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I've had this conversation with male friends who cannot believe that I can tell people's sex from the way they get out of a car half way across a supermarket on a foggy day.
These male friends do not recognise that I come from a long line of women who avoided MVAWG at least as long enough to breed. Every single one of my great grandmothers managed to not get murdered before she had a baby.
My assumption is that my male friends don't really LOOK at women. They only see tits and teeth, not a person's whole.
It's gross.
I wish I wasn't a heterosexual because men are just so fucking disappointing
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"Perhaps the question I’m asking will be clearer if I frame it differently: what observable trait (ie not just a ‘feeling’) do these people have that make them not women? I had assumed that the basis for segregation was on a quantifiable, biological, observable and specific difference between men and women - it was why I subscribed to this ideology in the first place. Is this correct?"
You seem unclear about what an ideology is. An ideology is, by definition, not quantifiable, biological observable or specific difference between men and women.
You also seem unclear about what a question is. What you asked me there is a different question to your original one, not the same question reframed.
Compare it to my crystal clear understanding of what a man is.
Your confusion about what a man is is of no consequence to me. I can see maleness instantly and I am never wrong. I am 90% likely to recognise risk from a male.
I had these skills in place by the time I was 12, so I have used them for well over 40 years to keep myself (mostly) safe from male sexual predators.
If you can't understand the multiple replies to your question that women have taken the time to post on here to help you out, well, that's a shame. But it doesn't change the fact that I see sex and I see it instantly and a male does not go unnoticed in my presence and that is not impacted by how that male regards himself.
If it is a male in my toilet it doesn't really matter that I see his sex. He doesn't see me at all. He is too busy admiring his tits and teeth in the mirror and believing himself to be pulling the wool over the eyes of all the silly ladies who don't realise that he's got a chub on.
We do.
We avert our gaze, we wash our hands, we don't make a fuss and we leave with a neutral face.
He is using me to support his fetish of "passing" or "shocking" or "provoking" women. He's getting aroused by his transgression.
It's boring as fuck.