding proposals for overlapping work. Not co-ordinated. Made us look unco-ordinated. I took that seriously. Needed a unified management structure.

BC: Fine, but by 2017 you had been pushing for this unification.

MA: Y

BC: You had made Europe team aware that they reported to you and SPG?

MA: Y to me but not about SPG. They always reported to the President. Question was how far that was operational.

BC: SPG included members from Washington and London.

MA: Y

BC: Strategy was global.

MA: Y

BC: Understand there were mistakes, but in practice and theory, it was fairly advanced by 2017?

MA: N. On a variety of fronts, people did not know what financial position was at any given time etc. It was more widespread and structural in terms of not being applied than the odd anomaly.

tabbycatstripy · 21/03/2022 11:34

I got disconnected...

WearyLady · 21/03/2022 11:34

And me.

tabbycatstripy · 21/03/2022 11:34

We all did.

Whatamesssss · 21/03/2022 11:34

Me too I think it's the 10 min break now.

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tabbycatstripy · 21/03/2022 11:35

BREAK.

Bloody hell, my hands. :)

Pluvia · 21/03/2022 11:35

I didn't!

AlisonDonut · 21/03/2022 11:36

What I still don't get it they can make decisions based on perceived risk, and yet we [as women, as voters, as citizens of UK] are not allowed to even mention that we want to make decisions based on actual risk.

Actual, documented, court based, risk. The risk of males and their violence towards women.