Would belligerent, woman-hating men please ask other men, instead of other women, to "be kind" to them? Fellow men can "be kind" in hospital wards, in prisons, in changing rooms and in single-sex toilets.
Some hulking bearded men like to wear conventional men's clothes and live a conventional manly life, including in some well known cases, being repeat rapists of women (or children), yet still say "magic words" to declare themselves not to be men at all. Others like to attempt to pass themselves off as women by using drag.
In the cases where a man in women's clothes needs to enter a toilet, prison, hospital ward, or changing room, he must take the risk that other men might give him a curious glance of surprise, which he might choose to interpret as "unkind".
But at least he is completely safe, knowing his fellow men will not make any sexual moves towards him; because most men almost never make unwanted sexual advances, do they?
But in any case, he has the extra, inbuilt, security guard of his own manly strength, developed over his entire previous life and as the non-erasable result of having every cell of his body 'xy'.
If one man is so "unkind" as to attempt unwanted touching of a fellow man, (however one or both are attired) they would each have their manly equality of physical strength to fight one another off.
In the extreme case, where perhaps several men ganged up to hurt a fellow man (no matter how any of them are dressed) then the assaulted man would certainly not become pregnant, and would have more chance of being strong enough to survive alive.
Therefore, those with 'xy' chromosomes, are at all times and everywhere have little or nothing to fear from their fellow men.
In contrast, everywhere and all the time, those with 'xx' chromosomes have a great deal to fear from men : Wearing dresses or wearing penguin suits, they are still 'xx'