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14th October 'Nolan Investigates' podcast - Stonewall?

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Helleofabore · 13/10/2021 11:11

This sounds interesting.

A special ‘Nolan Investigates’ podcast drops tomorrow afternoon on @BBCSounds. An 18 month investigation into the influence of a lobby group on public bodies throughout the UK. More details in the morning

It seems to be about Stonewall.

Anyone know more about it?

There is some chatter about it on Twitter.

twitter.com/stephennolan/status/1448052827088109568?s=21

twitter.com/janeclarejones/status/1448205588253618176?s=21

(Tweet from JCJ says:

Okay, at last, here it is.

The BBC Ulster documentary on the influence of Stonewall on public life in the UK.

Many GC women have been interviewed for this.

Let's take the lid off this thing shall we?

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OldCrone · 25/10/2021 20:05

As he was the UK's first non-binary mayor, I tried to see which political party he stood for but couldn't find it.

He was originally a member of Plaid Cymru, but after harassing Helen Mary Jones (then a Plaid MS) in the run up to the Senedd elections in May, he left the party.

More background here:

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/owen-hurcum-is-a-vicious-male-bully

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SteakExpectations · 25/10/2021 21:42

[quote OldCrone]As he was the UK's first non-binary mayor, I tried to see which political party he stood for but couldn't find it.

He was originally a member of Plaid Cymru, but after harassing Helen Mary Jones (then a Plaid MS) in the run up to the Senedd elections in May, he left the party.

More background here:

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/owen-hurcum-is-a-vicious-male-bully[/quote]
Thank you for the link: a very interesting, yet depressing read!

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Triphazards · 25/10/2021 22:14

Hurcum's pearls of wisdom about the validity of "gender fuck" identities must have convinced all reasonable people of... something.

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seethesuninwintertime · 25/10/2021 23:09

Oh.
That rather puts a different spin on it. :(

Still I did learn stuff esp. the idea that this is a “community” identity, etc.

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LobsterNapkin · 26/10/2021 02:18

This is such a tricky issue... if I were to employ someone (I have done before but currently don't) then my main criteria would be to have logical person capable of looking at facts and interpreting them (and they;d need to have good report writing skills and excellent customer service skills). I categorically would not wish to discriminate or breach the law, but equally I would find it incomprehensible if someone voted tory, believed in god or believed in stonewall and was cable of logically looking at facts.

So, Benjamin Disraeli, or Doris Day, or Marshal McLuhan wouldn't make the second interview?

Isn't it kind of manifest that neither being a Tory nor belief in god precludes logic or good writing skills?

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FannyCann · 26/10/2021 08:20

I'm a bit behind and have just started listening to episode 7. Every time I hear that nauseating voice telling a child how exciting it is that there are over 100 genders I want to do a full Violet Elizabeth Bott and sthcream and sthcream until I'm sick 🤢.

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LaetitiaASD · 26/10/2021 13:53

@dotoallasyouwouldbedoneby

Quote Laetitia ASD 'I categorically would not wish to discriminate or breach the law, but equally I would find it incomprehensible if someone voted tory, believed in god or believed in stonewall and was cable of logically looking at facts.'

Are you sure you really mean this? So with the other 3 parties actively trying to erase women as a sex class with self-id, you cannot fathom that someone who voted Tory would be capable of logically looking at facts...?
I think maybe you need to apply some critical thinking yourself.

I can see why someone might vote tory at the moment, kinda, but then again I can see why someone might think that destroying the NHS and democracy and all human rights is worse that eliminating women specifically.

POint taken - tory not a good example at this time.
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CreepingDeath · 26/10/2021 14:42

@seethesuninwintertime

I didn't think the non binary person in episode 4 was that bad. S/he seemed alright when talking about him/herself and shied away from having opinions about other people.

I was expecting someone aggressive and monstrous!

anyway it was good in that it didn't make me angry and helped me understand a bit what all those "non-binary" teenagers are telling themselves.

I thought he sounded so nonsensical, and just waffled about self indulgent nonsense. He was incredibly me, me, me...

And I still don't really understand what non binary is after listening to him. It just seems to be the new brand of 'I'm super special, I'm not like other people'.
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KittiesInsane · 26/10/2021 17:05

DD was explaining to me, rather perturbed, that she'd thought a new (teenage) friend was a girl, and that they'd arranged to go clothes shopping together, but now 'it turns out they're nonbinary, so I don't know how I feel about that any more'.

She was a bit unimpressed when I said 'Nonbinary male, or nonbinary female?' but admitted that this nonbinary-person, who looked to her eyes like a girl, is indeed a female-type-of-nonbinary-person; so I wished them well and suggested the shopping trip should go ahead.

Christ, some people make their own lives complicated.

