How rude! Her girlfriends won't participate in her spouse's kink.

[Fimofriend]

A woman complaining on Reddit because her girlfriends and the 8-year-old daughter of one of her girlfriends won't participate in fetishist role-play with her the transwoman she is married to.
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/sjyfid/aita_for_excluding_my_wife_and_hanging_out_w_my/

@Isthatthebestyoucando

What’s with the pillow fights? I’ve seen that mentioned a few times. Is that even a specifically female thing?

It’s a specifically male “teenage girl lesbian sex fantasy” thing. Female college students having pillow fights and then falling into bed together. Grim. Like suggesting your female friends all meet up and wash some cars in white t-shirts/no bras.

Sorry, can someone tell me, YTA and AITA what do they mean?

AITA - Am I The Asshole (like Am I Being Unreasonable here)
YTA - You (are) The Asshole

My brothers and I had pillow fights. If we had friends staying overnight and we all got into sleeping bags and slept on the floor of the largest room, then occasionally we'd have a pillow fight, but I never had a pillow fight with just a girl or girls. Always boys there too. They probably instigated it. And the oldest would have been no more then 8. After that it was considered just silly.

I hope the reddit post isn't real but maybe I'm wishful thinking. Yes they are being the arsehole

I never had a pillow fight with just a girl or girls. Always boys there too. They probably instigated it.
I had the same experience, so you could say that pillow fights are actually a little boy's thing. Take note, girlhood fetishizers.

The other abbreviation is ESH: Everyone Sucks Here

We had a transwoman here once who freely admitted they identified as trans because they wanted to be like the 'cool girls' in Hollywood movies.

I think it's fairly common.