@floralembroidery
Don't get why people are so keen to see comedians who are basically misogynists? I see enough comments on Twitter for free full of misogynistic crap, I don't feel the slightest inclination to actually pay someone to make those same comments, just because they're a 'name' comedian.
I like my comedians to be funny. Misogyny isn't funny. Ergo I don't go to see misogynist comedians. Same reason I don't go to see racist comedians. I have no desire to be open minded about racism any more than I do about misogyny. AFAIC, normalising misogyny and financially rewarding misogynists for spreading anti-women propaganda is not something I want to be part of. Why would I pay to hear myself and women in general abused? 
I think this depends on how you view comedy - whether it's something to make you snurk, or an art form. Both are true.
I am fascinated by the "punching down" argument that prevents trans issues being put in sets by comedians and gets talented people cancelled and others stifled.
Chapelle wasn't funny (IMO), he told a very lovely story about a TW friend which was sympathetic and not funny, but he was roundly attacked - by a bunch of people who refused to watch his set. It's insane, nothing should be verboten.
I don't think anything should be out of bounds for comedians. You just have to be very, very good to make appalling things funny.
So that's why I like seeing misogynist comedians - not because I enjoy hearing the anti-woman propaganda, but because I enjoy the skill of them building a joke round it. I hadn't thought about it, but I laugh at things that I don't agree with because I'm enjoying the skill of finding a punchline that works - which is very different from a punch.
Plus, if I'm totally honest - the "other side" are a bunch of humourless oiks. No self deprecation allowed, everything is very serious and levity is seen as a threat. I don't want to be that. I don't want to be in a silo.
I'm a feminist, I use MN, but I did laugh at Mary Bourke's observations about this place. She wasn't wrong, it was well written and I found it funny.