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bordersroaming · 26/10/2021 17:13

I would be minded to say none binary isn't about being "super special "

It's a logical interpretation of self if you are raised in a world where gender compliance is strongly enforced

Yes I can see it helps to reinforce the gender binary they reject but if see the gender binary as invincible then it makes sense

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KittenKong · 26/10/2021 17:16

@KittiesInsane

DD was explaining to me, rather perturbed, that she'd thought a new (teenage) friend was a girl, and that they'd arranged to go clothes shopping together, but now 'it turns out they're nonbinary, so I don't know how I feel about that any more'.

She was a bit unimpressed when I said 'Nonbinary male, or nonbinary female?' but admitted that this nonbinary-person, who looked to her eyes like a girl, is indeed a female-type-of-nonbinary-person; so I wished them well and suggested the shopping trip should go ahead.

Christ, some people make their own lives complicated.

Just ask what sex they are. She does realise that male and female bodies are different shape and no amount or relabelling will change that.
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thirdfiddle · 26/10/2021 18:33

The more gender identity gets bedded into popular culture, the more people are going to realise it's sex that matters.

Pure practicality.

Can I share a bedroom with x friend mum? Depends. If you hit it off particularly well that night is one of you going to get pregnant or not DNonbinaryOffspring?

On this school trip we will share dorms by ... Ah, sorry don't have single rooms for gender fluid, demiboy and masc nonbinary, and the two genderfree kids are of the body types which could generate a pregnancy between them so they definitely can't share a double. Er...

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FindTheTruth · 26/10/2021 20:16

This afternoon in the House of Lords Baroness Fox asks about the Nolan Investigates Stonewall and Ofcom - timestamp 14:44:31
parliamentlive.tv/event/index/3af431d5-923d-46d3-a9ec-3bf5a3ad7d2f?in=14:44:31

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OldCrone · 26/10/2021 20:23

I would be minded to say none binary isn't about being "super special "

It's a logical interpretation of self if you are raised in a world where gender compliance is strongly enforced

You mean somewhere like Afghanistan or Iran?

It doesn't really make sense in a modern western democracy with equality laws.

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bordersroaming · 26/10/2021 20:26

Societal pressure has little to do with law

It's the pressure to conform that comes from your peer group

Pressure between teenagers mostly

Which is controlled far more by advertising and social media than law

Growing up in the 70s and 80s girls seem to have had more support to be mind conforming than today at the peer group level

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oldwomanwhoruns · 26/10/2021 20:33

Thanks for the link to Baroness Fox, @FindTheTruth. The wonderful lady asked the question! (about Ofcom/Nolan) But I do think that the bland reply rather fobbed her off? But is it significant that the question got asked at all?

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SteakExpectations · 26/10/2021 20:47

The response seemed to be “I haven’t heard it, we can’t openly denounce Stonewall, please help us BBC, you’re our only hope”

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FindTheTruth · 26/10/2021 20:48

oldwomanwhoruns the reply said I haven't listened to episode 9, so perhaps several of them will now listen to it! who knows...

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OldCrone · 26/10/2021 20:55

@bordersroaming

Societal pressure has little to do with law

It's the pressure to conform that comes from your peer group

Pressure between teenagers mostly

Which is controlled far more by advertising and social media than law

Growing up in the 70s and 80s girls seem to have had more support to be mind conforming than today at the peer group level

If it's just a youth movement it should come to a natural end fairly quickly as a new trend emerges, or the main players in this one start to be seen as old and out of touch. But the problem with what's happening now is that it's being reinforced by middle aged men for completely different reasons.

It's a shame that girls doing what was completely normal 50 years ago now feel the need to label themselves as 'special' and sometimes do themselves harm. Useful for those middle aged men, though.
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bordersroaming · 26/10/2021 21:31

Agreed

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oldwomanwhoruns · 26/10/2021 22:54

Thx @FindTheTruth, I didn't actually hear him mention the number of the episode, he just seemed to be trying to evade. Or vanish. Or dematerialize. I was a bit disappointed after hearing the glorious Baroness, so perhaps I wasn't listening very hard. I was hoping for better.

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Sacreblue · 27/10/2021 20:44

I’m still hoping for an investigation into the influence/pressure put on charities to adopt Stonewall language/interpretation of the law.

Charities generally exist to represent, support and lift up vulnerable groups.

How much damage has been done to their reputations at best, their missions in general, and most importantly the vulnerable groups they exist for?

E.g. female victims of male violence being excluded from what were single sex services because the language changed and it is no longer clear if those services are single sex.

Seriously, when the most vulnerable are involved we know they will be targeted - so why the actual fuck do those working with them (churches, charities, police etc) seem to get a pass on safe-guarding?

They should have more scrutiny because of who they work with, not patted on the head for any good deed with all the horrific bad deeds swept under the carpet.

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Outbutnotoutout · 14/11/2021 12:47

Just listening now...

Non binary

FFS surely this mayor is bi-sexual

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Outbutnotoutout · 14/11/2021 12:48

I'm finding his constant use of CIS really offensive

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Outbutnotoutout · 14/11/2021 13:28

Ep 5

Bloody interesting

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