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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Don’t bother applying for a job if you think people can’t change sex, NHS trust tells health official

532 replies

MidCenturyClegs · 25/02/2022 07:29

uk.news.yahoo.com/don-t-bother-applying-job-162233187.html

The wonderful Kate Grimes expressed interest in a non-exec position at the Tavi this year and was told to not waste her time as she holds gender critical beliefs. Peter Daly has been employed. Wow!

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OldCrone · 01/03/2022 12:25

@Lekisa658

“We won't be changing how we define ourselves”

The problem isn't about how you define yourselves, the problem is that you insist that it's you have a "right" to define and restrict others.

If we have no right to define and restrict others, that also applies to you.

You have no right to call women 'cis' which implies an acceptance of and identification with gender stereotypes.

We define 'woman' as 'adult female human'. Males can never be women (or female, obviously).

If males start defining themselves as women that affects actual women (of the adult female human variety). So I hope you will now respect our right to define ourselves and stop saying that males can be women.

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:25

“Can we have a "non trans" "non cis" identity label please?”

"Cis" literally means "non-trans".

This is like not taking the Covid vaccine and asking for a label that is neither "vaccinated" nor "unvaccinated".

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:27

“There is this thing called society, Lekisa, that has to work for everyone, and balance everyone's rights.”

There was once a time where the majority of white people felt strongly they had a right to separate spaces from those who weren't white, and opposed the push to change that.

The other groups, they argued, were more dangerous and statistically committed more violent crime, and were a threat to vulnerable white children.

How do you feel that should've been "balanced"? Was it making white people "support humans" and infringing on their "rights" to force them to include those who weren't white?

Was it unfair to white athletes to force them to compete against non-white athletes, taking away their rightful prizes?

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:30

“You have no right to call women 'cis' which implies an acceptance of and identification with gender stereotypes.”

It doesn't.

The one and only thing "cis" implies is that you were designated female at birth, and call yourself a woman.

That's it. Nothing else. There's no any other "implication". Anything else is entirely imagined on your part.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2022 12:30

Here we go again with the back to front, inaccurate analogies.

Beowulfa · 01/03/2022 12:32

Lekisa, single sex changing rooms aren't apartheid. It's so girls and women don't have to be exposed to men's cocks. It's really not complicated or controversial.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2022 12:32

Males have oppressed female people through history, not the other way round. The patriarchy hasn't gone anywhere, this is yet another way women are dismissed.

fruitbat987 · 01/03/2022 12:32

No baby is "designated" anything at birth. The sex of a baby is simply observed.

AlisonDonut · 01/03/2022 12:32

You want to force trans women to conform to the role of a "man", no matter how miserable or suicidal it makes them.

Isn't the role of a man to, basically, be a sperm producer? Carry round a prostate? I mean, apart from being male, which is what makes a man, a man, is this whole 'role of a man' thing?

Genuinely confused as to your point. Are you saying that if a female transitions to be a man, then they cannot ever assume a role of a woman which basically means no trans man can ever gestate children?

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:34

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Here we go again with the back to front, inaccurate analogies.
“The form of discrimination I support is different from the other forms of discrimination, in that the form of discrimination I support is actually good, because it's the form of discrimination I support. ”
OldCrone · 01/03/2022 12:34

The one and only thing "cis" implies is that you were designated female at birth, and call yourself a woman.

If you are female and an adult, you are a woman. Not a 'cis woman'. All women are female. 'Transwomen' are male, therefore they are not women.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2022 12:34

This is like not taking the Covid vaccine and asking for a label that is neither "vaccinated" nor "unvaccinated".

Yes, you said that already. It's nonsense, because if "cis" just meant trans, I wouldn't be required to buy into your ideological worldview, which I don't. A "trans woman" and a "cis woman" would both be of the sex which produces large gametes. Female.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2022 12:35

if "cis" just meant not* trans

NecessaryScene · 01/03/2022 12:35

“The form of discrimination I support is different from the other forms of discrimination, in that the form of discrimination I support is actually good, because it's the form of discrimination I support. ”

Coming from someone who advocates gender-based discrimination, for no obvious reason.

OldCrone · 01/03/2022 12:36

The problem isn't about how you define yourselves, the problem is that you insist that it's you have a "right" to define and restrict others.

The one and only thing "cis" implies is that you were designated female at birth, and call yourself a woman.

Do you not see the contradiction here @Lekisa658?

You do not have a right to define me. I am not 'cis'.

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:36

@fruitbat987

No baby is "designated" anything at birth. The sex of a baby is simply observed.
The only thing that's being observed is the genitals. The categories are assigned based on what genitals are observed.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2022 12:36

A vaccine is a material thing. You take it or you don't. Gender identity ideology is not a material thing, it's a particularly biased worldview that I don't subscribe to.

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:37

@OldCrone

The one and only thing "cis" implies is that you were designated female at birth, and call yourself a woman.

If you are female and an adult, you are a woman. Not a 'cis woman'. All women are female. 'Transwomen' are male, therefore they are not women.

Not one has to abide by your bioessentialist terminology and definitions.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2022 12:38

The categories are assigned based on what genitals are observed.

Why are they generally "assigned" correctly? How is this knowledge gained to do this just by "observing the genitals"?

Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:38

*No one

OldCrone · 01/03/2022 12:38

@AlisonDonut

You want to force trans women to conform to the role of a "man", no matter how miserable or suicidal it makes them.

Isn't the role of a man to, basically, be a sperm producer? Carry round a prostate? I mean, apart from being male, which is what makes a man, a man, is this whole 'role of a man' thing?

Genuinely confused as to your point. Are you saying that if a female transitions to be a man, then they cannot ever assume a role of a woman which basically means no trans man can ever gestate children?

Lekisa does seem to be advocating sterilisation for trans people in order to live in the 'role' of the opposite sex.
Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:39

@Ereshkigalangcleg

The categories are assigned based on what genitals are observed.

Why are they generally "assigned" correctly? How is this knowledge gained to do this just by "observing the genitals"?

What do you mean "correctly"? The categories themselves are made up by humans. And the existence of trans people shows that these categories are in fact often rejected.
Lekisa658 · 01/03/2022 12:40

@NecessaryScene

“The form of discrimination I support is different from the other forms of discrimination, in that the form of discrimination I support is actually good, because it's the form of discrimination I support. ”

Coming from someone who advocates gender-based discrimination, for no obvious reason.

Where did I advocate for such discrimination?
NecessaryScene · 01/03/2022 12:41

The categories themselves are made up by humans. And the existence of trans people shows that these categories are in fact often rejected.

What are you rejecting, exactly? If it's "made up", why not just change what it means?

NecessaryScene · 01/03/2022 12:41

Where did I advocate for such discrimination?

You insist that "women" gendered people should be kept apart from "men" gendered people.

So "transwomen" should not compete against "men" in sport, for example.